Guys what would your impression of a girl be if she had a premature orgasm first time you had sex together?

I recently started dating this guy about three weeks ago he's definitely the hottest guy I've ever dated he's very attractive and has a great body. I haven't dated anyone for about six months just because I've been so busy with school I haven't had time to, nor have I been sexually active. Last 3 weeks we haven't done anything sexually other then kissing each other sometimes he holds my butt when we make out which I really like. Last night he came over to my house we were watching a movie he was laying on top of me on the couch. After the movie we started making out and putting our hands all over each other for about 30 minutes, he kept playing with my boobs so I told him that he could take my shirt off if he wanted to. I had no intentions of having sex last night but it just kind of happened by itself. After he took my shirt off he started kissing all over my chest and I was getting really turned on, I haven't had any moments like this in a long time. He kind of worked his way down my body and then put his hands up my skirt and slowly started working my thongs down, in return I sat up and pulled his shorts and boxers down and he laid back down top of me and continue kissing. By this time I really wanted sex I could feel myself throbbing down there, when he was kissing on my neck I told him to put himself inside of me, when he did I instantly started having an orgasm, I could feel that I was about to have one when he was on top of me and I was trying to hold it back but as soon as he pushed himself inside of me it was all over and I couldn't stop it. My orgasm lasted for nearly a minute and I was somewhat embarrassed because I did not want him to think I was crazy. After I finished I apologize to him and said that I couldn't hold it any longer and he told me not to worry about it. We had sex for about 20 minutes and then I set up on top of him and had another orgasm and then I let him finish on top of me. Should I be embarrassed that I had an orgasm the first time he put it inside of me? I mean I don't want him to think I am inexperienced or crazy or anything because I am not. I know sometimes guys might catch shit because they came prematurely but I was wondering what what people think about it girl having a premature orgasm. Do you think it's look down upon? Should I feel embarrassed?
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Most Helpful Guys

  • Usually, a girl can have many orgasms during a sexual encounter. Usually a guy can have just one, then must wait a while till he can initiate another one. Because of having to wait for a while to do it again, if a guy has an orgasm before the gal, he cannot continue penile sex to please her. A considerate guy will go the extra mile to use things other than his penis (fingers, mouth, toys, whatever) to give his partner her orgasm. It is that having to stop penile penetration that makes it a premature orgasm (ejaculation).

    Since a girl can usually have more than one orgasm in a session, there is no need to stop coitus, so it is not considered a premature orgasm, just a first of however many orgasms. Even if she cannot have more than one orgasm, a requirement for male insertion is an erection, which the guy usually loses after orgasm. But a woman can continue providing stimulation for the man just by letting him in, and more so by squeezing and thrusting.

    So, never feel bad about how quickly you cum, just enjoy the heck out of it and do it again!. He will only feel good about pleasing you.

  • This is most women's dream sex. Your asking if you should be embarrassed? Really? This is how it is supposed to be! Women can have many orgasms, and they can have them early and often and it's NEVER a bad thing. Your man treated you right! Be proud of him and reward him for such good behavior! :) You have nothing to be embarrassed about! Tell him to keep up the good sex!

    Enjoy and Have Fun! :)

Most Helpful Girls

  • lol I'm pretty sure every woman in the world wants to be you and every guy in the world wants to be WITH you. It is difficult for a lot of women to orgasm at all. And I don't think people would give a woman shit for having a fast orgasm because it doesn't mean the sex has to be over. Have fun, you lucky duck :)

  • Lol are you kidding me? Every straight guy would be over the moon if they were able to give a girl an orgasm just by touching her and getting inside of her. It probably was a huge ego boost for him.

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  • This has happened with girlfriends a lot - foreplay gets them so turned on that as soon as penetration happens, they cum. So, what's the problem again? I think it's great.

    As long as you didn't push him off of you and tell him you were done for the night, then there's no issue. Feel free to come as much as you like, whenever you like. It's a GOOD thing!

  • OMG! That's GREAT! I'd give anything to have that kind of effect on a woman. Do you have an older sister? lol ; )

  • Its like ... the best thing ever.

  • Absolutely not... You absolutely made his night for sure!

  • Please stop worrying about it.. You just made his guys ego jup up onto a pedistel.. He is on cloud 9 knowing he made you come so fast... He enjoyed just as much if not more then you.. Call him up and do it again! take care of number 1.

  • Seriously? How in any way shape or form is it bad that a guy made you come early?

  • "God I'm really good at this sex thing"

  • If a girl cpmes prematury it changes nothing for the guy since guys can have more than one orgasm so it's a good thing

  • This sounds like something most men would fantasise about.

  • I have experienced that where a girl orgasms As soon as I start putting it in and I thought it was so hot!!! It’s not like when a guy cums prematurely and then goes soft, that really ruins the mood. If anything when a girl orgasms she gets wetter and that makes the sex feel better. I would never think she is crazy, just very sexual which is good.

  • you lucky thing

  • There is no such thing as a premature female orgasm. The sooner, the better. The more, the merrier.