Never been horny?

[Anonymous]

I have never been horny like ever! I am not a sexual person at all. I don't know I guess I could just care less about sex. It's not that big of a deal to me. I have never masturbated. I am 24 years old. I was never raped or molested ever but I just don't care about sex. Is this weird? I have had sex before but we have just had to use a lot of lube since I don't get lubricated on my own. Oh and I am not a nerd or anything like that. I am a normal fun girl who enjoys going out with her friends and having a good time just not sexual at all.

[Anonymous]

this a little odd...but honestly who really is "normal". I don't really think there is such a thing as "normal". do what feels right for you and leave the rest alone. seriously...why waste your time worrying about whether or not what you do or feel...even in the most general sense... is okay? it's just not worth the energy.

but if you are worried about it...have you had bloodwork done at the doctor to rule out any kind of hormonal imbalance?

[Anonymous]

Same here, I'm not interested in sex either, but I'm a virgin so maybe that will change after I lose my virginity, but even then, I just can't imagine actually liking it or fantasizing about it.

[l-hedoniste]

Uncommon, but not weird. I've known a few asexual people, who have roughly the same interest in sex that I have in metal fasteners. They're generally happy folk.

One thing: share this trait with your dates EARLY.

[anthony42]

it may not be weird if just you may have no found the right person...or the right touch to get you horny

[Anonymous]

I feel the same way. I'm not a lesbian but I am just no interested in sex. To be honest, it freaks me out a bit.