What makes a good blowjob and what makes a bad blowjob?

what makes a bad or boring blowjob? what makes a blowjob good? If a guy bust in your mouth after you have been sucking his d*** for a very short time , does this sound like a good blowjob? could he burst in your mouth if the blowjob was bad? also what are great handjob tips?
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  • I think every guy is a little different. These are my preferences:

    Do's

    -Start with some teasing, things like light touching or licking

    -Occasionally lick, suck, and fondle my scrotum and testicles gently

    -Occasionally swirl your tongue around my penis head while it's inside your mouth

    -Semi-frequently look up into my eyes with a look of longing while you suck my penis

    -Occasionally take my penis as deep as you can without gagging

    -Learn the right speed, rythmn, and pressure to bring me close to orgasm, and then slow up just enough to hold off the orgasm. This is called plateauing, when done properly, it makes the orgasm a lot better. Practice makes perfect here, it takes a good bit of practice for guys to figure out how to do this while masturbating, and we have the benefit of being able to tell how close we are to orgasm by feeling, but girls have to look for external signs of an eminent orgasm to know when to slow up, communication with the guy can make this easier, if he tells you when to slow up.

    -After you've held me close to orgasm for awhile, speed back up until I finally orgasm.

    -Allowing a guy to come in your mouth can make the orgasm better. If you don't like the taste of cum, stop sucking right before he orgasms and use a quick handjob to finish him. Regardless of which method you do, keep sucking or stroking the penis throughout orgasm, the orgasm not as good if stimulation stops during the orgasm.

    Don'ts

    -Make sure your teeth don't touch my penis, that can be very uncomfortable, even painful

    -Looking like you don't enjoy it

    As for handjobs, much of it is the same.

    • This dudes advice is on point! Listen to him!

    • I wanted to write my point of view/experience , but in your description you've said everything I wanted to. I do exactly what you said, but I can add that I have a tongue piercing and it helps while teasing. I continue to suck a few more seconds after he comes, but slowly and then always swallow. ;) Also very true about the eye contact.. I sometimes even let my boyfriend film it and we watch it later.

  • A guy can blow at any time with or without a blow job if you are naked and he is inexperienced. Teeth contact with shaft, no rhythm = bad blow job.

    Tongue contact with head, rhythm = good blow job.

    Don't lick the pee hole too much or he may squirm out of your mouth.

    You can start out licking the shaft and balls, but after you settle on the head, stick with the head until he cums unless you want to start over or switch to another position.

    It isn't important to blow your mouth up like a puffer fish like some girls think it is. Wrap your lips and tongue around the head. Roll the head around in circles with your tongue. You can simulate some thrusting for fun, but the nerve ending on the ridge of the glans (head) are where most of the pleasure comes from.

    • is the pee hole licking/sticking tongue in bad? or do guys like it?

    • You have to be careful when doing that. You can do it a little, but if you started doing it a lot and I wasn't feeling it I would want to stop. It is a very sensitive area. It can be more like tickling someone than pleasuring them.

    • I see you would let the girl know right? I kinda do this lol

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Most Helpful Girls

  • It sounds like you did it right (or he needed to release). I found all the best BJ tips in Jack's Blowjob Lessons (you can find it online). Seriously, go read it now!

    • Can you post a link please

  • A good bj will end with your mouth full of his spunk!

    • which is good get a guy to cum in your mouth and he'll call it a good blowjob... but 1st you must show some enthusiasm... give him a smile while you do it... also all the pleasure is in the head area... they love having the back of the head licked sucked and a swirling tongue... tongue kiss the pee hole... deep throating will excite them if you can but if you can't don't worry about it... just be sure to give his head plenty of attention... and they like the shaft licked... they like their balls gentle kiss licked and sucked... and most of all be sure to enjoy it even when they cum... hint if you don't like the taste of their cum make sure they cum deeper into your throat... you should know when a man cums his cock will expand greater than it has been... if you like or can stand his taste let him see his cum in your mouth

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  • A ton of videos are available for research if there's little hands-on time to do this in person.

    Quick come can be from an A+ BJ but also from being overly visually aroused and lack of recent orgasms.

    Stress attention to sensitive areas instead of repetitive jack hammering, consider it to be a favorite dessert to be savored slowly & played with to get the favorable responses

    • what do you mean by overly visually aroused?

    • What he sees when you are giving him one Photo examples of what he might see overly stimulating can be researched on google as pov bj

  • This is a very subjective question so I'm going to give a very subjective opinion. I'm above average in size. Let's just say I'm 5 6/8 of inch in girth (flaccid). For reference, my penis won't fit in a toilet paper roll. It's too thick when flaccid. With that out of the way, every blowjob I received has been heavy on teeth. In the past, other partners used so much teeth that I didn't enjoy it. Many times it felt like my penis was inside a Chinese finger trap with teeth. It was rare if they got me to climax from a blowjob and if I did, it was a long process with a lot of handjob involved. I enjoyed their effort but I didn't always look forward to that sex act.
    Only my wife of 12 years has been the one to give the least amount of teeth scrapping on my shaft. There is still teeth involved, but she's improved so much since she first attempted to stick that thing in her mouth. I can orgasm to her blowjobs within 10 minutes. She's awesome.
    The best handjob tip is to use lot's of saliva, and don't forget to include the boys (balls). My wife knows when her mouth get's fatigued after 10 minutes she knows time is running out for her so she's on a mission to finish me off quickly. Her combo is handjob while she sucks on my balls. Get's me every time.

  • If a guy finishes fast in your mouth, don't worry, he'll still consider it a good blowjob. the only bad blowjob is if you bite with your teeth or you don't let him finish

  • Showing that you want to give head is by far the most important. If you are going all the way, burying the cock down your throat and struggling, it shows you wanna please. That's the key!

  • The orgasm

  • Teeth and acting like its work = bad bj. Tongue and lips and excitement = good bj

  • Everybody likes different stuff. My personal favorite is when she has just the top inch of my penis in her mouth while stroking the rest with her hand rolling her tongue around the head while bobbing

  • what makes a good Bj.. is no teeth straight mouth... and look at you when they do. a bad one is her tooth.. and talking too much

  • Use your tongue to pay special attention to the head. Alternate that with deep throating. Some guys like it if you show him your mouth full of his semen before you swallow it.

    Lubrication of some sort is important during a handjob. Let him play your tits while you are jerking him.

  • if he comes in your mouth, it's a good blow job. if he doesn't come, it's a bad BJ

  • Focus on the tip, especially the underside of the head and swallow. Helllove you forever.

    I'm available for coaching.

  • Keep the teeth out of it, and your tongue out of the pee hole.

    Don't be too rough, or too light.

  • Never had a bad BJ. Reverse grip on the handjob. Also using two hands and act as if your wringing out a towel (gently, of course).

  • The best blowjobs are finished in the mouth

  • A good bj it's when they put a lot enthusiasm that make your legs shake and make you finish

  • Ball teasing combined with enthusiasm and naughty talk and if the girl knows what she is doing. then that’s all fantastic

  • Licking his balls... down to the ass if he's into that too😉 deep throat even if you gag cause it sounds sexy, lots of spit... and keep jerking him off while he's cumming and sucking too... or spray the cum all over your face and tits!

  • From experience most blowjobs are good. And I dont think any guy has ever had a ‘boring’ blowjob. When a guy busts in your mouth quickly you are definetly doing something right haha and he may bus no matter if it is a good or bad blowjob. I do not have any handjob tips haha

  • Hold his d*ck in your mouth when he is cumming

  • Suck the dick sloppy and dont use hands

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