Guy going down on girl (cunnilingus) on 1st hookup? Would you (do it / allow it)?

Guys, would you go down on a girl on the 1st or 2nd date? If not, why not? Girls, would you allow a guy to go down on you on the first or second date? If not, why wouldn't you?
I'd do it (male) / allow it to be done to me (female) if I was able to
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I wouldn't do it/ allow it to be done to me.
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Most Helpful Guys

  • i wouldn't do it on a first date and probably not on the 2nd unless we had taken leaps and bounds in terms of getting to know each other...

    why wouldn't I I just don't do it with anyone, I'd want to have some idea of sexual history and any std's/sti's...plus for me I just want to be connected with a person which I don't feel I can really achieve after by the 1st or 2nd date.

    so for the most part no but I guess there could be some exception out there

  • No I would never do that with someone that fast. I have standards and plus how well do you really know someone after a date or two. I like to actually be committed in a relationship before I do anything sexually with a woman. I'm not a sleep around type of guy.

    • Two thumbs down for being a committed kinda guy. Wow. I respect that of you!

Most Helpful Girls

  • Yes,I have. It wasn't the first or second time I had seen them. It was the first time we were hanging out alone though. So they weren't complete strangers...

    Would I let a complete stranger go down on me? Maybe. I would be way too horny, drunk and the guy is attractive.

  • No,

    not at all.

    I'd feel very uncomfortable.

    To me that's a bit more intimate than actual sex because (unlike sex, I can't use layers to protect).

    It would take a while for us to get to that point.

  • Nope. I kinda have standards and don't just give it up on the second date, never mind first. I'm not really that kinda girl who just shares my body with anyone.

    • Couldn't have said it better :)

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  • I won't do anything sexual with a guy unless we are officially in a relationship.

  • Hell no, what kind of girl you think I am O.o lol I have to know a guy really well to willingly give myself to him like that. >>I don't care who doesn't agree with me<< lol

  • Why would I say no? If a guy wants to down on me I'm not stopping him unless he doesn't know what he's doing then I'll stop him.

  • Sure, why not?

  • Some girls can't resist our charm - haha!

    If it smells clean, I will always go for it. But there are certain odours that make me run and wash my hands immediately (definitely not going to put my mouth there) - and then keep on running!

  • Unless it was a storybook perfect date, I wouldn't do it.

  • No, on the first few dates I allow nothing of a sexual matter to happen.

  • I'd want to have a good idea about how healthy she is.

  • No I like to wait until I get to know the person better.

  • Nope. That is too early for me. I'd wait I would wait until I am offically dating.

  • Not a chance

  • I damn sure would allow it

  • i would if the girl was remotely handsome.. but tbh I'm a nasty motherf***er

    • "handsome" LOL

  • That's moving too fast for me, but when we know each other better and get to doing sexual things, if he wanted to do that first I wouldn't have a problem with it. I'm sure I'd love it.

  • I met a piece of candy once many years ago at college. I talked to her for about 2 hours then brought her into the school chapel. I ate that candy for about an hour and omg yum.

  • I would if I could, but most girls I know are too afraid to let a guy go down there without a lot of ground work. They'd never let a guy down there on the first date.

  • Have done it first date before, lol.

    • Yeah I don't give my cookie up on the first date.

    • Well, we narrowed down the list of possibles of who it was by one then, lmao.

    • That's like a 2nd date thing.