I really think my boyfriend is sleeping with my mom!

[Anonymous]

My boyfriend and my mom have always got along really good. My mom is single and likes to go out and have fun, bars, clubs and stuff. My boy friend just turn 21 and I am 18 so I can't go out with him a lot of times and I'm not comfortable with him going to bars and clubs all the time. My mom goes with him pretty often and says she will keep an eye on him. Well lately he has seemed real flirty with her. I came home from school and they were in the hot tub together and I saw my moms bottoms hung over the table next to the hot tub. I just went to my room and didn't say anything. What am I supposed to say? Its my mom. Then last sat they went out and usually they don't stay out to late but when it was 230 I knew something was up cause bars close at 2 so I started o call but neither one would answer until about 330 my mom sent me a text that I still have in my phone saying exactly quote " hey baby are lost a designated driver left us we going to stay atgramas down the road love U!" just like that? I really didn't understand and when they came home the next day they said that there friend who was supposed to take them home left them and my grandma who lives a couple blocks from the bar they were at and they went there to sleep. I felt suspicious and looked at his bank account and there was a charge for a motel room that night? and then another hotel room about 5 weeks ago when he was supposed to be visiting his mom for the weekend I had school and work and my mom was "staying at her boyfriends" who I thought broke up with her. I'm just confused, worried and don't know what to do?

[arsenal25]

wow wow wow no respect for you from both of their side. I say stand up for yourself! how can you watch this and not say a work? that is weird, don't be scared I would question things, and I would most def. tell my mother that what she is doing is soooo inappropriate I mean come on! hot tub with ur boyfriend not panties, going to a bar with him! You really should break up with him and do it fast. See what happens, and tell your mom to back off. What she is doing is terrible, she is your mom she needs to get her own friends to go out with not your bf!

[MEXYDANCER]

I think you should confront you mom first. ask her... and if she denies it go ask your boyfriend and he denies it then bring up the info on the hotels in front of both of them!... and if they both deny it then dump your boyfriend and seriously talk to your mom... I'm so sorry this is happening to you

[hotguy519]

I agree with you!

[Nikki12345]

first I think you should confront them at the same time maybe one of them will look guilty at least.

If you want to ask them separately talk to your mom first. then dump your boyfriend because he's lying to you anyway.

[dave216]

Well those are independent adults who can do as they wish. You don't mention whether your sexual needs are being met, or if you are satisfying his sexual needs, but that really does not matter. What matters is if you are able to cope with what you suspect is happening. If you are not comfortable with it, it is incumbent on you to confront the boyfriend with your suspicions and get satisfactory explanations. If that does not satisfy you the only alternative is to terminate the relationship.

[l-hedoniste]

I call bullsh*t.

1. If mom was screwing your boyfriend, she would either hide it better than that, or confront you with it.

2. So would your boyfriend.

3. If they were going to spend the night in a motel room, why would they go together?

4. And why would they tell you?

5. And put the charge on a card you have access to? Motels do take cash, you know. It's one of their advantages.

Thank you for playing.

[FDRunner]

If you come home and see your mother and "boyfriend" in a hot tub together while your mother's panties are "not on" then there is a problem. Confront him and her and see what they say.

[993099142]

Move out of the house.. that is not someone you want to be friends with.

[Marrryyyyy]

ok, break up with this guy because he has no boundaries, regardless of whether he's doing your mom or not. then I'd talk about it with your mom.

[hunglowman4you]

holy #$%@ ! your boyfriend is doing your mom ! girl... I do not know what to say... 1st confront your boyfriend about it... then confront your mom about it... do you have any sisters or brothers that can help you? are you close to your dad?

[jacquesvol]

You could be right, or you could be terribly wrong. If two people want to do that it would be difficult to prove it.

[TwiztedTD]

To many things that shouldn't happen, are happening. Therefor I think he is hooking up with your mom.

[jacquesvol]

Twizted reasoning?

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