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Good lube for hand jobs

Not joking. I like giving my boyfriend hand jobs but without lube he gets rug burn on his penis. Which is unfortunate. I used lotion before and that worked okay, but he didn't like his penis smelling like cookies. The lube we use for sex dries out pretty quick then gets all weird and like forms tiny balls of dried lube that get EVERYWHERE including under his foreskin and stuck in his pubic hair. Which ick. So would unscented lotion be the best? I'm assuming guys will know best for this :p
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Most Helpful Guys

  • Lotion is terrible.

    Water based lube dries fast. If you keep a little glass of water near why and dip fingers in occasionally it helps

    But an oil is better since you aren't worried about latex. I suggest coconut oil. Cheap, natural, smells good, good for skin, edible (and good for you).

  • He's uncircumcised and he gets rug burn? Are you really rough with it? Does he have phimosis or something? Ideally the foreskin should glide back and forth with your hand.

    Personally, I never use lube. In fact it feels far better without lube. I've never had any kind of "rug burn".

    • It's more the bottom skin that doesn't move as much that gets rug burn. Like the outside skin, it isn't like the head of his penis is getting rug burn. It just takes a while for him to get off from a hand job.

    • Hmmm. I've never experienced that. Try coconut oil. It's great stuff. Great to eat, nice and slippery, great for everything, really. Use refined coconut oil if you don't want to smell like coconut.

Most Helpful Girls

  • You can use coconut oil. Is great, smooths the skin, smells like tropic, and it's even edible so you could BJ your guy while lubing him with it. And won't harm your vag if you put some in to lube yourself or if he wants to massage you with this coconut oil. You both will love it.

  • Use something water based. KY is a pretty trusted brand! The problem is most lubes are meant for sex, so if you give oral at all some of them tend to taste bad! Use a good amount of KY and spit (if you are giving oral along with your handjob) and you should be set!

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  • I'd say water based lubricants are the best, although this sounds like an odd problem... I've never experienced issues with either of these, in fact I've never understood the need for lubricant. Friction feels good, less friction feels like almost nothing...

  • Kama Sutra oil. The name says oil, but it is really water based. The herbs in it give a wonderful warm glow. It is great for penetrative sex also.

  • my wife always used either Olay Quench body lotion or Johnson's Baby Lotion...

  • Stroke 29. He can thank me later

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  • I use my salvia for lube when I masturbate it works for me!

  • KY jelly, astroglide, hello cake So-lo lube

  • For uncircumcised penis is not necessary lube.

  • Coconut oil, I love hand jobs too. Never been better since I started with it.

  • try baby lotion

  • I love on of the two. 1. When she deep throats my cock and she gags, her spit from so deep down makes my cock harder and really slippery. 2. Wet Platinum pla makes my cock real slippery too for a long time.

  • I prefer a massage oil over a lube. Lunes tend to wear out quickly or get real sticky. An oil lasts well and creates a little more slippery grip.

  • It should be something that taste good too - you never know when you are going to finish him off with a blow job

  • Icy hot, BenGay, Tiger Balm, FlexAll, Vicks Vapo-Rub, Go-Jo, jalapeño jelly, Naval jelly, Gold Bond Lotion, bacon fat, super glue.

    • Lard, poi, a fistful of garden slugs, motor oil, Vegemite, mayonnaise, maple syrup, blackberry jam, Lava brand hand soap, green persimmon juice, black walnut sap, used transmission fluid, methyl-cellulose, a really big loogie, goose grease, bear grease, possum fat, dry graphite, molybdenum-disulfide, axel grease, wet sand, a handful of pasta, fresh liver, vitreous humor, aqueous humor, good humor, dry silicone, Laura Scudder's peanut butter, mashed banana, aloe vera gel, pond scum, river mud...

  • Dollar store coco-butter or aloe versa. Use plenty (it's cheap) The scent and taste are unobtrusive and they don't chunk up. Unlike silicone, they mix with precum, semen and vaginal mucus.

  • Personally, I masturbate dry nowdays, never had any problem with chafing. However, I used to use spit for lube, it works just fine as long as you add some more every minute or so.

  • Astroglide

    • That's what we used and it just sticks to everything.

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