How could my boyfriend expose my body like this to his friends?

I had to go out of town yesterday for work when I go out of town my boyfriend and I usually Skype at night time with each other. We did not get a chance to fool around before I had to leave because we were with family on Thanksgiving day so I told him I would do something special for him on Skype. Friday night at the hotel room my boyfriend and I got on Skype and I told him I would put on a show for him. I wore something sexy did a little strip tease for him until I was completely naked, I got out my vibrator and started teasing him with it then used it on myself for about 30 minutes while he watched. I was pretty excited myself and started to orgasm after about the first five minutes but because he likes watching me so much I continue doing it until I had a second orgasm. He likes to watch me shake and moan when I have orgasms so to turn him on a little more I made my moaning and shaking a little more animated for him when I was at my climax. After I finished I laid there on the bed still naked and we talked for about 20 minutes. When I got home today I got rumor from my friend that my boyfriend had three of his friends in the room last night watching me and they were out of his camera view. There was no way my friend could have known this unless it was true because I did not tell my friend and my boyfriend doesn't even really talk to this guy so I knew my friend heard it from one of my boyfriends friends that was in the room. I went to my boyfriend and asked him and he denied it but I could tell he was lying and his face was turning all red. I know it has to be true because there's no way anyone else could've found out unless they were there. I asked my guy friend if he could get proof that this actually happened so he told one of his friends that is friends with my boyfriend to send him a picture that he said he took last night. The guy sent my friend a picture and it was me on my boyfriend's computer masturbating. I am very hurt by this and I'm making my boyfriend sleep on the couch tonight until I can figure out what I'm going to do about this. Why would he want to expose my body like this and have his friends watch me do something so sexual that should be Between me and my boyfriend? Have you ever been betrayed like this? I still can't believe it.
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  • im going to be 'the a**hole' that gives you an honest guy answer.

    him showing you to his friends is not an insult or meant to be hurtful to you. he has something that is great & he had to show off some. you should not feel hurt. you should actually be happy that he thinks you are so amazing, sexy, and desirable that he had to show somebody. no one is going to think less of you. in fact, your 'girl stock' went up drastically. you are the girl that is fucking hot & does the stuff every guy wishes his girl would do. own your awesomeness. he likes you & you like him. don't think of it as 'exposing' you. think of it as not being able to keep you to himself because of the overwhelming greatness that you are. you should be happy that he is so satisfied by you that he doesn't feel the need to go out for strange.

    your other friend is very shady as a guy. he should lose all credit as a male because he is really just interested in you. this guy would do anything to fuck up your relationship because he wants to fuck you. that guy is jealous that he didn't get to see it himself. this is why I am not sure all of the story is being told.

    if you really have that much of an issue, just tell your boyfriend not to do it again and maybe stop skyping him for a while. when you see his friends, just own it. be above an orgasm. they were excited to see you & your body. brush it off & ask them if they liked it. tease them to see if they went home to J.O. that will make them feel awkward too. if you do it infront of your boyfriend, he will feel like a tool too...

    so don't feel so bad but be honest about it & own it. don't let something like that define you when you are better/more than that.

    • for a little bit of actual dude perspective, I give you the great Mr. P. you aren't the side girl but your boyfriend is still a guy. he is just showing his friends a picture of the trophy he caught.

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    • You sir are a complete moron, and the same type guy that makes decent guys look bad and find every excuse in the book to justify a persons wrongful actions what her boyfriend did to this poor young woman is appalling, and you have the audacity to sit there and justify this scumbags actions! What does that make your sir? Yes that's right, A PLAYER nothing her boyfriend did was respectful, justified, or morally acceptable! She needs to dump his ass period no if and or buts about it!

    • AE you are a whiteknight lame. It is sad that you feel like you have some moral high ground to stand on. 'a couple' people allegedly saw her get off... oh no. every single person on earth that has access to the internet or a cell phone knows that if you put a pic/vid up, there is a chance it will be shown to others. if she would be willing to own her actions & be bigger/better than a fucking orgasm, she would be better off. yours & others insecurity is showing. QA - just own it.

