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For guys, there is no such thing as "free sex", even if it doesn't require money, what do you think?

Because even if a guy is getting laid for free, without paying for it, he still had to do work in order to earn that "free sex", he had to have confidence, get his validation and self-worth from things other from women, which wasn't an overnight process for him to develop, he had to get a life if he hadn't had one already, have a lot of things going for him, and thousands, millions of attributes, traits about him which took a long time to develop, but yes, anything worth having in life doesn't come easy, that applies to women as well because women are just so damn picky and choosy, they want a guy who is a very, extremely "rare" type, and the guy had to approach and talk to women, doing the initiating, leading, etc. After all, it is commonly argued and accepted that women are the gatekeepers to sex, so in essence, women, not men, are the only ones who are getting sex for free. Plus, there is a famous philosophy, that nothing is free in life, even if it doesn't require money, it's still not free because you had to put in effort in order to get it, and plus, another way I see it, is that, having a girlfriend and going to hookers/prostitutes, one way or another, the guy is gonna pay for it, since the guy is expected to pay on the first couple of dates, buy gifts, so you see the point here? for guys, there is no such thing as free sex
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because if a guy is struggling to attract girls, he has to do something about it, but if a girl is struggling to attract guys, she doesn't have to do anything about, she just has to wait for the right one, for girls there is no such thing as being unable to attract guys, only just being unable to attract the guys she wants
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after all, guys are expected to be in control of their own destiny, their own lives, anything in life that involves taking charge, taking control or being in charge, being in control, is always expected of us guys, and that is god damn work you know!
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  • Boils down to women choosing whom she can squeeze more effort from. I was watching the Boondocks, a friend recommended it, and during an episode Huey was trying to figure out what was the difference between a Hoe, and a woman. Because both will demand your time, your cash and your energy. The only main difference is that the hoe, has set her price and the "normal girl" bargain her price. At the end it's up to the Man to decide if she is worth the effort.

    Beggars can't be choosers.

    A woman during her fertility down fall, isn't much of a prize. Pretty much after 25 up to 35. There is no such thing as "free sex", but cheap sex is the best a man can aim for. You simply need to learn to bargain your price with girls. I've heard girls arguing with their girlfriends because her Boyfriend wasn't paying enough attention to the girl she was dating and the girl got the advice of fighting her boyfriend for the attention she deserved, but the girl was unsure about it because she might end up Without a relationship for following her friends' advices. As I was listening to that I felt pride in my balls.

    • For clarity sake I'll rewrite the last part: I was listening to a conversation a groups of girls were having. Girls (a) was being lectured by her friends, because her friends considered that girl (a) was selling herself low and that she should fight her boyfriend for more commitment on his part. Girl (a) was feeling uneasy with the advice her friends were giving her, because she feared being alone more than the price she set for her commitment to him (BF of (a)).

    • The female friends trying to micro-manage the relationship, futher emphasizes the importance of knowing how to bargain and always be aware of novel options. That is why once girls get older, the price of sex lowers significantly because many girls get into fights with controlling friends, learn to bargain, and become invisible to men as their looks fade. Basically what it entails for women is High risk High gain. Aging is empowering for men. ^_^ hooha! God bless manhood.

    • girls have he final say that's their advantage

  • yup pretty much

Most Helpful Girls

  • No, you're not paying for "sex' when you enter into a relationship.

    The woman isn't standing before you putting a price on herself, and making a job of it like prostitutes/hookers.

    Its insulting to compare a real woman to someone like that.

    You are entering into a relationship with someone you are compatible with.

    Because everything around us cost money, you may spend money to take her places.

    And she may do the same for you.

    Like what a relationship entitles someone to do.

    • yeah but the guy had to do the work in order to make the relationship happen, by approaching and talking to her first, asking her out, leading, etc.

    • Yeah but that's not nearly the equivalent of a prostitute. To think every woman is this way shows how you do not respect and degrade them.

