I want to be someones sex slave or slave?

Question

I just want a man to dominate everything about my life. I want him to control where I go and who I talk to. I want him to get angry, choke me and slap me if I talk back. I want him to tie me up to the bed and f*** me so hard. I want fulfill my rape fantasy. I want him to tell me what to wear. What to cook and clean. All this is so hot to me. I once have a guy do some of this and it was hot. I hate romantic guys and guys who want to make love with me. Like what the f***? Can you just slap the sh*t out of me instead Why are some people like this? What makes me this way

Interesdom · Accepted Answer

Other than in wanting him to get angry, you reflect desires that are common among proud women. You want your femininity exposed and even though that is not socially acceptable these days, it is very natural.

Be careful about wanting an angry man, though. Ideally, a man should be in control of himself at all times, otherwise there is no way he can properly control you. . People who can't keep themselves in check are not likely to make good masters or good slaves.

From the man's viewpoint, to treat a woman in this way - even though it is what many women desire - is very risky in today's legal system and social structure. He is opening himself up to domestic abuse charges that could strip him of not only his property but his freedom. This is just one thing to bear in mind when looking for a man to own you: he might well want to take things slow, gradually taking you over more as he gets to trust that you are not just another femme fatale waiting for the right moment to rip his gonads off.

As an ex-slave owner, I assure you that a slave is a liability first and - if the man is lucky - an asset when she is settled in and trained, which can take a few years. The right man will be looking for not only a women with fantasies (there's plenty of those around) but also for a women who wants to serve him and meet his every needs. Stop thinking about what you want (which is what your post is all about) and start thinking about what a master who would want you, wants for himself: then you can start working out how to give that to him.

MrOracle · Accepted Answer

My girlfriend could have written this. She has a lot of responsibility at work (nurse's aid, and going to school to be an RN), so in the rest of her life, she wants to be completely submissive and to not have to make any decisions. She loves being dominated and being told what to do, in detail. She even likes it when I tell her what to wear and how to behave.

I think she's just seeking some balance, plus, we have a high level of trust between us. She knows I'm not going to hurt her or take things too far, so she feels safe exploring how far she can go. But she's submissive by nature, and being with a strong, confident, assertive guy makes her feel protected, safe, and comforted. Plus, as even she admits, all nurses are a little crazy.

The thing is: you have to find a mature, dominant guy who can give you what you want. Most guys your age lack the confidence and experience to be dominant, and many guys regardless of age don't have it in them to be dominant, and nothing you or anyone else does will change that. It's best if you find the guy that is already that way from the beginning.

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

I want the same thing lol not everyday obviously, but like every once in a while.

teasegirl · Accepted Answer

I'm sure there's websites for that. I too want to be dominated but not to that extent.

AmongTheApples · Answer

I'm going to guess that you come from a broken home and was constantly stressed as a child. Probably even had a domineering mother who ordered you around a lot, didn't make you feel very important, and often neglected your feelings. How close am I?

Jon_Gre_g · Answer

So this is actually a thing huh. Interesting. Now go make me a samich biyatch.

gotc147 · Answer

The BDSM lifestyle is quite fun, the vast majority of guys are not into it nearly to the extent that you describe (most have no clue what they're doing past handcuffs and spanking), but there are a few guys like what you want.

sovetskii13 · Answer

It's normal to have these kinds of fantasies. I would love to role play this type of action someday. It's great to do something wild and different from time-to-time because it keeps the sex life interesting. I think most guys should be okay with fulfilling your fantasies. Maybe not strongly religious men, but others should be able to do it. You have this fantasy because you have a big imagination. That's a great feature to have. It makes life more exciting for you and others around you.

Jibaku · Answer

@redeyemindtricks might be able to help you...

L_aauurraa · Answer

What the fuck is wrong with everyone on here

dwiller943 · Answer

Ummm...

humanbeing · Answer

girls if you want that go to middle east countries and get married. you will have your fantasy fulfilled everday

MarkTwain · Answer

this is sexy to me.. you go girl

skeptic007 · Answer

I like submissive's but I don't like the whole slave play cause I don't want control of her life

Justababy · Answer

Where are you from I want a slave

John333 · Answer

what's your Skype account?

bemymaster · Answer

I totally agree! I don't care about fucking romantic people! I just want to be a slave!

Sc00t3rs · Answer

low self esteem?

firsttimer444 · Answer

I just want to be a women slave but don't know how to find on

Anonymous · Answer

I would fuck you like that ! My slave want a girl to play with. We would use and abuse all night. You would beg for more.

Anonymous · Answer

I'd be willing to do all those things to you and more :). You will be my slave and do everything I want without question. And believe me, I love my sex, so expect a lot of that, but you will be doing a lot of everyday here and there things for me, along with a little showing you off. I like others to see the slut I got and have her wearing something sexy and show them what they can't have (or can have ;).

Anonymous · Answer

Don't sweat it...you're very normal.  You have the courage to acknowledge that desire whereas most women just hide it and thus are never really fulfilled.