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Me and my brother used to touch each others' private parts when we were kids.

Okay I have never told any one this... So here it goes... Back when I was 6 years old and my brother was 9 we Use to touch each others' private parts And we use to enjoy it very much. We use to hide in the room Our parents don't see us. This lasted till I turned 11 that's about 5 years It really bother me till this day, now we don't get along at all We don't like each other at all, we don't hate each other but We don't like each other at all. P. a we never had sex or oral sex. We just use to play with each others' private parts
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Not really a question I just wanted to see what you guys think of that ?
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  • Hey hun. Your not alone ok. When I was 5 my cousin who was a year older and I would experiment and look at touch. We did that until we 8 or 9. After not doing anything like that for a year or longer I still thought about his penis all the time and we always talked about sex and stuff but never went further than talk. I started to expose myself to my younger brother when I was about 10 or 11 and he would have been around 6 or 7. I would start wrestling with him to get a feel in and then one time his hand went up my pj shorts by accident. After that we started to show each other and I let him touch me and I would touch him. That lasted till he was about 10 and when I was 13 my cousin slept over for the weekend and we ended up going down stairs to the bathroom by our pool and pulling our pants down to show each other how we've changed because we always still talked about sex and our bodies. He had an erection and we touched our selves together then we just stopped. I'm 18 now and we have never spoken of it again. My brother however snoops my room and does something with my panties but that's all I know. SO YOUR NOT alone. and I don't regret it because I learned with someone who I loved and trusted and it ended when we matured.

  • I think at the age you didn't fully understand what was going on and it went on for so long because you didn't realize it was wrong. I think now it's really coming up because you're noticing how wrong it was. It was terrible for him because he had a better idea of what was going on. Until he was 14, yeah that's not just innocent anymore. How did your parents raise you? Were you very sheltered? This sometimes happens when kids aren't exposed to much so they get curious. I can't say it's happened to me, but it happened to my sister when she was really little and it did really damage her. I'd say it's best if you talked to someone about it. I think that could really help you other than bottling it up. Those things happen and it could really affect a lot of things in your life.

  • Can't deny that this is a bit unusual expecially with him being 9 when he started and continuing up through the time you would have began changing! I had boobies and was menstruating at 11.

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  • If question asker was eleven when it ended, I would assert that at least one of the two knew what they were doing by that point.

    I suspect that brother had a pretty good idea about things at nine.

    I knew a fair amount at nine and pretty much all there was to know, by the time I was thirteen.

    Intentionally or not, your brother contributed to your premature sexualization.

    That carries some potentially damaging psychological freight. Particularly for girls.

    I suggest you seek psychological counseling as early as you can find a way to access and afford it and stick with it for a while.

    Can you put your finger on the reason that you and your brother don't currently get along? (sorry about the choice of words there... Seriously, there's no pun intended.)

    Also, what event occurred that caused the activity you described between the two of you to stop?

    • as harsh as this answerer made this sound. he's right...it's weird how when the answerer gets downies, it's usually the right answer

    • Thanks, davdus. My intent wasn't to be harsh, but rather to offer some un-fluffed truth.

    • Thanks for the down votes folks. I would be interested to hear any well-reasoned and factually supportable arguments against any pouts I raised.

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  • Well you cannot change the past, but you can put it behind you.

    I would say that most children have seen their siblings naked, brothers and sisters alike. It is common for a young kid to be curious about the opposite gender's private parts. And this curiosity sometimes leads to touching. I'll admit that my sister and I have touched before when we were very little, only because we were young and curious. We never talk about it ever either.

    But I do not think that this has anything to do with you and your brother not getting along with each other. My sister and I have gone through phases of hating and liking each other off and on throughout our lives. Now we are in our late 20s, we are close, and I feel I can trust her with nearly everything.

    • Thank you !

    • You're welcome and thanks for BA. I don't think counclilng is necessary like some others suggested. Unless you believe that this incident is poisoning your relationship with your brother

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  • So...what exactly is your question?

    • Well, I don't think it's "right" but you were just kids. I think it was you two just being curious. As long as you stopped and don't plan on doing that again then I don't think it's a big deal.

  • Honey, you didn't even know what you were doing! Its okay. XD

    Don't feel bad about that, you two didn't even know what sex was and were just playing ^^

  • You were just kids. I made out with my cousin a few times

  • I think the sexual activity between you two is why you do not get along. Perhaps you should both apologize to each other. I am not saying you did some horrible thing but clearly at least one of you feels that way. So, apologizing might help. Take care.

  • Just normal experimenting. It happens probably more than people admit.

    • Normal for 6-9 yrs? OK. Normal for 11yrs? Mmmm... Not so sure. Normal for 14? Bullsh*t.

