Why do guys like girls that swallow?

[Anonymous]

I've been dating my guy for almost two years and recently tried to swallow after a bj. I had never done that before and the first time it was ok. Now whenever we have sex he always wants me to swallow. It's like now I can't even remember the times before that when I didn't. What I want to know is why is he so interested in me doing that? And girls, are there any tips on how to look like I'm swallowing without really? I mean I've seen the porn movies before and I've noticed that the girls really don't swallow it all cause most of it never makes it past there lips

[Anonymous]

Just don't even think about it. It's really salty and tart but if you swallow fast enough you won't really taste it too much. And it makes it better by keeping his tip/head way in the back of your throat (if you can do that) when he does swallow, that way it doesn't really touch any of your taste buds. My guy was nice enough to give me a drink of water after cause he knows it probably doesn't taste the best. But just don't even think about it. They really do like it a lot better when you swallow. I don't really mind it, but I also won't do it every single time. Sometimes it does make me gag, but he usually understands. It's always nice when a guy understands, as long as we understand too. I understand what he wants, and he understands what I want as well.

[melisa20smith]

1 way you can act like you didn't swallow for a guy to think you did is put his come under your mouth but for me I love to swallow plus what I've read on guys and stuff its like a acceptance thing and it makes them feel great that you would swallow for them go on ivillage.com and you will find all your questions there or go to ask.com another place so yea hope this helps if not message me I'm am always interested and nosy about guys so I look up stuff so I'm like a dictionary on men hehe but I have found some usefull info about what guys really want in bed and stuff like that so hit me up if any more info is needed

[Anonymous]

My boyfriend loves that I swallow after a bj, one it's cleaner than if he came all over the place, and also because I think he finds it attractive that I would take that extra step even after I got him off, ya know.

But as far as when you have sex and he still wants you to swallow, I think that's ok every once in awhile(plus then you don't have to worry about getting pregnant), but you shouldn't have to do it every time. You should tell him how you feel

[nickmcd]

It's not dominance for me. To each his own.

The reason I like it when she's swallows is because it turns me on to feel like that was her goal, to just suck my penis like a straw and just swallow what came out... mmmmm

The biggest turn on is when a girl wants to suck on your dick like she can't even resist. Holy sh*t it's like you want this penis so bad you just need to caress it, touch it, play with it, kiss it, and above all, suck on it like you've waited all your life too? God damn that gets my head spinning and my knees weak. That just melts me.

-nick mcd

[Pretyp412]

@nick mcd I honestly believe that is the actual feeling 99% guys actually feel..

[sobg71124]

It is more intimate and personal and more of a turn than anything. Just the anticipation of her mouth. Her warm, soft mouth, that she kisses you with, and eats with. You are in there, her head is tipped back in anticipation, hands gently pulling on her hair, her eyes gazing up into yours patiently. Then when you cum, it feels SO amazing, and the feeling lasts a long time. A big part of it too is that you are making her be submissive to your will. And she is complying all the way. Nothing is more exciting or a turn-on for a guy.

[Cardiobroker]

I’ve never had a girl NOT swallow. Ever. Even when I was a kid and certainly not since getting married. There are a variety of reasons but the main one is I would hate it if she didn’t swallow. I don’t even like when she misses a drop and it goes on the floor!

Are you super young? I would think most guys would expect you to swallow. I know I would never date someone who didn’t.

[Zephyrus]

I have no idea. It isn't a turn on for me what so ever, it wouldn't make a difference to me at all. I'll have to ask people.

[smiles18]

Have you ever gotten a bj?

[NotSoBad]

I like it because I can keep enjoying the pleasure until I'm completely through with my orgasm. I mean if she wanted to give me a hand job and allow me to shoot on her face or chest that would be good too. But to have someone getting you to orgasm and then stop to spit it out or like run to the bathroom to spit is kind of a buzz kill.

[dave216]

I think that the reason is domination. It goes back to the hunter. The more game a man killed the better hunter he was and thus the higher his status. Well the more women he can seduce, the higher his status. The more he can dominate a women, the higher the status. A finger in your p**** is not as good as intercourse. Intercourse and a blow job is better. Cumming in all your openings is higher yet.

[Euro-Raver]

It's more of a bam-orgasm, DONE. Sort of a longer lasting orgasm if you don't stop and just take it all in.

[thomas24]

When a woman takes a man’s semen into her mouth, he feels as though she’s accepting him on a subconscious level. She not only doesn’t mind that she’s swallowing it and tasting it, she’s acting as though she enjoys it, which makes him feel confident in his sexual abilities.

