He said "the quietest girls are always the freakiest."Is this true?

[Anonymous]

I'm 18 and a virgin and still in hs.Well,i told one of my close guy friends and we were talking about sex,and he thought I was planning on having sex with some guy,and he kept telling me don't do it,save it for someone who deserves it,cause he regrets losing it to someone he wasn't in love with.Well then he made a comment.I'm a very shy,quiet girl,I'm not loud or outgoing,and he's like "well,you know,the quietest girls are always the freakiest" Is this what most guys think or what?I don't get why he would say this

[gdoteof]

He probably wants to do you. He may believe what he said, but this is not a common idea among guys as far as I know. More likely he just likes you and was flirting. In fact in my experience, for the most part, especially in younger women, general attitudes are a pretty good indicator of sexuality once the deed has been started.

What I mean is, a timid quiet girl (this doesn't apply so much to more sexually mature women) is generally more passive sexually.. while a rambunctious girl is more likely to lick a butt hole or something.

The only catch here is that, and this is limited to personal experience, quiet girls are generally more mature than chatty ones and thus if they know they are ready to have sex they just do it rather than having it be this dramatic mental and emotional roller coaster to go through

[Asker]

I don't think he wants to have sex with me.He's in a committed relationship with this chick,and we started talking about sex,and he told me how he regrets losing it at such a young age and that he told his girlfriend he wished he had saved it for her,and he was just telling me,don't make that mistake and a lot of guys will say things to get me into bed,and that I need to wait.But then he said that

[ilovelegs]

I think he was referring to the saying, "Still water runs deep." As far as girls that would mean that a girl that talks a lot including about sex and appears is aggressive is probably a chicken in bed. But the girl that's the quietest is the opposite and doesn't talk about the things she likes to do when it comes to sexual things. She's more inclined to keep those to herself. It's not necessarily true but it does make a lot of sense. Another saying goes like this, "The person that talks the most does the least!"

[marcold]

Totally, people did the same thing to me when I am really quiet I am quiet but when I talk I have to take everything out and I also notice that I am freaky too.

[Anonymous]

I'm not for sure but I do know some of the quietest and boringest girls I knew said some stuff to me that absolutely blew my socks off. How the hell do girls like that think of that sort of stuff?

[Asker]

Lol.What do you mean?sexual stuff?Cause I do talk about sex a lot lol,but only with my best guy friend,but I don't do anything

[Opinion Owner]

Yes, like just stuff I didn't think even the perviest male could come up with. What the hell do I say to that sort of thing? "Uh, okay?"

[Asker]

Yea,i say some pretty perverted stuff too,but I'm not open about it.It freaks my best guy friend out

[Opinion Owner]

She just said it in my ear one day. I don't know why or what for, but it was off the wall and didn't know what to think or say. But like a lot of things in life, you gotta share the experience with someone.