Does CFNM (clothed female-naked male) turn you on?

Does CFNM (clothed female-naked male) turn you on? Or vice-versa? More than the clothes, it seems to be a subconscious power-thingy to me.
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Wonder how many people understand this or into this. I would have been blissfully aware if it were not for p*rn. Something I watched triggered off my interest when I realized how powerful it was.
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  • Oh yes, it REALLY turns me on, I play this a lot with my girlfriend. At first she didn't understand why this stuff turns me on, then she started to be more part of it and now we're really close and accomplices in this. She actually enjoys to have the dominant position and be in charge, while I love being in her hands (literally :D), being guided and commanded by her. We make a lot of sex in this way, especially when i escape from the shower and she is alredy dressed, or when she has her period and so she just masturbates me fully dressed while I'm naked as a newborn! But one time i had a nice and interesting experience with a beautiful masseuse! A few months ago we were in a SPA to get a massage as a prize we won at a charity lottery. After my girlfriend's turn, I went into the room and I've been asked to take off my swimming trunks and wear a disposable thong, So I remained practically naked with the masseuse. Her hands all over my skin gave me a boner and my "friend" was about to slip off of the thong! At first it was quite embarassing, but then her good work on my body made me more relaxed and I really enjoyed this half-an-hour!

  • Yes, it does. Especially if she has nylon stockings on because they feel so good against me. Like you said, it is a little bit of a dominant/submissive thing when one partner is partially or near fully-clothed and the other is naked.

    • Ideally, for CFNM, she should have more than just nylon stockings on :-)

    • I agree. Not just stockings, but it is nice if that is included in what she is wearing :) Actually, fully clothed minus panties is good.

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  • I was going to ask the same question. I once had sex with a guy, he didn't undress me, he only took off my panties. But he was completely naked. But I find it really hot though. I'd want a vice versa some time.

    • Coooool. Sounds very hot and turning-on, what you describe. I take it that you were wearing a short skirt then? Vice-versa is also good. When I'm clothed, and my partner almost naked, I feel like I'm in charge, and she's helpless and vulnerable! Both ways turn me on. Contrary to what the feminists say, guys do like being dominated as well... it's just a power game.

    • I was wearing a dress. Well funny thing was even though he was the one to be naked, he dominated me like crazy. And yes it was VERY hot.

    • It's very strange how these things work... one never fully understands. Sometimes it's our subconscious at work/play :-) Yeah, a guy feeling dominated can also let his agression out. I don't know if this is a compensatory mechanism. On the other hand, the idea of a powerful woman can also be sexy. (I think a guy would feel powerful from dominating her.) Which is why I too enjoy being dominated in sex. Sometimes, not always...

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  • Its an obvious power thing when one person or group is clothed and someone else isn't.

    • True, I too would guess it's only/mainly power. Because it's more sexier (otherwise, in a traditional sense) if both are completely naked.

  • I would love to be naked in a group of clothed females. Let them do what they like - short of causing pain.

  • It turns me on so much. I love clothed women. Silk, nylon... uff :)

    • This is another angle -- the texture of the clothes the women are wearing. It's something else, though I agree with you, interesting too. Just the other day, I watched a p*rn video of three women (in office clothes, in an office setting) just discussing things, being in control of the discussion, and one of them was jerking off a hapless male. The turn-on effect was huge, since he seemed to powerless, and quite in their hands (literally speaking). I think guys too like to play power games.

  • It's very HOT

    • Agreed fully. It probably appeals to a very primodial side of us males.

  • I have never head of this actually I'd rather see the female nude I guess, but I don't see the point.

    • It's quite different from (mainstream) p*rn, though mainstream p*rn too has a CFNM or CMNF category nowadays!