Why is my boyfriend the minute man when it comes to boobs and blowjobs but can last forever during sex?

[Anonymous]

My boyfriend and I have been dating about a year now and we have a pretty good sex life to an extent. The stipulation is he can last a long time during sex if I leave my bra on but the second I take it off it's game over for him in usually a min or two. If I do take it off during sex I usually turn away from him so he can last longer. He tells me that watching them bounce up-and-down is such a big turn on for him that it just makes him finish almost immediately. It's the same thing when I give him boob jobs, I put oil between my boobs and let him start and it's usually over in just a matter of minutes. I don't understand what it is or how he can last so long during sex until the boobs come out. Blowjobs are by far the fastest, There's been multiple times where I noticed he was finishing inside of my mouth before he even got hard. Is it a mental thing for guys I have even made him finish in like 30 seconds from just licking on his balls and not even putting him in my mouth. I have given him hundreds of blowjobs over the last year and longest one maybe lasted five minutes and that's because he was drunk. When we 69 together he finishes 2 to 3 times before I can even get off. It's not that big of deal to me and is not causing problems or anything although I do enjoy giving him blowjobs I just have to keep going after he finishes if I want to give him a longer one. Does anyone know why this is a problem for him and why he can last during sex but not during blowjobs? Does anyone have any ideas I could try to help him last longer?

[LastNightmare]

Start by kissing his stomach and go all the way down to his penis. Gently cup his balls and massage them lightly as you lick from the base of his penis all the way up to the head... continue kissing the head of his penis then insert it into your mouth and suck it like a Popsicle. Swirl your tongue around the head while its in your mouth and look into his eyes. Keep sucking his dick and take more and more into your mouth until you gag a little. Use your free hand to stroke the shaft while sucking. Don't forget to play with is balls and suck them too. Spit on your hand and rub the head of his dick while you suck each of his balls one buy one... Then go back to his dick and put as much as you can in your mouth, moving your head up and down spitting on it and stroking it at the same time.

[MrOracle]

I agree: this is just how this guy works. He has a boob fetish and maybe a BJ fetish, and he can't control himself.

Then there are guys like me: I struggled with BJs for a long time. It felt good, but I couldn't ever "get there" because it felt so *different*. It took meeting a girl who LOVED giving BJs, and was willing to do it as long as it took, before I finally finished that way. Now, I'm closer to the normal range, but it definitely took some getting used to.

Some guys would much rather have BJs than sex. Me? I'd much rather have sex than get a BJ (though BJs are great). Some guys are 50/50. We all have our preferences.

[Blondemaureen]

My husband is the same way. Blowjobs are just so intense for some guys they need to cum quick. And it sounds like you have good skills.

[katiesmuff]

Guess those titties do something for him! :)

[Mikle]

Seriously. Those sound like some amazing tits!

[sovetskii13]

Each person has his/her own fetishes, likes/dislikes, turn-ons/turn-offs, etc. He clearly has a boob fetish or is just really turned on by the view of your boobs bouncing. That's just how his mind and body works. He was born like that.

[Moloch]

That's just his thing. I think every guy has a thing.

[echoaj]

I'm the opposite. I can last forever with blowjobs but I cum faster during sex

[ThePostMan]

So you've got the best of both worlds. You can get fucked until your happy and make your boyfriend cum on command.

[AimeeKyle]

He is obviously significantly turned on by the thought or visuals he is seeing during the boob job / blow job. Try blindfolding him or have him close his eyes.

[deadpo345]

Hey would you give me a blowjob