Do guys put their weight down on a girl during sex?

Or is it uncommon? my boyfriend pretty much presses his body down on me during sex for a few seconds when he's all the way in, and sometimes he won't even thrust, he just keeps it in and presses down on me. The first time I kinda laughed and pushed him up and told him I couldn't breathe, but when he did it again the time after I asked him why he does that and he said something like "I like the feeling of having you" lol I don't know what that means exactly, but anyway guys is this common? Do you do this?
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Most Helpful Guys

  • Sometimes right as I finish I may lay on her. You can't hit the g spot unless you push up with your arms. It takes some strength and endurance but the just laying on her is lazy. Try some different positions. Lay on your side and have him straddle your lower leg and penetrate you while he squats. Try doggie too.

  • For initial stage of relationship - this happens. He might be thinking that this way he can penetrate full and will not slip out at finish. Ask him to try your riding him and cow girl and he will enjoy it lasting longer without fear of poor penetration or slipping out.

Most Helpful Girls

  • My boyfriend does it sometimes though he doesn't put all is weight down on me. I like when he does it I feel his entire body against mine. I feel closer to him somehow. He can't let all his weight down on me, I wouldn't be able to breathe ^^

  • that would annoy me. Most guys are too heavy to do that to me since I'm a pretty small person and it would be hard to breathe. I would feel a little claustrophobic. Fine for a quick second but I couldn't stand to have a guy just lay there.

  • Sometimes my boyfriend does that, but he's barely 120 lbs so it isn't like he is heavy enough to crush me. He just likes holding me during sex sometimes.

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  • My man prefer Cowgirl. For some initial sex, we had missionary, and he was putting his weight on me to ensure full penetration or to prevent slipping out. But soon we change to cowgirl. He last much longer and I am happy that I can control all games.

  • Yes. I like it personally. It's more intimate :o I actually feel corny saying that. But I do like it for that reason.

  • It's a strain to keep yur weight off the girl when you're on top; sometimes guys just need to rest a few seconds! We know it's not comfortable for the girl, so we don't do it for long.

  • Half of the women like the weight on her... but not all the time. it may cause closetphobia and panic. The perfect time not to panic

  • I don't do it like that. But I sometimes, effectively, put all my weight on my hips and through that on her.

  • I listen. Some people like it, some don't. I shift accordingly. It is pretty common I hear though.

  • No-one's ever done this to me. Mind you, I like being on top. Get out from under, girl.

  • I just lay on my women weather or not we having sex. Just want her to feel the presser!lol

    • lol

  • I am big and she is small. I always hold my body off of her when we are having sex in the missionary position.

  • I would have to do that I think.

  • I like it when my husband dies it but it's not all the time either aha

  • it depends on the boy. some keep themselves parallel to me without putting any weight on me. like a hovercraft.

  • They do

  • I act like I am putting all my weight on her when I have been laying on top but I have a majority of my weight being supported on my arms/elbows discreetly.

  • Only a little, if any. She needs to be able to breathe.