My boyfriend doesn't know where my clit is....

[Anonymous]

Here's the thing, even though my boyfriend doesn't know where my clitoris is, he is really good in bed. He's 25 and very experienced, but he has trouble finding mine and has even thought briefly that I never had one! He has a basic idea of where it is but he doesn't know what it looks like or anything like that. He has been with many girls before me but he says mine must be particularly small because he doesn't know where it is. He's great at oral and at sex, but I think I could have even better orgasms if he knew where it was. However, I think that because he is good in bed, he doesn't really want to be corrected. For a while he thought it was on my labia majora! (No way is it there). Is there any sexy and less mood-killing way for me to show him where it is without saying "TOUCH THAT"? It is small, so I don't blame him.

[audreymarie21]

i find it hard to believe that an 'experienced' guy can't find a clit, no matter how small. a virgin 16 year old boy should be able to find it, it's in plain sight. he clearly knows where your outter lips are, so if he just seperates them and looks at the top of the vagina, he should see it.

[Asker]

Good point but we usually have sex in the dark and he always closes his eyes when he goes down on me so I don't think he really knows what he's doing down there. It feels good but I think it's just a coincidence

[audreymarie21]

Hm... well unless you have issues with having sex with the lights on, I would highly recommend it, and you could even separate your lips on your own, and while he's down there, just rub your clit a little bit with your finger... he should be able to see it with your finger right there, and stimulating it makes the blood flow to it, and it swells quite a bit

[Asker]

Haha that is such a scary thought...him seeing that in the light? I should probably just get over it...haha

[dragonfli786351]

how about when he's fingering you put his fingers in the right place. Or you could just tell him, that works wonders.

[naked_eye]

I think he knows it because like you said he's good in bed and had many relationship before you..

in my own perception its just an excuse,every man has this kind of fear when it comes to that part.I can say that its just an alibi in case we didn't satisfied you.

[l-hedoniste]

I think "TOUCH THAT" would be sexy as hell. But then I'm also thinking of what you can do with a scavenger hunt, magic markers, and Post-It Notes, so I suspect I'm not mature or rational enough to help you right now. Sorry.

Good luck!