I think that moving in would not be the best idea. This is possibly something you experienced and it gives you an understanding of another world/lifestyle but if it is becoming tedious then I am of the opinion that you have now grown out of it no matter how short this lasted.
If you move in with her you are making this your new lifestyle and need to leave the old/other one behind. I really believe that this is your life to live but I do not believe it is the healthiest split in the road to take. If she was a lot younger then maybe but I feel you are getting involved with an age group past your knowledge.
I also find it worrying that you are nothing more than a toy. She has made no effort to even hide this. You need to be valued as a person instead of as an object. I just find the whole situation uncomfortable and not from the point that you are a swinger. You have no value to anyone involved and they are all a lot older. They don't have as much of a future to look forward to or to destroy. They at a different stage of their lives!
I really hope you make the decision that will make you happiest.0 0 0 0
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sounds to me to you need a break from it all in general. not saying stop it all together but at least take a little hiatus.
What you are involved in sounds very strenuous both physically and mentally and trying to balance that with the rest of your "normal" life must be tedious. It sounds to me like you are mentally exhausted by all the new experiences and it is causing you to feel physically exhausted.
Moving in while it may provide some semblence of brief rest will only force your body to undergo more transitions which to be the cause of your exhaustion to begin with
Can you just take a break from the scene for a while? Perhaps a few weeks or a month or two?0 0 0 0At the point where wine and sex become tedious is when you need to reexamine your lifestyle choices.
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