I would feel like I was being slighted to be honest. But she shouldn't pressure you to do something that you don't want to do. Your friend has a big mouth man. Why don'y you just say I had a really horrible experience and I don't want to resent you, and it tore our relationship apart and that you value this relationship more than your last and you would hate to ruin the special bond that you to share.
Make her feel special about it. Tell her the truth that it made you feel degraded and you really don't want this to ruin what you are your current girlfriend share. Maybe get her flowers haha, If I were a guy that would be my answer for everything. tbh though. If she keeps pressuring you though that's not cool, if it were reversed you would be considered a total ass hole for making a poor girl eat your ass. Make sure to NOT make her feel like she is too dirty or something you know, like something is wrong with her. Make her feel special and wanted without compromising. Hope this made sense and helped it's a fine line but I think telling the truth about how you felt and how this really was kind of like the straw that broke the camel's back in your last relationship. And that it reminds you of a really awful time that you had.0 0 0 0i think I would be hurt at first too because she doesn't know the whole story like you told us. I would sit her down and tell her why you don't like doing it and then I think she will feel better because right now she probably thinks you don't want to do it because of her and not because of your ex.
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6 0Yes, to some extent it would. But I'd be reasonable. With something like that, I wouldn't be hurt over cause I'd understand.
But if it was something like cuddling/kissing or maybe even oral sex(if it meant something to me).
But I think it's proper etiquette to not discuss what has or has not been done with previous partners...i mean, my boyfriend has told me there's a few things that we've done that he's never done, but he doesn't talk about the past in detail.0 1 0 0it happened to me in a similar way and it was really upsetting and hurtful.
0 0 0 0it hasn't happened to me, but I would feel hurt definitely. I would ask myself why not me?
0 0 0 0no, I think I wouldn't care about it because now he is with me and he will share new things with me, I don't want my realtionship to be a carbon copy of his past relationships
0 0 0 0well mine is kind of differnt but my boyfriend has done anal with all his exes, he asked me to do it but I said that is something I would never do.
He got really upset and kind of pissy, but after a while he got over it and our sex life is great.
You gotta draw a line, and if the person you're with loves you they will understand and obey your wishes.0 0 0 1wtf is up with your ex...doesn't sound like a very open sexual relationship
if you tell her exactly what you told us I think your current girl would understand. I would understand if I were her. And just be like "Seriously baby if there's anything else you want to try I'm willing to do it because I love pleasing you, but that is just something I'm kinda scarred from...I can't get out of that mindset and I just can't do it."0 0 0 0
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