My new boyfriend is uncircumcised. How will sex be with him?

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I have never had sex with an uncircumcised man before. What can I expect? I really like this man and I am looking forward to being intimate with him.

sa230e · Accepted Answer

If you're talking about the difference in sensation for you, there's only one way to find out for sure. Pleasure is a subjective thing and your mileage may vary. Some women claim sex with uncircumcised guys feels better. One woman (Kristen O'Hara) even went so far as to write a book about it called Sex As Nature Intended It. I have also read accounts of women who have tried both and swear it makes no difference. Of course if he wears a condom then there truly won't be a difference. You'll just have to try it for yourself.

If you're talking about needing to do something different, generally you won't have to. Intercourse should be exactly the same. As for foreplay, it might be a little different but not night and day. It's still a penis and still functions like one and will respond to the same things. You just have a little more to play with is all. It gives you more options. There are things you can do with it that you can't do with a circumcised guy.

I think a lot of girls view it as a totally different organ and worry they will need to completely relearn their technique but I don't think that's the case. I think it gets blown out of proportion and people make a bigger deal out of it than need be. At least in North America it's rare enough that is viewed as mysterious but I think once you touch it and explore it, it will feel quite natural.

cavmanier · Accepted Answer

It's just a little easier to give a hj or bj because the skin glides more. You might notice it a little during sex but idk.

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

The skin will glide more, so there's less resistance. Honestly, I'm against shaming men for being uncircumcised or being circumcised. They're both very good, but different.

harveykinkle · Accepted Answer

My only encounter with one (and who knows if it was the guy or the foreskin) would take a coon's age to cum.  It took F-O-R-E-V-E-R!

COCOCHANEL · Accepted Answer

i don't think it would make much of a difference. I've never had sex with circumcised man so I can't say for sure though.

iPood · Answer

It will be a little bit better. Foreskin is there for a reason. It kind of "glides" more if that makes sense.

katiesmuff · Answer

Probably just like it is with any other guy

Tabra · Answer

The same

Anonymous · Answer

I think it probably makes more difference to the guy than to the girl. For you, the biggest differences will probably be in hj and maybe bj. Sex might feel pretty similar. Most likely he will be more sensitive and thus come more quickly.

Anonymous · Answer

It's just a piece of skin that goes around the head of the penis when flaccid. I'd imagine there wouldn't be a difference, but those that say there will be are uncircumcised or prefers uncircumcised, so...