Sexual Health
+1 y

Why do some girls prefer big penises?

Do they have bigger vaginas? Are they loose? Is it purely aesthetic? If the vagina is only 3-4 inches deep, there's no biological reasoning behind preferring something like an 8 incher I mean, girls who need a larger penis in order to feel anything or for it to feel good, health/medical conditions aside. I'm just wondering...because, I've only been with two guys. I think they were average, idk. Never measured and I never asked and the topic hasn't come up...although my boyfriend did has asked questions, like if I regret doing it with the guy I lost it to or if the guy was black... But I assume my boyfriend is average and even then sometimes it's uncomfortable...so to me, I wonder why some girls prefer or need a 8 inch penis
0 0

Most Helpful Guys

  • I'd say it's some aesthetic/psychological reasoning behind it, for most girls. The ones that like them big for the feeling are rare, as rare as those with the bigger penises. Since p*rn comes up so often with these topics, I suppose it's safe to assume that it does play some sort of a role in making people aware of bigger penises, in the very least.

    Answering purely from my own perspective, p*rn penises should be noticeably big. They don't have to be the biggest thing I've ever seen, but I like to see a woman enjoying a penis that isn't small or otherwise hidden behind her hand, hair, or whatever else. Having a big enough penis conveys a certain image of masculinity, I suppose.

    Have you ever seen those bits of p*rn where they send the p*rn stars out to have sex with regular guys? Those guys sometimes need some coaxing in order to get hard and even when they do, sometimes they're still of average length and/or girth. For some reason when I'm watching p*rn, that does not excite me to see a girl having sex with that. I can't really put it into words, but seeing a woman enjoy (at least) the aesthetic appeal of a larger penis makes the scene much better than her stretching out some average penis.

    As for how it relates to real life, since men put a lot of stock into the size of their penis, then it's only understandable that those who know they are on the larger size are more confident in themselves and thus would more likely make a better lover. This isn't because of their penis size, but because just as most guys wouldn't turn down having a bigger penis, most girls wouldn't turn down a guy with confidence (assuming she was into him).

    I guess it can be compared to strippers. Women will say all day that they aren't sexually attracted to strippers in the ways that guys worry about. And this may be true, but they still enjoy strippers. They can have that little fantasy and still like us "normal" guys just the same as they ever did. I think the penis size topic might be similar. When a girl might see one or talk about one, it has it's novelty but this doesn't mean they "settle" for average sized penises.

  • Some girls have big vaginas. But mostly girls on this site use it to get back at men for something or to hurt their ego because they can.

    • true...you'll get thumbed down for saying this though..

    • Nice to see the other guy above me's answer got removed, for unknown reasons. I'm sure it didn't break any rules. But I suppose that is all to typical of this fascist site.

    • Yeah...that was retarded. I'll give you BA but you can go anon again

Most Helpful Girls

  • Btw the user who states :Some girls have big vaginas. But mostly girls on this site use it to get back at men for something or to hurt their ego because they can."

    Bingo^^

    I'll also add that many of "those girls" have taken big d***s in the past and are now "accustomed" to them (to put it kindly). For those girls, there's always anal"

    and

    "Some girls have big vaginas. But mostly girls on this site use it to get back at men for something or to hurt their ego because they can"

    is the same user not another account commenting LOL

    • hmm...that's weird. there's a few users on here who do that quite a bit

    • im blocked by him so that's how I know. Clicked on them both to give a rating and its the same guy

    • @anon guy above I think its funny how the same comments are similar but right after each other and I'm somehow blocked by both people and nobody else on this page yet its not the same person... ummm yea sure.

    • Show All

  • Actually, I have never been able to tell a difference in most cases, they all are good. I, am married now so it is kind of only academic, however I did have one boyfriend who was large. At first I thought it would be better, but it turned out he was to big for me and we had difficulty making love without it being painful. My preference, ever since him, has been for a normal (around five inches) size penis. Ascetically, I also prefer a normal size penis, so I agree with you.

  • regardless of the size of girl's vagina, the larger the penis increases the chances of a man hitting the girl's g-spot and any other pleasure points, thus increasing a female's pleasure during sex.

    • I read that the g-spot is about a knuckle's length deep (2.5-3.5 inches) on the upper wall so I don't know how a bigger one would have a better chance unless you are talking specifically about girth and not length which most people refer to.

    • yea, was referring to girth :)

    • Wrong, shorter is more likely to hit G-spot, and I'm pretty sure you have no idea what or where G-spot is. To hit G-spot consistently the penis will ahve to be curved upwards. Hence why guys use fingers to stimulate G-spot.

    • Show All

Scroll Down to Read Other Opinions

What's Your Opinion? Sign Up Now!

Related Questions

Girls, do you have sex drive?
I just want to get fucked! How to get a guy to approach you/notice you at a party?
Are you mentally ill or mentally healthy, and is it difficult or easy for you to orgasm during masturbation?
If a guy told you he could cum farther than he can pee, what would be your reaction?

What Girls & Guys Said

5 11

  • Wouldn't even matter if the guy couldn't use it properly now would it?

  • The Americanism "Bigger is Better" for many...

    Some, bigger is well, required...

  • Some girls find it visually appealing therefore more arousing.

