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Did my boyfriend secretly record us having sex? I think the camera was on on the computer but I'm not sure.

My boyfriend and I have been dating about a month now and we had sex for the first time on Sunday. Yesterday after I got off of work he asked me to come over again I knew that he wanted sex again and so did I the first time was very passionate and romantic. I went home took a shower and then went to his house we ate dinner and then went into his room. I knew that's why he called me over so I wore some provocative underwear for him and he took some pictures of me in my underwear which I did not mind, I did some sexy poses for him while he took pictures. He lay down on top of his bed he pulled me down on top of him we started kissing I gave him some oral sex and then got on top of him. He told me his favorite was when I ride on top of him because he likes to lay back and watch my boobs bounce so I did for him. It was very passionate I was really enjoying it and I rode him for nearly an hour until I cannot feel my knees anymore, I told him I had to change positions and he told me he was about to finish so I just rode him for another minute until he was done, after he was done I got off of him gave him a quick little blow job just to clean him off and while I was going down on him I happened to look at his computer and noticed there was a green light on on top of the computer, I started wondering if he had recorded us having sex and then I thought no it can't be true. The computer screen was black but the green light on top was on. Does anyone know if this means it is recording? My boyfriend's computer is a Mac book Pro I'm not very familiar with MacBooks so I did not know what it meant. When I was done going down on him I laid-back on top of him and we just kind of relax for about 30 minutes and then we got up and got dressed. I kind of forgot about the computer until I was on my way home and I got to thinking the whole time I was on top of him I was facing his computer then I began wondering was I being recorded? Is anybody familiar with this computer do you think he was recording us? How do I find out if he was or not? If I just straight up asked him what he really tell me the truth?
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I was at my EX boyfriends house today He left the house for about 30 minutes to go pick up our pizza I told him I would stay at his house and relax. When he left I went into his room and started searching through his computer and found the video of us having sex together. It was recorded in a video clip but what I did not know was his Skype was on and 3 of his Friends were watching us. It shows the three of his friends in a little side screen on the movie clip And they were all watching me.
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I guess his friends computer was on mute because all you can hear in the video is me moaning and pretty much all you see is me facing the computer riding my boyfriend. I think the whole story about his favorite position was me riding him so he could watch my boobs bounce around was really just so his friends could watch me. When he got home I confronted him about this and immediately broke up with him. I am so hurt and embarrassed at the same time That three of his friends were watching me
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I don't know what to do now I'm sure his friends have a copy of it on their computer too Although I did delete the video off of my ex-boyfriend's computer, At least I hope it is gone. I feel so violated I know they had to plan this out before I even got to his house that day the video was from when posing for my boyfriend in my thongs all the way until he finished almost an hour and 20 minutes long. It's actually very creepy I was nude in front of these four guys for this long or even at all.
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  • Dude, you're boyfriend is f***ed up for doing that .. I wouldn't ask him about it, cause that might scare him into just getting rid of the evidence (or hidding it somewhere from you). I'd try to find it on his computer when he's not around and somehow make yourself a copy(email it to yourself or something), then confront him. if he denies it then let him know about your copy and if he threatens to show anyone or something along those lines, get the cops on his skanky ass. Hope this might help, good luck honey

  • Omg.. Sounds like he recorded it.. Don't let on you know.. Find a way to get him to ask you to come over other than sex and when you get a chance go through his computer.. Before doing this, Find a friend who has the same computer and familiarize yourself with it and ask them where you might find it.. Good luck I really hope you get this ass for what he did to you!

  • If the green light was on, it means he had the camera on. It might not be recording though, but it was on.

    I personally would ask him about it and see if he fesses up. IF he says he didn't, maybe try to see if you can find it on his computer when he's not around.

Most Helpful Guys

  • Don't ask him.

    Buy him some nice underwear. Drop by his house unannounced and ask him to try them on and make a grand entrance. Take his computer and destroy it. Or, pour a bath for the two of you and while the computer is on, drop it in the tub.

    You problem is you gave him permission to take photos and proof is in the photos. He has done this before. You gave consent, now the problem is will he sell the video and to who?

    Good luck

  • it seems like someone with a macbook is going to be able to provide the best answer.

    but to 100% verify you can just go to his place again...not to have sex...and check out the monitor. then ask if you can record something for him (make some faces or whatever) and see the green light comes on

    • re: update... wow that sounds really awful. sorry you have to deal with that some guys (and people) are real scum bags

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  • He probably did.

  • Im sorry that happened to you. He shouldn't have done that and if he did want to tape you two have sex at least talk to you about it and not share it...

  • Green light on camera means ON.

    I also have a macbook.

  • Go to the police

  • Sounds like he was recording.

  • he is a prize a**hole to do such a thing! Get the cops and your attorney on to him! What the heck, make some money out of him - do it before he deletes or worse, sells the footage!

  • If the light is on it means its recording

  • Wow that's really messed up. I hope they don't have a copy of it or anything. You could call the police, but since you deleted the video there's no evidence now.

  • I am so sorry this happen to you.

  • Green light means he had the camera program open but it doesn't necessarily means he was recording. The only way to find out is to check it and see.

    I have a macbookpro and the light comes on even if I'm not recording anything.

  • You got f***ed in more then one way. It is proven that females prefer to have sexual relations at their own home. Now you know why.



    It is illegal so if he did do it, crucify him.

  • If the little light on the webcam was green it was recording

    you need to ask him or somehow get on there and find out for yourself

    • ^By find out yourself I mean find the video and confront him

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