What's the best way to ask a woman to eat her out?

Question

Is it good to eat out on the first date? Is good to meet a woman  just to eat her out

Gone_But_Not_Lost · Accepted Answer

I know you say you don't want men's advice but honestly I am gonna drop in my two cents anyway.

Thing is whenever I ate somebody out I never asked. As soon as the opportunity came up, I just went for it. I'd dive at it. No asking, no warning, no permission asked. I just did it. Now if you're wondering what I mean by an opportunity. I mean things like, say if we're alone and she's wearing a skirt and her legs aren't as crossed or as together as they usually are. Or say we're getting into it and it's getting hot, my hand moves down and is touching her p**** through the clothes or through the panties or just plainly my hand is under it all, that is a good time to move in as well. Also I'm not sure if there is anybody else here like me but sometimes I can smell it when a girl is turned on. Not a bad smell, but noticeable. Ultimately when it comes to eating a girl out all you really need to do is look for moments when she's really getting into it. Look for signed that she's turned on and would like more. At that point you just go for it.

"It's easier to ask forgiveness than it is to get permission."

Now granted that expression has it's exceptions but the exceptions I think are pretty f***ing obvious. So... read my words, and think about it. From there it's really just a judgment call.

Littletad · Accepted Answer

You should take advice from guys too you know. We've been there too. It's hard to ask a girl this out of the blue, she might take it the wrong way. The only way you can ever know if you can, is when you get to that stage of the relationship or unless your paying for sex. Sarcasm aside, when your in the heat of the moment, that is the perfect time to ask. So there.

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

That's nasty as hell but just say can I eat your p? Be direct. If she's down for that she won't have a problem with how you say it but if she's not you have to be careful because you'll come off like a creep. A lot of girls now are down for it so odds are you should have no problem.