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Do women fantasise about castrating their male partners?

I ask this question after watching the movie Teeth with my girlfriend, a pretty sick comedy horror about a vagina with teeth. She seemed to coyly enjoy it and gave me several smug looks during certain castration scenes. Once the movie finished she made several "joke" comments about castrating me. I've heard her make these sort of jokes in passing before but didn't really think anything of it, this time she really got carried away to the point where I questioned her if she gets a kick out of these sort of thoughts. Her face flushed red and she tried to change topic, I have never seen her as uneasy as this... Now I know a lot of women make smug jokes about cutting it off and fantasise about castrating men, and although they would never actually do it I understand this can be quite a satisfying thought for a woman. But a boyfriend or husband? is this normal? can a woman love someone but still take pleasure in knowing that he only remains a man because she allows him to remain a man? honest answers please...
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PS - please differentiate between reality and fantasy, I am talking here about female fantasy i.e. not a real-life intention!
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Most Helpful Guys

  • Some women do. My wife has confessed to me several times that she has fantasies of me being castrated and she finds it erotic. However she does not fantasize about actually doing the casrating. She just finds the idea of me being without my “equipment” erotic. I don’t think women are really that different from men when it comes to weird sexual fantasies. They may not be as prone to it or have them as frequently, but women definitely do have weird fantasies just as any men do.

  • Why does this intimidate you so much? Its not like anyone is gonna castrate you. Just back off and let her have her thoughts for herself. :P

Most Helpful Girls

  • No, not in real-life or in fantasy. Definitely not my thing. Have I threatened it, yep, because it definitely works, the guys run fast especially when they know you can (I work on a farm... its a mandatory skill). So in short, to answer your question, no.

    • who do you threaten, out of interest?

    • Guys who can't take a hint the first time... its kind of a last ditch effort if a guy just will not accept that I want nothing to do with him.

  • I'd only enjoy castrating a man if he cheated on me. Just kidding. But she's probably just joking about castrating you. She probably makes these jokes when you annoy her or act like a pervert. If she's serious, I suggest you run.. That's f***ed up.

    • its not about her actually being serious...but if its normal for women to fantasise about doing that sort of stuff.

    • You mean like men would only enjoy fucking a woman with a knife if she cheated on him? (Just kidding)

  • nope that is f***ed up , no fantasy , and its really kinda sick someone could fantasize about that, hurting a man in such a way, doing it, taking his pride etc

    • yeah it is pretty sick, thankfully you and the previous two posters agree with me on that...

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  • I felt sick reading this. Definitely not a fantasy of mine.

    • good to know not ALL females are like this!

  • No, I don't get a kick out of that at all.And just because your girlfriend acted uncomfortable, that doesn't necessarily mean that she does.

    • well, I can't see any other way to explain her behavior ...its blatant.

    • She could have just felt embarrassed that she made it seem that way, or she could have been thrown off by your question just because it was so direct. Unless she actually said yes you can't be sure that yes is the answer.

  • Nope, can't say I've ever thought of it. I think you might be looking into it a bit much lol.

  • They're just saying things like that because of how uncomfortable it makes men. Not because they're serious hahaha.

    • I never said she was serious about it...

  • I hope they do

  • First being a man or woman is a lot more complex than plumbing if you are as a man castrated you care still a man just becaus there are some parts missing dose not change no you are as a person. I have no prostrate and as a result a penis that is a large bump and a bad back and a 50% low of use of my right leg but still a 100%man. Just old and somewhat damaged.

  • lot of material on this topic start with Freud or don't skip it all look at (amateur porn and fetish movies) How many women in videos fetishize the idea of Castration Male and I wouldn't call it a niche porn by how many clips there are

  • Ugh no. I wouldn't want to castrate anyone in reality or fantasy unless he raped me or something.

  • Lmao it's a movie. Movie does not = reality.

    • no sh*t...i'm talking fantasy.

    • What's up with the attitude? For the record, women don't fantasize about that. But there's a lot of men that fantasize about mutilating a woman.

    • no attitude. that is really not a common fantasy amongst males, people with twisted fetishes aside. I've never heard guys joking or trying to unsettle or disturb girls with that sort of depravity but unfortunately can't say the same about women either IRL or online who do it all the time it seems.

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