What is the difference between slutty cleavage and sexy cleavage? How do I know how much is too much?

[Anonymous]

I am 25 years old single and looking, I like to go out with my girlfriends and hang out at the clubs and we like to dress sexy but I don't want to come off as being slutty. My build is slim and somewhat tall I am 5'9 but with heels I'm like 5'11ish and my mother gifted me with 34DD's I like to show them off when I'm dressed to be sexy but how do I know when to much cleavage makes me look slutty? I have several deep V-neck dresses that if I wear a bra with them my boobs are spilling out of them and I have to constantly check to make sure my nipples aren't falling out because that has happened before in front of a guy that I was talking to and it was quite embarrassing because he did not even tell me for like 10 minutes and there were several other people around that got a glimpse as well. I also try to be respectful of other girls especially if their boyfriends are around I'm sure they don't want them looking at me. How do I know how much cleavage is too much and makes me look slutty and not sexy?

[Kris85]

You sound like me. I am 5'11 and have a big chest too. Let me tell you, less is more. Unfortunately we cannot get away with the cute little tops that girls with smaller chests can but we can play ours up. If you want to wear a v neck short or dress, try putting a lacy tank underneath so your breasts won't pop out too much but you will still have sexy cleavage and it won't look slutty. Also wear a dress or skirt that is a little above the knee, if you have nice legs them go a bit shorter but wear nylons with it though? I hardly wear heels because of the fact I am so tall so I opt for boots usually although I do love heels. Hope this helps!

[beehappy572]

What do I know I have size A cup lol but I do find myself attracted to inhibited breasts lol meaning..they are not flying all over the place. So in short, perhaps where a bra, and then a sports bra. Cleavage wise..as long as your bras fit and they are not popping out as if bra is too small. 2 inches could show at most? Like I said I do not have to deal with all of that, I just put on a cami and I'm good. But there ya go, hope that makes sense fir ya.

[AwesomeErich]

Those are all good suggestions I might add, something that gives her support a gentle pick me up is the right attire a can I is the best situation for her I believe something to flatter her figure but not be too exposing :D

[beehappy572]

Indeed! :)

[Troian]

It depends on your bra size.

Mine is C, a friend of mine is A.

If we wear the same V dress, she'll look almost classy, I'll look slutty well...the only thing you notice on me are my breast...

Only you can judge me. I like my breast but when the only thing you see about me are my breast...I know it's too much

[AwesomeErich]

Her bra size is huge just read it 34dd lol she's gonna have to wear less cleavage revealing attire not a "V" blouse she should be definitely in something less revealing don't ya think? Lol

[Asker]

Yeah I know how you feel sometimes it's like the guy is having a conversation with your boobs and not with you. I don't mind the occasional glancing that's why I wear the cleavage but they could at least talk to your face and not to your breast

[Troian]

The thing is, something like all women, I'd like to wear something sexy. But yeah...men don't listen the conversation and just stare at your breast, it took time for me to accept my size just because of it.

[wondering_guy]

depends what your looking for? a future boyfriend, a sexual mate, if your looking for obvious but classy way id say a dress like this

link

or if you want something a bit more sexy you could have you boobs in a dress like this

link

the way the boobs are shown in these are not too obvious but enough to show off without seeming desperate/slutty as you might put it

[Asker]

TY I do see what you're saying actually have a dress just like the yellow one except for it is dark blue. The thing is this girl does not have DD cups. My boobs are still perky enough I can get away without wearing a bra with this dress the problem is my nipples poke through it when I get cold.

[Asker]

Btw how do you post a link?

[wondering_guy]

i see, well there's two options, either wear a bra or put some tape over your nipples, I tried to look on google for 34dd boobs to see what you meant only they showed me different sizes. you tried wearing a white shirt on a girl with big boobs can look sexy even without showing much cleavage, put on some classes and go as a sexy teacher kind of girl :-)

[wondering_guy]

as just copy the address from the top of the page and paste it where you want the link but you have to be level 2 or 3 on here to do it, if you want to post a pic of your cleavage on here I could do a question post with a link of you cleavage, if you wanted too, if not ok

[Asker]

I only have a picture on my phone of my cleavage it's not on a website. How does that work?

[wondering_guy]

you could upload it on photobucket, either that or find a pic on google that close resembles your cleavage and go on images, click on the one you want to show and click on where it says view image and then copy the link and paste it in your question

[funkadelic5]

It's not slutty, it's just hot. For srs. Fuck social norms. If a girl dresses in a when that advertises her hot body, I don't call her a slut. And whether she's "desperate" or not makes no difference and shouldn't hold a value judgement.

[funkadelic5]

in a way* that advertises

[MissConfused93]

You have to pick between boob and legs. Either have lots of cleavage and cover your legs or show lots of legs and little cleavage. Keeps you looking classy! (Ish)

[BoobMan]

This all comes down to the specifics of where you're going, who will be there and what you're wearing. If you'd like to discuss feel free to add me. I've given this a fair bit of thought! :P

[Anonymous]

send a picture

[Anonymous]

good rule of thumb- more than half the boob is showing= too much