My boyfriend cums too much. Does the amount a guy ejaculates mean anything?

I hear that it depends on how long it's been since he's last had sex. Is this true? Because my boyfriend cums too much. Are there other factors? ie) the intensity of the orgasm, the guy's size or health? etc.


Most Helpful Guy

  • There are 2 and only 2 factors involved in how much an average guy ejaculates (at least with any significance).

    1. How long it's been since he last came. The male orgasm has a purpose. That purpose is to eject semen. Guys have a limited supply of semen at any given time. Sure the balls and prostate and such are constantly working to make more, but they can only make it so fast. Thus depending on how long it's been since he last orgasmed, his glands will have had more or less time to produce semen.

    2. How long and how intense the build up was. Mostly how long. When a guy is aroused he produces semen at an increased rate. It's like the body's way of saying "hurry the hell up, we got an order to fill!" The longer a guy is aroused and stimulated for during sex, the more he will eventually cum.

    However, the primary and most telling factor is always #1. If your guy cums a lot more than usual, it's been a while since he got off. If he barely cums any odds are he masturbated earlier that day or something.

    • Wait, doesn't hydration matter too to some extent? I've read that dehydration slows down both sperm and precum production.
      But overhydration won't increase production.

      Mostly meant as a hint to you guys to drink properly.

Most Helpful Girl

  • well the amount is definitely based on the last time he came, I can always tell if my boyfriend took care of himself earlier that day... but sperm count can be decreased if the guy is doing drugs, that would make the come clearer, less white. I've been told by guys that if the orgasm is really intense that there is more come and it shoots farther... but I don't think it's scientifically or logically proven.

    • The 2nd point is definitely true. A study isn't necessary.

    • As your boyfriend ejaculates into you, how can you see the quantity of his semen?

    • Nope, but I can see the quantity of the semen when he ejaculates on my stomach, on his stomach, on the bed, on my leg.... get the idea?

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What Guys Said 1

  • Yeah, it can be an indicator of when he last had sex or masturbated.


What Girls Said 2

  • I think there's a couple of factors: the last time he got off, how turned on he was this time, how intense it was for him.

    • Believe it or not it has nothing to do with how intense it was or how good of an orgasm it was. I mean if a girl stopped right when I was beginning to orgasm, it wouldn't feel very good at all, but the same amount would still come out. I know cause that's happened to me before. Also has little to do with how turned on a guy is.

  • So (i guess my bae?) and i were talking and he confessed to me of how the last time he jerked off it was to me, now he's done it a few times before but he said this time he came A LOT more than usual, even though it hadn't been to long since he last masturbated... could this mean i aroused him so much he came more? Or was it just how long he aroused himself?

    • Probably right. I cum a lot harder when a girl is into it with me. The more cum, the more intense my orgasm is.