Okay. As someone who's been through this, let me point out a couple of things.
A LOT of women are turned on by thought of being with two guys at once. However, more often than not, in these fantasies, her pleasure is the focus of the men. They're attentive lovers with one goal in mind, pleasing her.
It's damn hard to find a second guy who has that goal in mind. Most guys you'll find just want to f*ck and get their rocks off, no matter what they tell you.
MMF works BEST when what the WOMAN wants is to be sexually dominated and used by two men. This works best because it's the easiest situation to give. But again, it has to be what SHE wants otherwise it's going to be a disaster.
If you're like most guys who want an MMF, you want it because you enjoy pleasing your woman, and you think that the experience would be incredible for her. I wanted this, and I got my then-girlfriend to agree to it. We had three failed attempts, and third partner never lived up to expectation. Either he wouldn't follow direction, came too quickly, or... look. Reality just never works the way it does in your fantasies. Some things are better just left in that realm.
But if you're okay with seeing her be sexually dominated by another man AND she wants to be, then you might have an easier time of it. Like I said, it'll be a lot easier to find a guy who just wants to get his d*** wet then it will be to find one who meets your criteria.3 3 0 0Well as for her comfort level only you can really find that out for sure. From what your saying she seems like she'd be into it. I'd get a toy or something for her so she can test it out and also watch some p*rn in that capacity together if your not already.
I've had both kinds of threesomes (MFM and MFF) All were with girls I was casually dating/hooking up with. Nothing to serious although if I was comfortable with a girlfriend I wouldn't mind. Best to find people that you can trust and are cool with.0 0 0 0
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me and my boyfriend recently had a 3some with a much older male it was very nice but you have to all three go into knowing its just for sexual reason and no lasting type thing but if done right it is very much fun
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1 6Do you really want to have another man bone your wife? You and your wife might feel guilty afterward.
0 0 0 0I've had basically the same experience you're describing. I just decided to leave it alone because the risk wasn't worth the reward. I think you're obviously aware of the risks, but you're attraction to that taboo act is clouding your ability to keep it in perspective. I don't think your wife wants to risk the relationship.
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It shouldn't exceed that0 0 0 1Yeah.
0 1 0 0I've done it with my wife (and her ex) and it's amazing sex for her, it's the height of sexuality for her. But there's two things to consider:
1) How is your love life going to be after that. After that level of stimulation it required a lot of imagination on her part in order for her to be satisfied. The aftermath sex isn't as good as pre-mfm sex.
2) This one is a little more selfish - the images don't go away. At the time I was cool and focusing mainly on my wife, but it's hard not to notice the woman you love and another man having sex. It conjures of fears and insecurities, and I wound up comparing us and my wife's reactions of when he was inside her vs when I was inside her. It became toxic quickly.0 0 0 0ru still together?
Yep, madly in love :)
Lovely if done with right person
0 0 0 0My wife and I have been enjoying MMF threesomes with a couple of guy friends for several years. It takes a lot of good communication between you and your wife, and your wife and the second guy.
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