Being a crossdreser myself I can tell you it took a lot for him to even tell you about his hobby, let alone actually wearing women's undies in front of you. He holds a great amount of trust and faith in you, as well as being very comfortable with you.
I have "stopped" on many occasions. Even going as far as throwing away all the lingerie I had acquired at the time. And after a short while, it returns, and I find myself in a bra and panty again. There is something very comforting about having that bra wrapped around my chest and the panties holding everything just right. I'm even wearing a bra and panty right now as I write this. It's quite the relaxing feeling to be wearing women's lingerie. Being a crossdresser is more of a "lifestyle" than a hobby or fetish. So it's not that his lingerie wearing is more important than you, it's just that it's as equally important as you.
He's lucky to have you and your lucky to have him. Go ahead and take him out shopping with you. Make it a fun thing. He can help you find what looks best and works best for you, and you can do the same with him. And that way you might just have an extra bra or panty to wear on that special occasion when one of yours won't do.2 2 0 0Attraction is involuntary, something attracts you or it doesn't, it's not a conscious choice. Basically, he likes it because he likes it, has nothing to do with you.
Obviously this guy is not for you. Stop wasting your time on him, you have no future together, so cut your losses.
Go find a new man, every second you spend with this guy is a complete and total waste of your time.0 1 0 0
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Do you love him? That's the only question you need ask. If you do, then the mouth-breather concepts that paint our culture needn't distract you from the most important attributes. Talk to him. Listen. Open up yourself. Enjoy your life and your relationships, even if parts of it color outside the lines.
0 0 0 0Its a tricky one and lots of this about. My friends know men that like pantys. In bed with you with sex is a worry. I like sniffing my girlfriends and been caught twice. I wouldn't mind if I couldn't see and I suppose he could cum in my pantys after sex but mmmm selfish with t eother
0 1 0 0Ask him. And listen. S/He/s human. As are you. Open your heart and mind a little bit.
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2 9And again "You're still with him why?
0 1 0 0He's getting off on it.
0 0 0 0I don't think it really matters why he's doing it. I don't think he's gay because he wouldn't be having sex with you. The problem is that he has a few fetishes that you are not comfortable with. Your relationship will not work for this reason. It sounds like you need to accept the fact that the two of you are not compatible and move on.
2 2 0 0I completely agree.
Most men who like to dress in women's clothing AND like watching "shemale" porn are imagining themselves as the "shemale" they are watching. If the porn he is watching depicts a trans woman with a cis woman then he likely sees himself in a somewhat lesbian relationship with you. If he is watching porn that depicts a trans woman with men then he is most likely bisexual. In any case he may very well be transsexual at least between the ears. One thing is likely, he will not stop ever. If you can't live with his cross dressing then you probably should break up with him.
0 0 0 0I am also in same skin as you boyfriend, he is normal. Please help him with fantasy
0 1 0 0Because he is a weirdo.
0 0 0 1I'm impressed with how fast this user became "no longer a member." Less than 7 minutes from when this question was answered.
Why don't they delete the question then?1 1 0 0It's hot
0 0 0 0One of my exes wanted me to wear her clothes... I wasn’t expecting it and I didn’t do it... I knew her mom was a gay rights activist and a lesbian so in my mind I thought she would bring another girl into the fun but... nah. I’m more open minded now but that one didn’t just did not work out for other reasons. I moved on... met someone else and got married and now have 3 kids and no time for sex because of everything else that needs doing every single day... so have fun while it lasts and do whatever you want... sounds like if you surprise him with a strap on... you would be his dream come true. And if that’s the case... he needs to become your dream come true for you as well, perhaps in other ways, to be more compatible... if he doesn’t... buh bye.
Relationships are both give and take and share and put each other first... it takes effort.0 0 0 0I'm. slowly getting gayer and gayer it started when I found a pair of pink knickers now I'm likw your boyfriend
0 0 0 0Maybe he wants to be a she male.
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