  • You were kids...stuff like this happens sometimes, I wouldn't sweat it too much. If the memory is causing you a lot of pain or has a strong negative impact on your life, then I'd consider professional counseling.

  • it sounds like consensual molestation to me

    • it's not molestation if it's consensual

  • I saw me in your story. when my brother was 7 years old i was 11.
    we slept in the same room and often in the same bed. we looked at and touched each other. I never found it wrong on the contrary. we found trust and respect to learn the first sex lessons

    today he's a cute man with awesome ass and he has a girlfriend and I have my guys but de don't do it anymore even if i miss it a few

    • oh bless you I bet you don't knowwhat you're missing out on deepthroat him now have you gone all the way why can't I have with minewe could have a fourway swap brother for brother

  • Let it go you were children

  • thank you for sharing.

  • Whats the question? You were kids just exploring each others bodies, when I was six my cousin and I would kiss and feel each other. At that age you are just figuring out what your body is we didn't know what we were doing. Don't worry about it

  • i did the same thing with my sister. we started when I was 11 she was 9 we would go outside and find a good hiding spot and get naked. my mom caught us and we both got enemas every time she caught us until she just gave us enemas every day.

  • you're fine. I did something similar with my cousin about that age. Always wished we had done more tbh.

  • I wouldn't let it get to you!! Try forgetting it and moving on children are curious its obvious with research!!

  • So when you both were younger and you used to touch each other's private parts did you used to try and make each other cum at all or did you both just used to touch each other's private parts and that was all/it?

  • I was about 10 and my neighbours used to come over and we would make a tent in the backyard. Tracy was the oldest, around 13 and I was 11 and Tracy's brother was 11 also. We used to get in the tent and jerk each other off almost every day. Tracy is the only one that would cum, but he used to suck us for the hell of it. I always felt that I had done something wrong for many years. Now, it's all gone away. I haven't had a gay experience since then. Just gotta live with what happened and go with it.

  • The odds of birth defects stemming from an incestual parentage is less than.1%, less than from smoking, drinking, excessive eating, stress, most medications, air pollution, over exposure to sunlight or x-rays, and life in general. The human race wouldn't even be what it is had incest never been a factor

  • Me and my sister slept together because we only had a two bed room house and from the age of 3 and 5 me being 5. we touched each other and slept naked and cuddling. she was p before my dad added on to the house and she got her own room. we gained a deep love of each other and to this day we are close as husband wife.

  • I think it depends on the youths involved. My dad remarried and my step sister was 8 and I was 11 at the time. Times were tough, only one room for both. Don't know why but I always liked sleeping naked. She would have terrible dreams often and sought safety sleeping in my bed. I never even thought about touching her. But early on she would caress me. It helped her fall asleep I think. But then she after not long would graze my dick, just graze. But she quickly moved on to stroking it. Then one night she just went straight to sucking on my cock. I'll be honest and say I did enjoy it... a lot. that went on for awhile then she just straddled me one night. She said she really liked doing that and I didn't mind so much. This continued for almost 6 years. Then my father caught us one night. After that she would wake him and he would come lay with her when she had bad dreams. To this day I'm still a little upset or jealous I guess I should say. I enjoyed our time together at night. The worst part of it all was having to lay awake and hear knowing what they were doing. I don't know why she chose him over me. I suppose in his ways she maybe just felt safer on top of him?

  • glad to see I'm alone and you're not alone too
    quite a lot of people that do or have got loads of things in secret with family member like myself I'm like you had a bit of fun with my older brother started when I was younger about 9 to take me to the bathroom saw me nude said its fine there's no reason to be shy well and sister so we don't have to be bothered about being rude or being nude with each other how long does nobody else find out then anything you can ask her say to me you're older brother that's what I said I blussed went red I was like 9 he was 13/14 and he said I was curious and also a bit keenso I said OK Google be careful and everywhere I don't want to get in trouble I told him if we get caught he promise me it's ok and then got itis big dick it was bigger than i would of thought
    And i replied by saying remeber This was first time like this u will need to teach me your special sis
    His was the first cock I saw it was big for sure so how it began with me from 9 he was 14 until now occasionally sometimes we have a bit of cheeky fun
    OH by the way I KNOW U WANT TO KNOW?
    IF WE FULLT FUCKED?
    ANSWER IS=YES FEW TIMES NOW FIRST FULL ON FULKY FUCKED ME AGED 11
    st. just now if you know you're not the only one there's quite a few people and I haven't replied with situations quite a lot you have to have that I'm still doing things like that one thing in that if anyone's interested in taking it more as I can arrange some genuine real life taboo fun

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