[reno117]

I don't really give a damn, I have tasted my oen cum and it is not something I would want anyone to swallow, I would eat fruits to make it taste better and then if she wants to swallow i'm ok but I woulf never ask a girl to swallow it I really really don't give a crap what happens with the cum and I don't get why other guys do.

[bluehen46]

Its hot when a girl takes it in her mouth and lets it out called an oral creampie. That might be a good out. Use your tongue a bit and lick it like you like it.

[cavmanier]

I don't know it just seems primal. If the girl WANTS to do it it's hot. I feel like it shows sexuality our something. Like she's really into it.

[bowenw]

If you enjoy swallowing you should as it feels wonderful to the guy, but don't feel obligated. A guy that expects you to swallow, whether you like it or not, is not someone you want to be with. You shouldn't have to pretend to do it. If he's not happy with you spitting, it's his problem not yours. He should be thankful you let him put his dick in your mouth in the first place.

[tin1998]

Because we girls who like to swallow are better lovers, that's why.

[ThePostMan]

Had a girlfriend that said she would not swallow at all. So one day, I got her hot and wet and went to town on her pussy. When she was going to cum I stopped. She tried everything to get my tongue back on her pussy. She ended up using her fingers to finish. I asked her how was it and she wasn't happy that I stopped. She said it always felt much better when I kept licking and sucking until her orgasm was over. She asked me why I stopped. I told her, that's how I feel when I'm getting ready to cum and you just stop and stare at my cock.
The next time she gave me a blow job, she didn't swallow, but she didn't stop until I was finished.

[Sidexsideman63]

You guys that have a lady that swallows or that will even let you cum in their mouth are very fortunate. My wife and I were both virgins 44 years ago when we got married. I had shown my wife, girlfriend at the time pictures of guys cuming in women's mouths and talked to her about it and told her I would really like to do that. I just assumed that when we became husband and wife that she would do it because she never said she wouldn't. Well the only time I have ever got to cum in her mouth in the past 44 years was one time I came and she didn't know I was going to. She had a fit and spit cum everywhere and told me how awful it was needless to tell you guys this but my feelings were really hurt and I have never cum in her no mouth again. I don't know how many times I had performed oral sex on her before this happened but I had eat her many many times always to completion unless she told me to stop for some reason. There were times when her juices would flood my mouth and I would keep going and swallow everything that I could. I love my wife more than anything and would never make her swallow or make her let me cum in her mouth I know that she loves me but I don't think that she loves me the same way that I love her because I would do anything to please her in any way as long as it doesn't hurt anyone or as long as it isn't illegal. If she would swallow it would be the greatest thing that she has ever done for me. I will tell you ladies this, be really good to your man sexually if you love him, I'm not saying that you should let him do anything to you that is going to hurt because you shouldn't and he shouldn't do anything to you that would hurt but swallowing some cum isn't going to hurt you and if you turn him away in that area over and over again sooner or later it may hurt his desire toward you sexually.

[tat288]

Its not that u HAVE to swallow but u can't just stop right b4 he's about to cum n be like ok finish urself could u imagine a guy doing that to u. I've actually had times where a girl stopped like that so I didn't cum in her mouth n it ruined it completelyn felt like I didn't even orgasm. U have to suck through his oorgasm completely. After that it doesn't matter what u do with it lol just dont stop too early.

[dontbedouchy]

Personally I really like to swallow and it doesn't taste bad, it actually tastes really good. You dont have to do it every single time though, I think you should talk to him. My bf loves when I do it and he kisses me right after I do it which is really nice. Its cleaner, it makes him happy and he loves you more. However, its your decision to swallow or not to. I don't think there is any way to fake it. You should talk to him, its a better option.

[graaaaaaa]

Absolutely love how u put it! My lover tells me they way u have but now I believe it to be true. Thanks

[TheseusEscaped]

When a girl swallows a guy's cum, it shows how much she wants him. Spitting it out is a sign of rejection. I personally wouldn't stay with a girl who wouldn't swallow. My girlfriend is always asking for my cum and swallows every time. I'm holding on to her for good. She's a keeper.

[Anonymous]

For me personally, I find it a huge turn-off if the girl spits out my spunk after I've cum in her mouth. For her to accept it, then swallow it makes the whole procedure seamless and more natural. If she pretends to swallow it, then goes to the bathroom later and discreetly gets rid of it, that's OK, too. I agree with the last answer in that I think there's an element of domination in this. While she's taking my spunk, I'm the boss, I guess.