Why do some guys dislike kissing after oral sex? (Guys & Girls opinions appreciated)

[Anonymous]

Fellatio, blow job, giving head, performing oral sex... Whatever you wish to call it, there are certain aspects of going down on a guy that still puzzle me a little bit.. A major one being why is it that some guys (I'm not sure if it's a majority or minority) dislike kissing their girl after she has gone down on him? Some even refuse to do so... Why is this? Do you dislike kissing your girl after she has given you head? If so why? Does it depend on if you are in a relationship with her or if it's just a one night stand? Does it depend on whether or not you came in her mouth? Whether she has swallowed or not or something to do with the amount of time between giving head and her kissing you..? If you are grossed out by the idea of kissing your girl after your penis has been in her mouth in general (no particular circumstances required) then why is that? Is it psychological, taste, something to do with homophobia and having semen in your mouth...something else? If you don't mind either way or are turned on by it, then how come? Whatever your views/preferences are, does the same apply to when you go down on your girl, and then kiss her? For example are you okay kissing her after you go down on her but just don't want to kiss her after she goes down on you? Girls, I would really like your opinions as well. Please help me understand this and thank you ahead of time for those that take the time to answer :)

[madhatters4]

they don't like the idea of tasting of touching their own cum.

Me personally I'll kiss my girlfriend (she also doesn't swallow).

Something I always found intriguiing... In a lot of the traditional Italian cultures husbands won't let their wives give them oral because they feel it is dirty and disrespectful to put their p*nis and thus come in the mouth of the woman who kisses their children and family

[madhatters4]

try not to take it personally. it isn't anything against you and really it's just that guys hang up.

[MRGQ12]

A real man who is sexually confident has no problem with it. The whole point is to "taste" each other and enjoy it. Personally I think its super hot to kiss after, I love tasting her juices

[Asker]

Agreed :) Like I said I think a lot of sex is swapping bodily fluids (which can be very erotic) and I think this is just one more way of doing so, that's why I find it puzzling why some find it gross. Thanks for commenting.

[steffyswan]

Its because they think body fluids are disgusting, many of these guys can be real selfish for real. I agree, if you find it okay for me to suck your own dick, then why the hell don't you want to kiss me after? Just seems like stupid and childish behavior . Nowadays men are like boys in diapers, real childish.

[Loulou57]

Then you should never do it for him again

[douride2]

If he wouldn't kiss me after I went down on him it would be the last blow job he got from me. If it's that disgusting to him I sure not going to put his d""k in my mouth. After all I don't mind kissing him after he's gone down on me.

[sultry_ayumi]

Does he actually go down on you?

[Loulou57]

I think most men are just afraid of what you might think. To be honest with you I think a lot of people taste their own bodily fluids they just don't want to admit it. I enjoy the pleasure with my lady friend

[talover]

I suppose it's subjective and a matter of preference. For me, kissing is allowed any time. I love it before oral sex, during oral sex and after.

[gonyr]

My girlfriend outright refuses to kiss me after I go down on her lol

Ill kiss her if she just sucked it a little bit before sex.

A full on bj though? Maybe we should both mouthwash

[Bricealan]

The sword cuts both ways. I ALWAYS wanted to French kiss her after she sucked me, because I wanted to see how her mouth tasted after my penis was in it for several minutes. A little slimy, but not salty. I did not cum in her mouth, and she thought it strange that I wanted to kiss afterward. I want to see what my penis tasted like.
She did not want to kiss me after I ate her pussy or her ass, AND THAT really made me angry.
A girl at work said semen in her mouth was like "a mouthful of WARM SNOT"

[Cottoncandydreams]

I heard its because it feels like they are sucking their own penis.

[douride2]

I now a few guys would probably like to be able to do that.

[Cottoncandydreams]

ahahaah true

[Flower-petal]

I like when he eats me then kisses me. It's hot

[niomi04]

My fav

[Flower-petal]

@niomi04 it's great right?

[niomi04]

I love it...

[whynot223]

I love kissing her after she goes down on me, whether I come or not, whether she swallows or not!

[Flower-petal]

Nice

[whynot223]

I happen to love it when she kisses me after she has given me a blowjob. Its hot and its kinky!

[hannibal214]

i have no problem kissing if the come has been swallowed or otherwise disposed of

[Loulou57]

I would never turn her away. Meaning if she's nice enough to give me a blowjob why wouldn't I enjoy kissing her afterwards. I mean I go down on her does she not kiss me.

[Anonymous]

becuase they aren't into it. that's all.

[Anonymous]

well because they think body fluids are disgusting. I haven't done it but I guess I would get used to it and hope my partner does too.

[Anonymous]

Kissing after a girl has gone down on me isn't a turn-on for me, but it isn't a turn-off either.

Kissing a girl after I have gone down on her is a turn-on for me.

[Anonymous]

Why do some women take every opportunity they can to take offense or feel degraded?

I've been with several women who didn't want to kiss after I went down on them. It certainly didn't make me feel degraded or offended. I think you're over thinking this.

[Asker]

I do not take every opportunity to feel degraded/offended. Just this one. That's even more ironic since I am into BDSM... I just feel like why is it OK for my mouth to be there when its too gross for yours to come into contact with when its your body to begin with? A lot of sex is about swapping bodily fluids so why is this different? If you're grossed out about your d*** then I don't want it in my mouth, feels unfair to me. But I guess that's just my opinion...