You have to face the fact that he's not into this stuff, and probably will never be. It would be one thing if this stuff had just never occurred to him before, or if he was curious but had just never had an opportunity to try it, but that's not the case here. He knows what you're talking about, but it's not for him. He just doesn't like this stuff.
Your choices now are to either accept him the way he is and don't try to change him, or break up with him, because he's not going to change. Many guys simply don't have it within them to be dominant and dirty, and nothing will ever change that.
IMO, this is something you should have talked about before ever getting together. It's part of sexual compatibility, and such compatibility is very important for a relationship to have any long-term potential. In the future, make sure you talk about this early-on with any guy you plan to date.
Maybe Initiate something like that. Like have him find you in bed handcuffed to the bed post or something.
Maybe he won't be into it, maybe he will. You should have a talk about it though. My e ask him what he likes, then tell him what you like
I would try to introduce something you like into the bedroom, such as being tied up, and see if he goes with it, before trying to get him really into it. He says he's not into it, but maybe he's never done it before. Perhaps he said he's not into it, because he thinks it'll turn you off, little does he know you actually like it. If you try something and it seems like he's into it, tell him you really like it and want to introduce more stuff. If he seems like he doesn't like it, then maybe you should consider potential future boyfriends. Because although sex isn't everything, it is a large part of a relationship and you have to be happy.
How do you know he's not into that? Maybe he hasn't brought it up for the same reason.
Ask him if he's actually tried it. If he hasn't, start with something small. If he has, this might not be something you're going to be able to work through. A lot of people just aren't sexually compatible.
well if he's not into it I don't think he will be up for it.
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if he's not into that you won't make a difference by bringing up the subject again.
just tell him!
My ex was into bestiality and incest and stuff like that. I mean everyone has a fetish. You have to introduce him to what you're into slowly and I am sure if he cares about you he will make concessions to see that you are satisfied in that capacity.
how'd you deal with the incest and bestiality? I mean... that's kinda difficult to do...right?! lol
Grin and bare.
lmao. wonderful. :P
Tell him.
He might be turned off. But many guys are into it.
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