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Why is my boyfriend always trying to show my boobs to his friends?

If I had to pick what my boyfriend's passion is it's definitely boobs. For a tall skinny girl I was gifted in the boob department, I guess it's kind of genetic my mom and both of my sisters are tall skinny and have big boobs as well. I'm not complaining about this but my boyfriend is constantly playing with them and can't keep his hands off of them, I don't mind at all when we are alone. The problem is he wants to do it in front of his friends also, he's always trying to squeeze my cleavage together in front of them and he is constantly pulling my boobs out of my top right in front of them. Yesterday his friends were over we were swimming in our pool I was wearing a tube top bikini he snuck up behind me while I was talking to one of his friends reached around me and pulled my tube top down to my hips then wrapped his arms around me so I could not cover up my boobs, he held me for probably two minutes while his friends were just looking at my boobs and laughing while I was trying to get away from him. That was just one of probably seven or eight times that day he flashed my boobs to his friends. I wasn't really getting mad so much as I was just annoyed. Before we went inside they thought it would be funny to throw me in the pool one of his friends grab my hands the other friend grab my ankles and picked me up, my boyfriend Took my bikini top off and started tickling me and then they swung me and threw me in the pool then my boyfriend walked off with my top. I was laughing the whole time and maybe that was sending the wrong signal to my boyfriend I was really annoyed with him exposing my boobs so much. Why would he want his friends to see me topless? I thought most boyfriends would want to savor the girls body for themselves. I'm not really a shy girl and it wasn't even bothering me that they were seeing my boobs I just don't understand why my boyfriend would want them to. Guys I have dated in the past wanted me all for themselves and would never show me to their friends. Why would my boyfriend want to show me off like this?
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Most Helpful Guys

  • I'm gonna go with he doesn't respect you! And you are right, guys by nature are "territorial/Jealous". We don't mean to but we sometimes see our gf's as a possession. I wouldn't want any of my friends to see my gf's breast.. They're mine lol.. But anyways to me that outright disrespectful and wrong.. Don't get me wrong I'm the same way.. I LOVE breast.. It's like an obsession.. so I would prolly enjoy seeing your breast as well.. but to treat you like that I don't know.. just doesn't seem right to me..

  • How boobed are you? What's your bra size?

    Not sure what your boyfriend is smoking. I definitely wouldn't want to share. It sounds like he's being a bit disrespectful about it too. It will serve him right when you eventually dump his ass and start sharing your boobs (and the rest of you) with a classier guy!

    • This is a reall one way vision of the situation.. I'm sure that everyone with a different way of than yours must dumbs.. My best advice for you.. dont never drive farder than 1 day away from home.. it gonna be mentally hard and drained for you to be the only smart guy around there

Most Helpful Girls

  • Because clearly you are a piece of meat to him, if he cared about you at all he wouldn't be pulling this. The next thing would be that he wants you to have sex with his friends. People are possessive of the people and things they really care for they don't wanna share and spread it around for everyone to see unless it's meaningless like topless playing cards.

  • Yeah he sounds like he has a lot of respect for you...where can I meet a guy like that?

    Be careful around guys like that..I wouldn't be surprised if he and his friends one day set you up to run a train on you. Once you've seen that side of him, if you were smart, you would get the hell out of that situation before it gets worse

  • Are you dating Jake Paul?

    In all seriousness, he sounds like he's got the maturity of a 13 year old and a severe lack of self awareness.
    Have you tried giving him the "serious relationship talk"?

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  • i don't understand why you would be having anything to do with him other than to punch him and walk way for ever- after the first time.

    this is beyond sleezy and disrespectful- its illegal. why are you even talking to him let alone being his gf?

  • Are you in a open relationship?

  • I would dump his ass. That is humiliation and sexual assault regardless of if he is your boyfriend. He's a shit head, leave.

  • Oh honey, find yourself a more respectful man.

  • He thinks you're hot and wants to flaunt it to his friends that he has a hot girlfriend. But he should have got permission first.

    • Exactly

  • Well he definitely has and idea it makes you upset. He honks its funny, for whatever reason. Maybe he likes showing you off? Still, there's limits. I'm totally fine with my girlfriend dressing hot even though my friends are there, but I wouldn't let them see her t*ts.

    You red to tell him how uncomfortable it makes you. You also need to tell him he's being a d***

  • He sounds so ridiculously immature. My god..

  • Even if you are not against it, he could at least ask for your permission or just ask you to show them. His behavior is just weird and I don't use the word lightly. I get that he is proud of having a girlfriend so endowed, it's no reason to be disrespectful to you.

  • Because he doesn't respect you and wants to show his friends what he's got. Please you need to break up with him because it will just get worse and not stop. He could get to the point of showing his friends you two having sex. You need a guy who cares about you and respects you.

  • Really.. tell him to go fuck himself and find someone who respects u

  • Well.. for me i dont mind it.. actually it kind of a turn on to see someone else being jealous of you.. hard to say.. but this isn't a huge deal for us.. and she did flash a couple of my friends

  • Because he's immature. There's no reason you should be disrespected like that.

  • I think you have great boobs so that may be the very reason

  • It sounds like he was showing off his trophy... it makes me wonder why he continues to do it unless he was goaded into it by his friends... is he the alpha male amongst them?

    You can find out why... tease it out of him when you are being intimate with him...

    • Just had a thought... your boyfriend could be into domination and humiliation (yours, not his)

  • He not deserve for you just leave him as soon as possible.

  • Your boyfriend sounds like a really disrespectful dick of a person and I would not date him for a second

    • Why does poeple only give shitty comments with no explanation at all

  • Jeez, hopefully you dumped his ass and found someone more respectful by now

  • thats disrespect to you. i would talk to him to stop. unless you like that. also, if you were my girlfriend, i would not be doing that. i would not be showing my friends your chest.

  • Idk why he was doing that I would never want my friends to see my girl like that

  • I think... I don't know I'm confused but if you hate it then make sure he never does it again

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