Anal sex/prostate gland and irrelevant excuses?

Hello, this might be a little bit of an awkward topic and too graphic so if you're not comfortable with this stuff, might as well close this window lol, anyways, I was browsing yahoo questions when I was bored, one thing led to another and I realized some people are ridiculously stupid when it comes down to this kind of stuff, a few people there asked why some women don't enjoy or don't want to try anal and in nearly every question I browsed there, there was at least one person with this kind of answer "Women don't have a prostate like men, so they are not equipped to enjoy anal", like wtf? So because men have a prostate, which's role is to produce a liquid that is part of the sperm when reaching orgasm, means they're equipped to take it up the ass? what the hell? no I get that massaging the prostate might feel good for some men, but what's with this kind of stupid generalization? last I checked, women had clitoral legs and thin anal walls that might hit the G-spot, why is no one mentioning that? why are these people acting as if having the prostate = receiving anal will feel good when it's clearly not the case for most men (both gay and straight), why is everyone ignoring all the reasons women actually enjoy anal and going for the most stupid excuses to get out of the subject, why are these people treating the prostate as some kind of g-spot when it's been stated that the prostate is an internal organ that can be easily damaged and it's obvious that it's nothing like an actual "g-spot" like the one women have, why are these people making it sound as if any who's gonna take it up the ass, he has a prostate so he's going to enjoy it (and again, clearly that's not the case, there's a reason there are Tops and bottoms in gay relationships), sorry for the rant, but I really can't stand such ignorance, tell me your opinion on this subject and what do you guys think?
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Before someone misunderstands, this isn't a rant about the women who don't like anal, everyone is free to do whatever they want and no one is obliged to do anal, it's just that my mind is boggled with these ignorant "men have prostate so they enjoy it up the ass" invalid arguments and generalizations.
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  • True so much ignorance on this topic. The female and male G-spot are the worst myths in human sexuality. The prostate doesn't have an anatomical structure that can cause an orgasm. The Prostate gland only function is to secrete prostate fluid. The term G-spot is not accepted by anatomists or scientists. The G-spot has no scientific basis... I can go on and on. I've done research on the so called G-Spot for years and you know what it actually is A BUSINESS! They sell a lot of books and toys to a lot of stupid people. Spread the word the G-spot is only a business.

  • anti-[hetero]male agenda by some people?

    they think that a guy should have to take it in the ass if he wants to put it in a girls?

    girls that had bad anal encounters want to take revenge?

    people are just plain dumb?

    im also amazed at those responses too. you explained why it can be pleasurable to girls yet some people think that there is some brick wall between a girls vagina/g-spot/AF-spot that can't be stimulated. or they think that there aren't any nerves in the ass.

    • exactly my point, the ass regardless of the gender has nerves, but naaaaaah, for these people, it's the prostate, an organ that has nothing to do with the butthole, (except for the massaging part, that most men would probably feel uncomfortable doing and not enjoying), it's actually funny how they compare it to a real G-spot, the G-spot is a friggin "spot" in the vagina, the prostate is a friggin delicate internal organ that works with the penis and produces sperm, any idiot can see difference.

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  • There are a lot of really hung up men out there when it comes to anal. Both sexes enjoy it because there is a ton of nerve endings around the anus. I answer questions on here all the time about anal sex. I feel like someone needs to dispel the wrong info that anal sex will cause anal relapse or leakage. I've sodomized girlfriends for years without ill effect.

  • "nearly every question I browsed there, there was at least ONE person with this kind of answer"

    contrasted with

    "why is EVERYONE ignoring all the reasons women actually enjoy anal"

    why are you so up in arms about a few ignorant people's responses to the questions posted on yahoo answers. people apparently don't know what they are talking about, such is life.

  • Well to be fair, science only figured out that the clitoris goes further into the body in 2009 - so ignorance is very rampant in that area. All it takes is education and time.

  • I have learned that most of the time that people cannot handle the truth and they're comfortable being ignorant with this topic.

  • Dated older woman at a young age. she got me drunk it hurt then it was awesome. Love pegging to this day and only by a sexy woman with tits and a split tail.

  • ok I take it in the ass by having sex with men
    when my prostate is stuimulated i need to be in the right position for that to happen
    I love when a man makes me cum from anal sex
    makes him feel special too

    the position is hard to get too but when you do WOW

  • Don't see any harm in trying some anal play if both parties are up for it! You know what they say " If it feels good do it!"

  • most women I've been with liked it, some preferred it

  • I love receiving anal, I've never given a girlfriend anal sex as they've turned it down but where happy enough to give it to me.

    • Was it hard to convince them to do it?

  • Because lots if people are stupid.

    I like anal play with my man, we don't care what anyone else dose. We just do what we enjoy.

  • That's quite a rant and I'm not sure I follow all of what you're frustrated about. But regardless, you're right that a lot of / most people are totally ignorant about anal. A lot of women enjoy it, and of course they don't need a prostate to do so. Based on my observations (quite a few), women who put in the time and effort to learn to enjoy anal have some very intense orgasms that way with the addition of clitoral stimulation. Screamers!