Will a guy get bored if I take too long to come when he goes down on me?

[Anonymous]

Im always worried when a guy goes down on me that I won't come soon enough and he will get bored or that he won't want to be down there? Do you guys get bored down there if a girl takes a while? I know its bad but I usually just fake it so that doesn't happen and I've only ever come once from a guy doing it. I get very self conscious I think that if I'm not making noise or whatever he will just get bored straight away. I have never asked a guy for it or put his head down they always voluntarily do it..does that mean they enjoy it?

[RideMyNorthFace]

No most men love it. If he's doing it voluntarily, then he enjoys it and enjoys giving you pleasure. You have to do your part and let him know what feels good. Moan or say yes or something when he's doing something right. Tell him "Yeah that feels good like that". Whatever, just let him know. If you like to be fingered while he's licking you or sucking your clit, let him know. Some women like that, some don't. Do your part on educating him on what pleases you.

Another thing, STOP Faking Orgasms! Your not teaching him what works and your selling yourself short by not allowing you to have an orgasm. When your receiving oral, you get to be selfish somewhat and be pleasured. Stop thinking of him so much and concentrate on YOU... having an orgasm. He's pleasing you, not the other way around! Tell him what he's doing right, and then have him continue to do those things until you cum. If you train him right, you will be cumming and cumming in no time!

Have fun! :)

[stubbsy]

A guy won't get bored between your legs but he will need a little guidance on how your enjoying it, because if he's going to be there a while, he is going to need to know that whatever he is doing your enjoying, otherwise he will want to move onto something else, because a guy usually will want you to enjoy it as much as he does, unless he's a selfish lover and is only out to get his rocks off regardless of what you get out of it, which guys like this probably wouldn't take the time in going down on you, they would opt for penetration first and last, but in general, relax and be comfortable and enjoy, because he enjoys knowing you are enjoying it,x

[TylerDurden9087]

We enjoy it but let me tell you from experience the more you worry about it, the more self conscience you are about it, the harder it will be for you to come. My ex had your same problem. Once I finally convinced her to relax and that I enjoy being down there she was able to come. There is no possible way it's gonna happen if all you're thinking about is if WE as men are enjoying it. If we weren't totally loving it we wouldn't be down there. Please don't fake it lol, that's no way to live. Next time try relaxing completely and just focusing on how good it feels. Not the time he's been down there or if he's enjoying it. Hopefully he is somewhat competent in what he's doing and can get you to that big O. :-)

[1inmillion]

Real men love it.

[mtway]

I love doing it and if it takes you longer I am OK with that. But of I am doing something that turns you off I want to know. Guiding and telling is always good.

[TwiztedTD]

No... I don't get bored. I like it when a girl takes a while =)

[Brookeelise]

no I don't think guys can get bored with that lol

[Anonymous]

No. I love doing it and get really turned-on by it. I don't mind spending a long time down there. Sometimes, I actually wish it would take my girlfriend longer to come so I could keep my face in her pussy longer. I think if they do it voluntarily, they probably feel the same way I do about it.

[Anonymous]

Don't be, we don't get bored. I enjoy every second of it.