It's bondage/rape/nonconsentual fantasy play that makes his dick grow bigger getting hot over the idea he forces you to give your body to him in unconditional surrender.
In these days of asking permisso for this/that sexual favors or even body contact... don't you see how in demand a pendulum swing this polar opposite will be?
It's about dominance, he gets off on the fact that you seem kind of helpless. It IS hot... but maybe talk to him and say you really want to touch him sometimes.
My boyfriend does this sometimes in missionary. He will pin my hands down on the bed together. I think its a dominating thing.
Well tell him next time you want to touch him.
Im thinking it has something to do with rape fantasy, he wants you to be helpless, hence why he puts your hands over your head.
Every guy is different, FOR ME, I put her legs up next to her head, and try to tap her heart, ha ha :D
Whoa I think there's a little wiggle room between "likes it because he feels dominant" and "rape fantasy". Chill dude
If you look up what rape fantasy means, it has the words "dominant, dominance, domination". So where is the wiggle room lol? I don't think there's any :p
It doesn't mean he has a rape fantasy.. I think women look sexy with their arms raised or back over their head because I just like that pose and the way it makes their breasts stick out.. He might just like how she looks in that position.
I could see the pinning, that's more of a dominance type thing. But just asking you put your arms above your head...either he finds that pose sexy because it reminds him of prn he's seen, or he thinks you look hot like that, or he has an armpit fetish.
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So what are the updates/results of all this? Hot times with wrists tied to bedposts?
thats a power trip for him. you should let him know you want to touch him. good luck
Your torso is more exposed this way. Particularly your breasts. In a way, as others have said, I guess you could conclude that it's a dominance thing, since you are more exposed.
Just look at yourself in the mirror (standing) and consider the difference in the body language between these poses:
1) Standing with your arms crossed
2) Standing with your arms to the side
3) Standing with your arms over your head
It's not that.
Girls are more sexier and sexually stimulating that way.
He thinks you look hot when you're laid back with your arms back and legs open giving yourself to him. Start touching him more at the start of sex and then lay back with your arms back at the end but slowly over time keep touching him longer and longer into the sex and I bet over time he will enjoy you touching him better than with your arms back.
Domination thing, and it makes your t*ts look better.
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