Girlfriend put a sex toy up my bum. I had one of the best orgasms ever. Does that make me gay or bi?

A week ago me and my girlfriend were talking about using toys and possibly her using one on me and visa versa. I was unsure about it being used on me and possibly curious about it I have heard good things about ti. 2 days later we ere having sex. Well in the moment of intensity and passion during sex she shoved a sex toy up my butt. Thankfully it was lubed . It wasn't some fake penis, it was chrome colored with a curved shape. When she did it I had the best orgasm I have ever felt since I lost my virginity. After that incident we had a interesting discussion.Most me being upset and feeling weird about the incident. Anyways, I allowed her to do it one more time since then and I still had an amazing orgasm. She only uses it when she think I'm getting close to busting. What ever it touches in there, it set me off (orgasm) almost instantly. I love my girlfriend and love women in general. Their shape and appearance is sexy. I find men to look disgusting. But after using the toy, I have been feeling confused. Does me enjoying the sex toy going up my butt make me gay or bi?
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  • Unless it was a man that did it then it doesn't make you in any way gay. I means you are a normal man who has a prostate.

    The association of this type of pleasure with being gay is a stereotype only - because it has not long been talked about in the straight community. Please don't fall into the myth.

  • Not gay or bi unless you get a guy to do it. If you do it with a girl it's straight as. I fuck my guy with a strapon because it gives him multiple orgasms. But he dose not want to do anything with a guy.

  • Nope your not gay or bi. Its just a sex act. by the way I like to do the same with men to. Hehehe

    • Very nice 🙂

Most Helpful Guys

  • If you are sexually attracted to men and only men, you are gay. If you are sexually attracted to both girls and guys, you are bi. Does either of those cases pertain to you? Doesn't sound like it.

    Enjoying a dildo up your ass has nothing to do with what I typed above. She should get a strap on for you.

  • If putting a sex toy up your butt makes you gay, eating your girlfriend out makes you a lesbian.

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  • Nope.

  • No. It makes you normal and open minded for which you got one of many great orgasms to come.

  • Only if you're wishing it was a hard penis.

  • No...was it with a guy? Then its not gay...

  • It only makes you gay or bi if it was a guy putting a toy up there. Don't worry about it.

    • Or a guy putting his "toy" up there.

    • If you mean the guy putting it up his own then that is masturbating and not necessarily gay unless he is fantasizing about another guy doing it while he masturbates.

  • If a lesbian let her girlfriend slide a sex toy in her vag, does that make her straight?

  • Nothin wrong with a good prostate exam. Yes prostate orgasms are more intense. The release is more intense while a prostate exam is in progress! Just another part of anatomy! Just use caution!

  • It's not gay unless you did it with a man.

    And even if you do let a man fuck you in the ass, it isn't gay if you don't make eye contact. You got nothing to worry about matey.

  • Yup. Gayer than AIDS

  • Nah every single guy would love to have their prostate massaged when you are getting close to cumming. I am straight but nothing feels better than when I push my vibrator in my ass before I nut.

  • Um, no it means you have a prostate with sensitive nerve endings. You know, like all men do.

  • YOU ARE NOT GAY

  • ROTFLMAO! Yes that's gay, but hey its your life.

    • how does that make him gay? Don't knock it till you have tried i. Guys just like girls have a lot of sensitive nerve endings in there ass. I have stuck a finger up a guys ass and let me tell you he was not gay at all. He said it was one of the most amazing orgasms ever. Especially since i was pleasuring hi on his penis and in his ass. It does not make you gay!

    • Getting a fake dick put up his ass isn't gay? that's a new one

    • @Bigbutbeautiful one million percent agree. I love to play in the bum. Feels amazing 😍

  • No it means you're like all men and have a prostate. Not gay.

  • You're no more gay than I guy who likes to do his girl in the ass.

  • No, you're not gay.

  • No, it does not.