My boyfriend thinks it's weird that I licked his balls?

[Anonymous]

Ok I am really not trying to provide TMI here, but recently my boyfriend of 3 months and I were talking and suddenly he said something like "Oh you know what? I forgot to tell you, but I found it really funny that you licked my balls while giving me head. I've never seen anyone do that, it was so funny." I got a bit offended and embarrassed, because from my past experiences and everything I have ever read, I thought that guys really like it when the girl plays with their balls a bit while giving head. Am I wrong? Guys, would you find it weird if a girl played with your balls? Is it something that would turn you on or off, or would you not really care either way? Girls, do you do this to your guy and does he like it? Thanks!

[Stacyzee]

Your boyfriend sounds as if he doesn't watch much p*rn and like he is inexperienced.

Maybe you being a bit more sexually open you can unlock his mind.

He obviously isn't used to that, and has never had it done before.

He probably didn't mean to offend you, but it is something he did not expect and clearly

has no knowledge about.

Different guys are into different things.

If he doesn't seem as if he enjoyed it, I wouldn't do it again.

[Asker]

I think you are right, he always claimed to be very experienced with sex, but maybe it was just a cover up for him not really having much experience at all. I am a couple years older, so I am wondering if he said that just to impress me. But now that you and another commenter said it, I think maybe you are right and he is actually just not experienced at all. Guess I'm gonna have to teach him a thing or two ;)

[Stacyzee]

You may have to ;). Also, it's possible to be experienced to an extent. He probably knows a lot more in certain sexual areas than in some others (because he hasn't gotten that experience yet). Ex. I know about sexual positions but very little about oral because I have yet to receive it or haven't had a partner who is willing to explore.

[Stacyzee]

That could be his case.

[Asker]

I think you are right, someone might have had sex many many times but just never explored a certain area or position. I definitely like to explore, and my guy seems to enjoy that too, so I think we should be OK :) I just felt a bit weird when he said that about his balls, because I don't want him to think that I AM the inexperienced one or that I don't know what I'm doing haha. Well he said it was funny, but didn't complain about it, so I guess it was ok? ;)

[Stacyzee]

Possibly :) he just didn't expect it, that's all. At least your keeping it interesting

[xHoneyxBeex]

Some guys like it and some don't. It totally depends on the person. I mean, my boyfriend absolutely loves it but I've heard many other guys say they don't like it. If he doesn't like it then he doesn't like it and I don't think you should do it again unless he tells you he wants it.

[Asker]

Yeah I guess you are right, everyone has their preference. He did not say he did not like it though, just that he thought it was funny because nobody has ever done that to him before. He sometimes words things weird, but it almost sounded like he was more surprised than that he didn't like it. Maybe I just won't do it unless he asks for it next time? I don't want him to laugh while I do it if it's SO funny lol.

[xHoneyxBeex]

Well if he's never had it done before then he probably just wasn't expecting it and it surprised him. But yeah, if he wants it again I'm sure he'll tell you but otherwise I don't think you should. Lol

[teasegirl]

I love playing with balls. So far no guy has indicated that they don't like it. Specially if you suck and massage them while you stroke them...

Your boyfriend is odd. But if he doesn't like it then don't do it again...

[DodgersGM]

"Weird" and "funny" are two things I never think to myself when a woman licks my balls, so I don;t know what his deal is. Maybe he just wanted to find ways to talk about it without sounding too pervy.

You know, like: "haha that was so funny when you licked my balls. Remember when you did that? Cause ya...it happened. And it was so funny!"

[Asker]

haha you know what, I never thought about it this way! he never seems to know how to word things well, so maybe he was just trying to express that he was excited about it because this was the first time someone did that for him... he does seem to always bring up other things that I have done for him that nobody else ever had, like he is always excited about them.. so maybe that was it, jut worded really weird? lol

[DodgersGM]

Yeah that's my guess. And whatever his reason for bringing it up was, I can guarantee he loved it.

[clashcity22]

Um, your Boyfriend is an ass for saying that. I love it when my Girlfriend plays with my ball while she gives me head and she loves when I play with her clit when I go down on her. It's a huge turn on for me due to the heightened sensitivity. I just have to be aroused or else I can't handle it because I feel like I'm being tickled

[Arrowdynamics]

Shyt he must be a little green in the sex dept. I love it especially when she stroking my sweet midget and licking them nuts at the same time. Tell him to sit back shut the phuck up and let you take care of business.

[Asker]

Haha love the last sentence lol. Thanks though, I am glad I am not the one being crazy here lol. He is a couple years younger than me, but he "claims" to be very experienced in that scene, so I thought that maybe I was doing something wrong lol. I am glad to hear other guys like it!

[blackkid4]

You aren't wrong he's just new to it; sex can be an awkward thing at times, and that's one of those times, really.

[humanbeing]

I love if someone plays with or licks it. It's a turn on for me

[TwiztedTD]

I wouldn't find it weird... I think it feels great!

[jakbqik]

i absolutely love when mine are licked and played with ;)

[dolfan13]

tell him to shut the hell up and end the conversation there

[SaltandVinegar]

I love it!

[CuriousAZ]

Love it

[Anonymous]

'funny' doesn't mean bad imo. I think he did like it, but never had it happen before and didn't know how to say what he thought of it

[Anonymous]

I don't find it weird at all, it's quite enjoyable actually, both visually and physically.

[Anonymous]

Probably not used to it because almost no girls do that

[Anonymous]

i'd find it a little weird if a girl did that to me , not sure I'd enjoy having balls licked never experienced that before