Is it a good thing he came twice last night?

Question basically says it all: is it a good thing (should I take it as a compliment) that my boyfriend came twice last night? Also, is it normal considering he came twice in less than 45 minutes? I didn't know men could fire up again that quickly lol I don't think he ever even lost his hard on, even after the second time he came, he was still hard.
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Most Helpful Guys

  • Yes, it's a good sign, and yes, you should take it as a compliment.

    Every guy has his own "normal". For some guys, "normal" means he can come 4 times a day, every day, and for some guys, "normal" means he can come once every other day. The majority of guys are somewhere in between.

    But no matter what his "normal" is, guys also have hormonal cycles just like girls do, and are also subject to external stimulation, whether visual, vocal, or physical. Every guy will have a random day when he just isn't interested in sex, either because he's tired (lack of sleep or exhausted from hard work), he's depressed, or he's upset/stressed. Likewise, every guy will have a random day when he is just hyper-sexual, and can perform well beyond his "normal".

    We aren't robots who can be counted on to do exactly the same thing, day-in and day-out; we're humans too, and we have our own variations.

  • It really depends on the guy. Id say its uncommon for an erection to last between multiple orgasms unless with the aid of viagra. However, multiple orgasms within 45 minutes isn't uncommon. Hell, I can recharge in under 20.

    But anyway, yes, its a good thing.

Most Helpful Girls

  • He's young, at the height of his potency, and you turn him on. Take it as a compliment.

    I was also not use to that when I first started dating my boyfriend 'cause he'd literally get hard from just a kiss. Now I take it as a serious compliment ;D

    • Hehe mine gets hard from just a kiss too xD

    • girl power :D

  • It's good - most guys can come more than once but going again with no break is good. Did YOU get to though?

    • Yup he made come twice which I've never done before :P That was fun lol

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  • Take it as a compliment... and take it also as a sign of youth (on the behalf of your bf).

    This is not all that unusual in younger men. I did this rather frequently with my early partners.

    I remember the very 1st time with a girlfriend (who was several years older) being rather amazed to find the original energizer bunny under the blankets with her.

    But, hey... enjoy. It's a good thing!

  • Two times in 45 minutes is nothing, when I was in my early 20s I came 6 times one night with a girl and then she woke me up the next morning with a blow job. I should have married her right then and there. Dammit.

  • I am young (21) and twice in 45 minutes is normal for me and certainly is fun. If I am really turned on or if it has been a while I can go again in 15-20 minutes...a bit longer for round three. I would take it as a compliment! I know everyone is different and there is no normal so just enjoy it. I know that younger guys can do a second or multiple rounds with no problem in a shorter time frame...I can. So I guess I will enjoy it while I am .young and you enjoy it also

  • Why do you think it may be bad? It clearly means that you really turn him on. You get him sexually excited no matter what. That's great. Then, say to him "Wanna return the favor?" in a seductive tone. Guide him how he can give you multiple orgasms. Show him where and how you like to be touched, and let him make the same moves. Both of you can have multiple orgasms in one night/session. Sounds perfect.

  • if he never lost his hard on he may have taken viagra

    • He doesn't take drugs lol

    • would you know?

    • Yes he's only 21 and both us are very honest with me another.

  • It's really good since it means that you are a master in giving pleasure.

  • that's really good, it means you're both attracted to one another

  • Let's analyze this for a second...

    You were surprised that not only could he get "fired up" that quickly between finishes, but also the fact that he didn't lose his erection at all. Not only this, but the more a guy orgasms the better.

    So now, does this question need to be asked when you seem to already take it as flattery?

  • It's good. It means you turn him on a lot.