Thought of cheating turns me on?

[Anonymous]

I have been married to my husband for a couple of years. I've always been happy with him until I turned 28 and now for a year I've somehow been feeling A LOT hornier than before (I read something about women closing in to their 30's get hornier). I started getting thoughts in my head about f***ing other guys and it turns me on a lot. I wouldn't do it of course, but it's something I can't get out of my mind. I even start fantasizing about other men when my husband is f***ing me. Also, I'm at the age where a lot of guys who are still looking for a partner, don't hold back to hit on a married woman. I think they don't find as many single ones as 10 years back and know that some married women are not that hard to get into bed (if I look at some of my friends). Is it normal that I have these thoughts? I could never do it and hurt my husband of course.

[madhatters4]

i don't think the thoughts are wrong but I'd be slightly concerned that you think about other men in bed. because that would suggest that you aren't all that thrilled with your partner.

It is natural from what I know for a woman to approach their sexual peak somewhere in the 30s so it makes sense that your sex drive would be increasing. I'd mostly reflect on why you feel a need to think of other men while you're actually in the act fo sex

[yaddayaddayadda02]

Yeah, it's normal. I've been married a long time as well, and c'mon - despite all the benefits of a long term, monogamous relationship - it is sex with the SAME person year after year. As long as you don't act on it, you're fine.

[gonyr]

Maybe try exploring more fun, crazy sexual things with your husband. Is normal to be attracted to other people

These feelings might stick though, and you might wind up going into temptation

Maybe try seeing if you pr husband would be I to swinging?

[Cowboy5]

Add me as a friend...

[G_GTom]

Eh... you'll probably give in. More than the majority of women cheat.

[Asker]

I wouldn't say more than the majority (which should be just the majority) but I know that a lot of women cheat. A lot more than everyone thinks. I'm even pretty sure that more women than men cheat. I know of a lot of friends and others that have cheated and I'm 100% sure that there are even more that we don't know about. I try not to give in though

[G_GTom]

I would agree, women do cheat more. Women really aren't that great people. Guys are no winners either, but women are worse.

[jakbqik]

you know, the longer I've been married the more I fantasize about my wife being f'd by another man and finding myself turned on by it. not sure why, but I fantasize about it more and more. maybe you'd be able to talk your hubby into a soft or hard swap situation

[larry69]

Sex toys and masturbation!

[Asker]

I've never really been into that. It gives me an orgasm but it never really got me off like a guy.

[larry69]

You need multiple orgasms..seriously

[aaa9501]

Yeah it's normal. I've come across many women your age and older who have actually acted upon it with me lol. I would agree with you that women in their 30's and above are easier to get into bed. I mean if you're not satisfied with your husband you need to be satisfied somehow 😏

[Anonymous]

It is normal, to an extent. However, I always know I'm in a healthy relationship when my girlfriend is the only person who enters my mind when I'm horny.

[Anonymous]

Cuckold your husband. Problem solved!

[Asker]

Haha. That might solve my problem but I don't think my husband would like that too much ;)

[Opinion Owner]

Well you might be surprised... if he's submissive at all then you could probably convert him. It would be a process though as you would have to step into a domme role