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Hornier than my boyfriend?

I've always been hornier than any of my boyfriends. My current boyfriend of 2 years is trying his best to please me but sometimes I feel like I'm forcing him to have sex. He gets annoyed how I would always wake him up with a blow job. I work out everyday hoping it will make me less horny. It just increase my sex drive. I only see my boyfriend once a week. Yet everyday I don't see him I have to masturbate. Should I go see a doctor about this high sex drive issue? Should I try to tone it down even though my boyfriend said he is okay with it, although he complains about it at times?
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  • Yes your a raging nymphomaniac there is a cure for that find someone who doesn't complain, or respect your bf's requests of you, unfortunately you can't have it both ways! So in saying so yes, tone it down if he's complaining it means your sex drive is possibly a problem for you two doesn't mean all men are like your current lover it just means you two might have issues with sexual frequency, and that might be a compatibility issue sexually between you two if you let it! I'd be talking it out with him! Worse thing you could do is disrespect his needs, and puts yours over his if the frequency issues seriously get in the way and you two can't adapt to each of your own sexual drives this kind of thing could cause a possible separation sorry to say it really matter how much you value your own sexual appetite, over your partners lack there of? Best of luck with your dilemma!

  • Some people are just wired differently. If you only see him once a week though, I don't understand what his issue is. Wake-up BJs are clutch too, that's an odd complaint. But I don't think you need to change. Just recognize that most of us guys have only one bullet in the gun, so to speak. You gotta give a guy 8-12 hours to recuperate, and ideally a full 24. I used to date a girl that would beg me to c*m, faster than I normally would. So like 10 minutes in she's urging me to finish, I'd force myself to get there quickly, we'd lay down after and she tugging at me 10 minutes for round two. What the f*ck, lady? Wouldn't it make more sense to just let me go as long as I can and be done with it ? Hahaha

Most Helpful Girls

  • It's perfectly normal to have a high sex drive... I also have a pretty high sex drive and am always trying to have sex with my boyfriend. Even if he's tired or doesn't want to. I've also done the same in the past with a boyfriend, but that's a whole different story. I don't think you need to see a doctor for something that is completely normal BUT if this is something that is seriously bothering you then go.

  • Unless your sex drive is interfering with your life, it is absolutely NOT A PROBLEM! If you masturbate several times a day that is totally cool. It only becomes a problem when you stop wanting to hang out with friends/family because you'd rather be masturbating. Or your homework or work gets neglected because you are too busy masturbating. See where I'm getting at?

    Otherwise…keep on keepin' on ;-)

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  • OMG WHAT? What the ____ is wrong with people these days. I don't get that at all.. My God YOU are just perfect the way you are please do NOT change a thing other than your choice in men or should I say boys. I feel so sorry for you. And wish more women were like you. Seriously I guarantee that there are men out in the world that are wrongly matched up that are wishing for their women to be just like you. Nothing is wrong with you at all !

    You don't deserve that. I mean he doesn't deserve YOU !

  • No, your normal. I used to wake my ex up with oral too. She never minded. :) I had a higher sex drive than her but if I have her oral first and to orgasm, she would do what ever after that.

    Honestly, you sound like a dream to me. Keep masturbating, have sex with him when you can. In the long run if he can't keep up you will have to decide to either find more ways to enjoy masturbating or find a new BF.

    Good Luck! :)

  • "aww man, my dick is getting sucked too often" Said no straight sonofabitch ever.

  • If you only see your boyfriend once a week, he should not complain about your libido. After a week most guys would be thrilled to have a girlfriend like you.

  • There's nothing wrong with you. You're normal. There's nothing wrong with your boyfriend. He's normal. You may not work out if you cannot find a medium.

    I'd be more concerned if you masturbated in public regularly and almost uncontrollably or fifteen times a day or tried to have sex with him at 3am and saw him daily but none of these things are so.

  • You need to see a doctor if you re really concerned about having a high libido...

  • i wish I could wake up to a bj :( lucky dude lol. tho I will note if I was tired and it was to the point where I was continuously woken up during the night to have sex, and I didn't get any sleep, id probably get annoyed after a while. but yea, analways, what unicorn head said aka andthentherewas1 hehehe

  • get a guy you are sexually compatible with

  • Do you think that you could be a nymphomaniac?

  • It's odd that a lot of girls on here claim to have a higher sex drive than their boyfriends, but in reality, the vast majority of guys will always have a higher sex drive than the average girl. This is a strange place. Maybe this site just draws this type of girl. I don't know. Though women are becoming less ladylike. Maybe it's a sign of women having more testosterone and we'll all be somewhat androgynous one day.

  • You don't need to see a doctor and you don't need to tone it down with your boyfriend. He's so lucky!

  • Wow. As I'm lying here in bed just waking up with some incredibly hard morning wood, I can only think about how awesome it would be to have a girl here waking me up with a blow job.

    Don't go changing girl!

  • I hear ya its actually annoying when the girl wants it more than the guy - cause the guy sort of HAS to want it to make it work. where as sometimes you can just spit and the girl is able to do it (not enjoy it, but perform the act)

    meh just ignore it for now.keep everything the same and don't worry bout it unless he says something

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