    • well I wasn't really implying that it is the equivalent of a hooker, what I meant is that, in order for a guy to get a girlfriend, relationship, or sex, he has to be the one to do something about it, it's what is expected of guys

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  • but why is the process of getting to know a woman, learning about her, falling for her (hopefully) equated to having to work for it? don't you WANT to get to know her, have fun going out with her? sex isn't a 'reward' or something that you should have to work for. it's something that two people want to share with each other, to get to a deeper level of understanding each other. if you treat it like a chore, you will start resenting women.

    • because the guy has to do the work in order to make the date and relationship happen, that's why

    • You must be pursuing some low caliber girls if they don't have their own destinies to fulfill. I feel sorry for you

  • Are you saying that women don't need self esteem and confidence for sex...?

    • it's just not as important for girls to have as it is for guys

    • How would you know? are you a girl?

    • well guys are expected to do the approaching, asking out, initiating, leading

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  • Jesus Christ, what the hell do you want? For women to fall down in the streets with their legs spread in the air when you walk by? The f*** is your damage?

    • this sh*t, right here- this sh*t is f***ing ridiculous. Nobody owes anyone anything besides basic good manners. Sure as hell nobody owes anyone sex. I weep for the future. How are you going to raise your girl-children, unless of course you intend to drown them at birth? You going to teach them to f*** everyone who demands access? This makes me dry-heave. I am so f***ing disappointed.

    • Sorry to give you the bad news, but this is the environment your are going to raise your girl-children in and she will be exposed to an extreme pressure to conform to the new social norms. You can either choose to abort any female foetus, or you can suck it and learn to survive in this environment.

    • I don't think I am grasping what you are saying. Could you clarify? Are you saying that I need to raise my daughter to believe that she should have sex with any man who asks or demands it of her because that's the new normal? Is that what you are saying?

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  • And what about all the work and sacrifice girls go through working out at the gym, counting calories and running? What about all the time they spend doing their hair and makeup? What about all the money they spend on cosmetics, clothes and other products just to look good in order to get guys to pay attention to them? That doesn't count?

    • yeah but that doesn't take nearly as long as developing the confidence and financial success, social-skills, conversation-skills, charisma in order to attract girls, get a girlfriend

  • I'd agree with you on this!

  • Now that I think about it I never once worked to attract anyone; I guess that means that and any all sex I've had was effortless. As a matter of fact I am asked for sex never vice versa. That's weird now that I think about it. Fruit for thought.

    I'm not supposed to be here.

  • do you want free sex? I don't see why your complaining. your picking on general roles that often occur in society... you don't have to follow them. its quite often for women to the make the first move nowadays. personally I WANT to pay for the first couple dates and I WANT to make the first move and I WANT to be the guy that she finds rare and have all sorts of these attributes. if you don't want that then I'm sure you can find something similar to yourself

    • yes, yes give me the negative karma mmmmm your tears so good

    • very rare for girls to approach guys

  • absolutely!

  • yes I totally agree haha.

  • i agree

    • nice of you to think

  • Yeah sure

  • well yeah I agree with you

    • nice to know

  • girls get d*** by simply having a p****

    im yet to ever hear of a guy getting p**** by simply having a d***

    girls expect a guy to do all kinds of BS just because they have a V. they want guys to give them their time, emotions, and effort yet still don't think that we are worth anything... then add on how much money guys will spend on them and it is just amazing

  • Yes, absolutely. It's natural and not necessarily a bad thing. It just is... link

  • I agree with that, the woman has the final say if you're having sex or not, that's just how it is.

    • well glad someone agrees with me

  • When you peel back the layers, yeah that's true. You can either outright pay for it. You can pay via other ways such as dating where you take her to places. That takes time and money.

    Even the player types that get sex often still buy things and have to have that confidence and go through trial and error to get that sex. Girls are the people that are pursued. They have to spend a minimal amount of time to prep themselves for a night out. That's about it. If they are looking for a relationship, same thing applies. When guys first approach, they don't know the personality and if she is pretty attractive, guys will put up with their inadequacies.

    • Here here!

  • You'll pay for it one way or another, either before or after. Not always, but usually...

    • YES!

  • False.

    Sometimes, people don't have to work for booty at all. It does actually fall in some people's laps.

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