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How do you get sperm out of your hair?

A pretty humiliating question here. So it was after exams party and that's like THE party of the year. This guy started hitting on me, one thing led to another and a little later I was giving him a blow job in the bathroom and he necessarily wanted to give me a facial. I wiped it off asked him if there was nothing left to see on me (no mirror anywhere to find) and he said no. I went back to the party and saw some people laughing. Luckily I didn't walk around longer than a few minutes till one of my friends told me that I had some come in my hair and not just a little. I went back to the bathroom to get it off with some toilet paper but it got messier. I had to go home real early to wash my hair and didn't go back. So my night was ruined cause of this guy. So girls: how the hell can you get it out of your hair without a shower? And guys: I know there are a lot of nicer guys out there, but do some of you find it funny to humiliate a girl after sex? I mean I was giving this guy the time of his life without him having to do anything for it. It's like I just gave him a free gift and he doesn't even feel like being a little thankful and not humiliate me, cause he obviously saw it.
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  • That guy is an a**hole. Clear, no doubt possible.

    Avoid a**holes.

    Just DO NOT give BJ's as if it's a Mentos ('a free gift') to guys you don't know well enough to be certain they aren't a**holes and they aren't infected.

    LOL! Yes, I laugh, because what happened to you is only minor, compared to the serious risks.

    Oral sex REALLY about as risky as vaginal:

    STDs are transmitted orally too: link

    NO, oral sex is NOT safe: link

    Oral Herpes : link link

    Girls can get about any STIs in the book from it, guys can get penis cancer from it.

    Do you do it often? When did you get tested last time?

    I sincerely hope you get a clean bill of health. Yes, sincerely. So that you don't spread it.

  • A) some people find it funny to humiliate others. These are the same guys who are drawing penises on their passed out friends faces, etc.

    B) some people find it arousing to humiliate a sexual partner, but if they're not an a**hole, they wouldn't do it in a non-consensual way. People who are actually turned on by facials, the dominance/humiliation is often a big part of it. And some of those people might find it hot to have people see you after ... but springing it on you is not okay.

    I'd guess your guy was type 'A'.

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  • Shampoo and water would easily remove it as you know or just a damp rag wiping the area would probably work also.

    Your first problem was not keeping his penis in your mouth so all that spunk would be down in your belly with no mess ever!

  • Don't get a facial?

    on a more serious note...

    Who the F doesn't have a mirror in their washroom?

    • I didn't really want a facial, but he really insisted on it. And I think there used to be a mirror but it probably got destroyed by some drunk people falling against it. The place is not too fancy.

    • he really insisted on it, thus you complied?

    • When you are attracted to a guy and you try to please him, you sometimes give in to some stuff.

  • Why did he have to give you a facial when you are at a party? How did you check your make-up?

    • I didn't wear that much. Just around my eyes but I didn't feel anything landing there. I don't know why but he really wanted to. I said he could come and my mouth but he kinda insisted on shooting it in my face.

  • soap water and a bathroom sink , and on your second question blame p*rn.

    • Thanks. Short, to the point and actually helpful. Does the normal soap they have in a public toilet work as good as shampoo? I know its not that good for your hair, but if it's just a part of it, it's no problem, right?

    • It 'll do the job. The problem might be getting the hair dry but during summer it won't be that bad.

    • Yeah it does not that I've ever tried it but it should do the trick. I bad hair is less humiliating than come on it

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  • you obviously choose the wrong guys if you don't want things like that to happen ...

    you may find them attractive but that was just immature ... you should know what to expect from guys like him ...

    that's like playing with fire and suddenly wonder why you got burned...

    seriously ... why do you trust a guy who talks you into giving him a blowjob in a bathroom during a party?

    if you ask such a guy a question like this ... grab him by the balls, and tell him you want a serious answer ... with guys like that, you have to make sure they don't dare to humiliate you or else, sooner or later, things like that happen ...

    • yeah I totally agree...

    • I agree.

  • i don't know if you can get come out of your hair without water and shampoo, but my god what an a**hole that guy sounds

  • Wash your hair!

    • I mean at a party without a shower, of course.

    • wet your hair with water

  • i always clean myself right awy so I don't know of a way to do it after. maybe only soack that part if its possible?

  • You must've given some pretty awesome head if he shot that far!

  • i wouldn't go and give tha tguy any more bjs. and I think you need to shower there's no other way.

    • Don't worry, he won't get any more bjs from me

    • Im glad

  • i think you shouldn't be giving out bjs to guys who are total a**holes like he is, just was your hair

  • I'm sorry that prick did that to you. Makes me want to beat the sh*t out of him. Not all guys are like that.

  • That is humiliating. Perhaps think twice about sexual experiences at a party or anyplace public.

    Glad you got through it relatively unscathed.

    And shame on the moron who did it to you.

  • Listen, I just want you to know, in the most sincerest way possible, that my soul just died a little bit from reading this question.

    It's scumbags like that guy who give good guys everywhere a bad name. But on the same flip coin, it's gullible girls like you who feed that monster and allow them to thrive in this world, to which both of you allow yourselves to even further ruin the concept of romantic engagements in an orgy of lust, lack of common sense and respect, and humiliation.

    On behalf of sensible romantics everywhere, thank you for making me just a BIT more jaded about people.

  • Just wash your hair

  • Well, I'm sure some guys are that mean.

    Unfortunately, assertiveness and not giving a damn about other people are two traits that often go together. Be honest, would you have given a blowjob then and there to one of the 'nicer guys'?

    • Well I did it cause I really felt attracted to him and he really knew how to seduce me. I didn't know he was such a jerk. So I thought he was a 'nicer guy'. And if I felt attracted to a real 'nicer guy', of course!

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