Do guys like virgins?

This question is mostly for guys.

I am a virgin and I have a boyfriend but some guys that I know and talk to tell me that they want to be the one to take my virginity and that it turns them on, but other guys that I know say they would never even be with a virgin. I just want to know what other people think. If virgin girls actually turn guys on or if some guys have fantasy's with virgins.


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  • I think most guys like virgins and that's because every guy wants to be the first one. I've never been with a virgin but it is appealing and a turn on. A guy who doesn't want to be with a virgin is probably worried that the girl won't have sex that she will make him wait or will just not ever have sex with him. And there are girls who say they are virgins but are not, they will have sex with one guy and then tell another guy she's still a virgin and make him wait or not do it with him at all, guys don't like this. hope this helped u

    • Thanks for the answer. And I really am a virgin.

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    • Well I'm a nice girl just wanting to set things straight about what people think about me being a virgin.

    • There's no merit in being a virgin and no dishonor in not being one: "virginity" is just a word describing the period in life prior to real sexual activity.

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  • At my age, I couldn't find a 40 year old virgin if I created an artificial android. In addition, very difficult to have the patience in dealing with "inexperienced" women. However, back when I was 14, my single most important goal was to rid a classmate of her virginity so I could stride manfully in school the next day with pride and honor! Hurrah!

    Reality being what is is, I never had a virgin. *sob*

    • Any women who had no child can tell she's a virgin and no OBGYN an tell why the hymen is gone, unless it happened a few hours ago. I would be bankrupt if I had to give 1 $-cent to each man in town who believes he made love to a virgin and is wrong.

  • yea I do cause it shows she has good morals

    and not like most girls in my school

    because I am waiting for marriage as well

  • I love virgins, not because of their inexperience or putative purity, but because they don't fool around with the crude breed of man roaming the earth at present. I find humans repulsive and I admire anyone else who feels the same way.

    • What you mean?

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    • | Hamlet | Act 3, Scene 1


      You should not have believed me; for virtue cannot

      so inoculate our old stock but we shall relish of

      it: I loved you not.


      I was the more deceived.


      Get thee to a nunnery: why wouldst thou be a

      breeder of sinners? I am myself indifferent honest;

      but yet I could accuse me of such things that it

      were better my mother had not borne me: I am very

      proud, revengeful, ambitious, with more offenses at

      my beck than I have thoughts to put

    • And Ole William continues (he had no limit on comments):

      thoughts to put them in,

      imagination to give them shape, or time to act them

      in. What should such fellows as I do crawling

      between earth and heaven? We are arrant knaves,

      all; believe none of us. Go thy ways to a nunnery.

      Where's your father?


  • Really, it's all about the girl and her personality, but all other things being equal, I would rather have experience than virginity. Practice makes perfect on everything, and society places way, way too much value on what is essentially nothing. Virgins are inexperienced, and regardless of what anyone tells you, just doing what comes naturally doesn't make the sex good, it just makes it sex. Most peopels first time is going to be awkward and unenjoyable, and there nothing sacred about saving that. I'm not saying be a slut and sleep with everything that moves, I'm just saying enjoy yourself, have fun, do what you want, and if a guy doesn't want to be with you because you aren't a virgin, he's a prick and not worth being with.

  • It makes no difference to me.

    I'd prefer a good girl who's been messing around to a virgin shrew.

    No objections at all against a virgin good girl, of course.

  • Yeah I like virgins

    • Is there any special reason why?

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    • I like her because she is she, and being a virgin is part of who she is.

    • Aw that's cute

  • i don't ever want to be a girls first, nor last.

  • Look up virginity fetish in Google: link

    • The fetish of making love to a completely inexperienced girl indeed. :-s

      If one were mean, one could compare it to a sort of (socially accepted) pedophilia.

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