Girls - Is a boner a compliment?

Yes, I know it is an awkward question. Say you are cuddling with a guy and you notice he has a boner. What do you think about that? If you have a better situation in mind, please say so. I was wondering this, since we guys do not control it or barely control it. It can be EXTREMELY annoying at times. I wonder what the other sex things about this :P
I take it as a compliment
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EW! No, not really
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  • Yeah. Before my boyfriend and I were dating he got a boner as soon as we started cuddling and he was super embarrassed about it buy my reaction was basically MUAHAHA I WILL PUT THAT INSIDE OF ME because I'm just a supervillain obsessed with sex.

    I also cuddled with this one guy I've known for years and he got a boner but since I wasn't really into him I was just like go me, I rock rather than plotting to corrupt him.

    In summary, I'm sleep deprived and take it as a compliment.

    • Thanks for that, funny as hell XD I know how it feels to be sleep deprived :P

  • Of course it's flattering. I like playfully rubbing up against my Boyfriend in public jst to see if I can get him hard, then I proceed to rub his boner when people aren't looking or ill jump up on the cart and have him push me around with his hardness pressed firm against me...it's a fun little game we play to get each other worked up for when we get home. We've been caught by random people before, it's kind of amusing.

  • I will definitely take that as a compliment. Nothing is more sexier than knowing the fact that your man is hard for you.

    He doesn't have to be my man ... he could be a stranger guy I encounter ... BUT I mean if a 40 year old had a boner for me .. I DON'T THINK THAT'S CUTE (lol).

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  • I asked a question on here a few years ago about a time I was dancing with a girl and poked her in her leg. most girls said if she's intrested in the guy or if he's not creepy they would take it as a complment.

  • of course this is only cool if she likes the guy if some random crazy on the bus had a boner it be creepy and she'd run away

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  • I find it amusing and yes, I take it as a compliment.

  • I would take it as a compliment.

  • I would take it as a compliment. Some guys have a hard time getting it up.

  • I would also take it as a compliment :)

  • For a guy you're cuddling with, yes. You find me sexually attractive. I obviously feel somewhat comfortable around you if we're in this situation. I'm glad I turn you on.

  • Yup, it sure is :)

  • it's cute.

  • I think it's cute and flattering when my boyfriend gets one. I notice that he often has a boner around me lol. I just take it as a major compliment

  • A, and it can sometimes turninto so ething else with my bf

  • Compliment, hands down. He's reacting like that because of me after all...

    could you answer my question, plz?

    girlsaskguys.com/Flirting-Questions/861239-guys-plz-would-you-tell-a-girl-you-had-a-wet.html

    Tks!

  • Only if I like the guy or know him well

  • it depends.

    Sometimes its funny because it happens over something I think is not "bonerworthy" ( like cuddling) then I just think .. reeeeally, from cuddling? but I know its not controlable most of the time.

    Otherwise I don't really see it as a compliment .. just as something that happens.

  • I'd also like to know the answer to this from a girls perspective. Mostly because I was recently around a friends house (who has crush on me) and she was just looking at my boner and didn't say anything.

    • lol

  • yes I love it

    I love pretending not to notice and seeing how horny they get lol