Questions about having another threesome with my husband

[Anonymous]

When my husband and I were dating in college one of my close girlfriends and I had a threesome with him. It was after a party she rode home with us and stayed in our dorm room with us we all laid on the fold out couch in the living room watching a movie together and I started to come on to my husband (boyfriend at the time) a little bit, teasing him and putting my hands down his pants. Just messing around I pulled his goods out of his pants just playing with it and we were all three laughing and having a good time and she was watching me. He asked me and her to kiss each other we have been friends for a long time and we both obliged his request. I got on top of her and kind of just playing around we started kissing each other and I pulled her boobs out of her tube top. We really only kissed just for a minute and then I got off of her we both look down and he was hard as a rock I laid on the other side of him with him in the middle of us and I took my top off. He started playing with my boobs and I started giving him a hand job I rubbed him for just a minute and then I went down on him, she set up to watch, both of her boobs still out and she told my boyfriend that he could play with her boobs while I gave him a blowjob. He was really enjoying that, she had some very nice large boobs much larger than mine and I am a C cup.To make a long story short she also came down with me and gave my boyfriend a blow job and then we both switched off riding him for nearly an hour. It was totally unplanned and unexpected for all three of us but it just kind of happened. The next morning the three of us talked about it and we were all okay with what happened it was actually quite exciting for me too. Him and I are now married no kids and still keep in touch with my girlfriend. We had seen each other several times over the past two years but never in a position where that could happen again. She is coming into town tomorrow and going to stay with us for a week I am kind of interested in reliving the past and honestly I want to do it again. I am not into girls and anyway I was just kind of a wild college girl. My husband really enjoyed what happened to years ago and still talks about it with me on occasions. I asked my husband last night if he would be interested in having another threesome with her if she was open to it and of course he wants to also. My only question is do you think it really changes anything now that we are married I have full trust in my husband and he has never given me a reason not to trust him. He has always been very loyal to me and I would think this would be a good reward for that. He always gets everything he wants at home sexually and I know if you keep them happy in bed they won't mess around behind your back. My husband and I both want to do it we have not asked her yet but just knowing her I am pretty sure she's going to say yes. I would just kind of like to know what y'all's opinion is about this now that we are married?

[Anonymous]

I think the fact that you brought it up to him and seem as interested as he is about having it happen again that it will be okay. One thing you should be prepared for though is that it might not be as exciting the second time around. The first time sounds spontaneous. This time there may need to be a little pre-planning involved to set things up so that there is something to replace the first time excitement level. That being said, I have done two threesomes with my boyfriend and one of my best friends. both times were very exciting but very different because of how she and I let things progress.

[sovetskii13]

Well, doing that kind of thing in college while boyfriend and girlfriend seems to be common. So, that's fine, and your relationship with him is still doing very well. But things are different now. You are married to him, and you haven't done anything sexual with other people in a while. I think that getting into a threesome now would not be a very good idea. He may seem interested simply because he's a guy, but I don't know if it's worth it.

By the way, is she in a relationship or married? This could cause a negative affect on her relationship or marriage if she is.

[humanbeing]

That's OK our husband is on cloud 9 to have a threesome with two women and you being a wife don't have any problem. How about asking him for a threesome with two men and one women. you your husband and another man. Do you have any problem with that? I hope you don't. but I guarantee your husband will have a problem with that.

[theotherman]

I'm a husband, I don't have a problem with it :)

[yaddayaddayadda02]

Wow. Well, I mean - you ARE breaking your marriage vows if you want to get technical about it. That being said - your relationship seems to have survived the first one, and you know what you're getting into.

[JennieF]

Why not, if you all want to?

[Anonymous]

reading these question gave me boner, damn, don't be so specific, your husband is lucky bastard, I wish I were in his place

[Anonymous]

I think in college, they would at least have taught you (or just plain expected, by that point) to use paragraphs. Goodness, this hurts my eyes to read

[Anonymous]

Pics or it didn't happen.