    Some girls who are virgins get hyped into thinking they need 8+ to orgasm from talking/peers... inexperienced types...

    Some girls are larger in the vagina department or are accustomed..

    A lot of girls don't know what a penis that is 6 inches to 9 inches even looks like. Women can't eye measure to save their lives... IN experience most women say I'm much larger then I am. Not gonna blast anything about my junk. What I'm saying is if a girl likes a penis or had great sex she will say to her friends or whoever "yeah he was like 9 inches" They don't know the difference (Most)

    Some girls say this on GAG they only like 8+ to hurt other guys egos because their jaded.

    I'd say there are generally some but fewer who prefer and like larger. Most are bullsh*tting/inexperienced as listed above.

  • Let me put it bluntly, vast majority of women are not good at all, at guessing guys size. Vast majority of women who think guy is 7 inches is actually between 5.5-6 inches. Women thinking guy is 8 inches is usually around 6.5 utmost.

    If a guy has larger penis for vast majority of women it will hurt. When women are aroused the vagina expands, so it can accommodate size up to a point. But if penis is too large the penis will hit the cervix, hence sex will hurt for women. Vast majority of women will not be able to take in more than 7 inches, it will hurt. Let alone 8 inches. Doesn't matter how long you keep taking 8 inch d!cks vagina wouln't magically grow in length.

    70% of women are happy with their partners penis size. Like I said women literally have no idea, can't guess at all by looking at a penis. Those women saying 7 or 8 inches. Measure it. You'll be surprised. 99% of women be happy with 6 inches trust me, as long as obviously he knows how to use it.

  • Well, it looks hotter and from what I understand the more "stretching" a vagina has to do, the more pleasant it feels in general (of course this doesn't apply to inexperienced girls or extremely huge penises).

    It is completely natural for animals to go for the bigger, even unnatural sized stimulus. That's why you see evolution favoring huge antlers, huge feather tails and absurdly bright coloring. If something is disproportionately big, it "must be good".

  • For me it feels better. First guy was 7 I had sex with and was damn good. Hence why I won't go smaller then a 7. Plus the vagina actually lengthens while aroused so 3-4 inches deep is normal not when aroused.

    • Have you tried 6 incheS? No chance of a guys skill pushing you over the edge regardless of size?

  • It is how you use it that matters more, bigger doesn't always mean better.

  • I think it's weird. my first boyfriend was 7.5 and that hurt a lot. so I'd prefer 6 for the next guy.

  • There are some people here who believe that any size penis will fit into a vagina ( some women here are quite vociferous about this ) , but based on my own experience and experience of other posters here, it's clear that this is not the case That's not to say that women don't put an emphasis on size, because they do, in my opinion.

    I suspect part of the answer is women like the feeling of being full. What constitutes full? Again, depends on the size of a woman's vagina. For some women that is 8 inches and girthy. So, they assume that's the best size for everyone. They fail to realize that they can just accept more than other women and not everyone is built like them. Perhaps this is due to the vagina being an internal organ and growing up women see only cosmetic differences between each other?

    I suspect part of the reason may also be mental, at least, for the ones that do not experience discomfort. I'm sure there are plenty of other reasons.

    In the end, a good fit is, by far, the best regardless where people fall on the size scale.

  • Beats me. Two of my friends are big and they say sometimes it sucks because you can't go all the way (they call it wasted d***) and girls can't give a proper bj on it.

  • I see this all the time "the vagina is only 3 to 4 inches deep". How is it that I have had sex with virgins and been more than 7 inches deep?

    • Because the vagina becomes longer and more stretchy when a girl becomes aroused.

  • It's just personal preference. The biggest guy I have been with was 11 inches but I've never met a guy below 8

    • Complete sh!t Lol 11 inches not even 1% of men have that. They will diffuclty keeping an erection, wouln't be hard, will hurt you like hell. Same with 8 inches. Vast majority of women will never be able to take 7+ inch.

    • Are you a p*rn star?

    • shes a troll

  • I think it's a combination of all of those things. Some have bigger vaginas. Some don't know what the size is and are told it's 8 inches or they just say it's 8 inches to impress their friends, you know, they have to talk a big game. I do think a lot of the times on here it is said to get at guys. Some are probably virgins and don't really know what they're talking about and go by p*rn or what other girls say. Actually, if all the answers one gives are to be believed, there are a couple that I know that fit that perfectly. I do think it is probably aesthically pleasing for a lot of girls. You might be able to confirm that.

    I don't know. The amount of girls that claim they have had 8 inches and above regularly is a little odd. I believe there's trickery afoot.

    Anyway, good question. I tend to learn towards girls trying to crush egos when it comes to this website. lol It seems that a lot of this site is that way.

  • I think some girls just have more room to fit stuff up there so they need something bigger to make it feel good

  • 3 to 4 inches? Only when not sexually aroused. When turned on, the vagina is capable of expanding a substantial amount to accommodate entry.

  • Porn distorts their idea of what a penis should look like

Latest Questions

Is my mom cheating Should I tell the guy?
Do girls with ugly bodies send nudes or hot bodies usually?
Do you feel bad when you watch porn sometimes?
If you recognised the person the other side of a gloryhole would you tell them?
Home >  Sexual Health  > Why do some girls prefer big penises?