Which virgin is the hardest to find: a virgin girl or virgin guy?

I honestly think a male virgin is harder to find than a female. I say this because some of my female virgin friends tend to mainly end up with non-virgins guys. Only my virgin friend Cindy found her virgin guy but that's because she kept looking for that and kept dumping guys that weren't virgins. My first time was just out of luck but we were both 15 at the time. So mainly it's either luck, the girl has to be as young as the guy or she has to be extremely selective like Cindy. But I had others that told it was really the other way around, that it's harder to find a virgin girl than a guy. Who do you think it's harder to find?
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Most Helpful Girl

  • According to my guy friends, girls are harder to find. I can list plenty of men that are likely to be virgins and I'd probably be right about 30% of them among the Jewish, Muslim, Sikh, Conservative Christian, Traditionalists, Conservative Orientals, Religious Christians, and the Highly Educated etc... I'd say that out of the Muslims who pray 5 times a day and have no contact with woman outside of study groups - most of them are virgins. Out of the Christians who fast every year and devote their life to public service jobs - I'd say 30 - 40 percent at least are virgins.

Most Helpful Guys

  • This is a good question. I think it varies by age.

    At a certain point, the greatest percentage of virgins are girls. Let's say that's 16. But then every year after that, the number of virgin girls is decreasing faster than the number of virgin guys.

    Eventually, at some point, it flips and you have more virgin guys than virgin girls. What point is that? Hard to give an exact age, but I can tell you I know a whole bunch of guys who are 30+ and still virgin. I don't know a single girl in that camp.

  • Virgin girls easily. However both virgin girls and non virgin girls prefer non virgin guys. Whereas both virgin and non virgin guys prefer virgin girls. guys are more socially conditioned by guys and girls to want to NEED to lose their virginity wheras girls don't have the same push to the same extent.

    • I guess Cindy is the exception. She had the rule that she wanted to learn it together with the guy on her first time. The only bad news is she's going to have to wait till marriage. Her boyfriend is a religious guy that doesn't believe in premarital sex, not even oral. It didn't matter on my first time and though he was just as clueless as me at the time; it was cute. But now that I haven't been a virgin for a long time, I would preferred a non-virgin. I would feel a bit guilt taking his v-card.

    • I would worry that he might become too attached to me.

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  • Virgin girls are WAY harder to find. Most men ages 30 and younger are either virgins or haven't had sex in a year. But that stat is not true for women though.

  • Girls. Because girls get hit on 100 times more then guys. Its really hard to find a girl who is truly a virgin.
    According to a survey conducted between a group of girls and guys, nearly 70% of the guys were virgins.

  • Virgin guy i think

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    • I think virgin girl harder to find tbh

    • @ballweevil nope im virgin but i haven't met with a virgin male before

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  • Virgin girl.

  • I would think it obvious that virgin females are much harder to find nowadays.

  • Virgin Girl, It's so much harder for us Guys.

    You have to think about it, If a Girl asked any Guy to have sex how many would say "Yes" and if a Guy asked any Girl to have Sex how many Girls do you think would say "Yes" ?

  • In my opinion a virgin girl is harder to find, I'm a virgin myself so I know. Even if you find a virgin girl she wants a non virgin guy. And all the hope is lost

  • The majority of people lost their virginity to non virgins. It's just generally how it works out. For example... link