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  • I would dump him so fast he's a complete idiot, he doesn't value a relationship,he violates all trust and he's done the very worst thing possible! He could hsve ruined your reputation, and his he is a disgusting human being anyone who would do what he did has zero morals, and zero love for you! He's a piece of shit sorry to say it would be one thing of he asked you first or gave you the inclination that was what he wanted to do and you hsve him permission for his friends to observe you sexually he fucked up any and all chances this relationship is ever gonna work you can not just forgive him and move in because once trust is severed so is the ties that bind you two together in love! He's a douche bag and I feel horrible for you that's very sad thing to do to someone your supposably love what a backstabbing punk! :(

    • I don't care if you don't like my opinion about who should be your ex he's a straight up punk only a punk would care with such little regard for someone the love! To ruin all trust like he did what the fuck was he thinking? Obviously the only people he gave two cents about was his friends entertainment value AT YOUR EXPENSE! And your expense may be more then you can ever pay and to know one of his friends he had the fucking audacity to allow to take a photo of you what a bastard!

Most Helpful Girls

  • Oh my god, I would live him so fast. I'm not into revenge but I would look to do something BIG TIME. This is honestly the worst thing a man can do, it's actually even worst than cheating. He show you to his friends like you were some random girl. You are is girlfriend. A man is supposed to protect his girlfriend not show her around. I would feel so bad if I were you...I don't even understand why he did something like this!

  • Just a tip for you, put spaces or make paragraphs every now and then so readers don't get overwhelmed with info.

    as for your boyfriend:

    DUMP HIS ASS TO THE DEPTHS OF HELL.

    no boyfriend who truly loves you would EVER do that!

    He has ZERO respect for you or your feelings. Don't date someone like that, it will only hurt you more, he might do it again!

    he doesn't deserve a girl like you!

  • Woah. I'm sorry to hear this :-(

    He's probably in the relationship because he thinks your hot and he wants you for your body. If he was in love with you or cared for you, he wouldn't have done this... I'm sorry. It's time to dump him. Don't be weak, be strong. You can do this

  • Because he doesn't give a shit. This is exactly why I won't do anything like this. You can't trust anyone. I would dump his ass and maybe don't ever expose yourself on camera again

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  • Dump him!

    He has no respect for you!

  • Obviously he doesn't respect you. Time to find someone who does.

    Sorry that this has happened to you. A fun person like you doesn't deserve to be treated like this. Don't let this get ya down. Move on... Prosper! :)

  • Dump him.

  • Dump him. He clearly thinks of you as a cam girl not a girlfriend. What a pig.

  • He has no respect for you or your privacy. Kick him out and call it the end between you two. If you got anything that might embarrass him, use it against him. You don't have to use it, but that's just an option if you feel like taking the punishment further. What he did is absolutely dispicable. No guy like that deserves to be with any girl.

  • Um, you need to break up immediately

  • What a piece of sh*t oh my god! A man isn’t a man if he doesn’t respect his woman’s privacy especially in a private moment like that. Girl what are you doing even asking that YOU BETTER DUMP HIM ASAP!

  • well fuck one of his friends who saw the Skype video that will teach him then dump him when he confronts you with it.

  • That's beyond disgusting of him and his punk friends. Wow. Why are you still with him is what you really need to be asking?.. clearly he's the devil so..

    Wow, that is so gross.

  • He should have just earned himself the title of Ex-boyfriend. You don't do that to someone you are in a relationship with and supposedly care about. I wouldn't take an apology from him because the pictures are now out of his control and the friends can send them or distribute them. Wow I cannot believe a guy would be so disrespectful to his girlfriend. Dump him and don't think twice about this idiot.

    • ^I agree what a loser

  • classing sexting tragedy.

    It's time to break up.

    • classic*