How do you explain/prepare your boyfriend before you have sex that your orgasms are very wet, like "squirting"?

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Over the years the majority of my orgasms have been extremely wet such as it comes shooting out of me. when I was young about 15 or so I remember laying in bed experimenting with myself and that's when I had my first orgasm and that's when the squirting started. When me and my old friends would have our girl chats I kind of brought it up to them and they had never experienced that before so I thought I was always different, I did some research online and found out that it was not very common and that kind of made me self-conscious about being with a guy and him seeing me do that. I started dating a guy when I was 17 and the first time he made me orgasm was when we were having sex in the shower so I don't think he even realized that I started squirting I just told him I did and that kind of broke the ice on that subject. I dated him throughout high school and college so I was use to having orgasms with him so I was not uncomfortable. He never wanted to make a commitment after college so I broke up with him and have been single for about a year and a half now.

I'm 26 now and I just recently started dating this guy and things are starting to get intimate between us and again I am self-conscious about having an orgasm in front of him. I can't always tell when my orgasms are going to be extremely wet or not it just comes unexpectedly most of the time, when I pleasure myself I always have to lay a towel out so I don't soak my bed sheets or couch. How do I prepare/explain to my boyfriend my situation should I just let it happen naturally or do I give him a warning? What would a guy think if this were to happen and he was not expecting it would he be grossed out or do you think you would like it? Should I be self-conscious about this I just don't want it to happen and it turned out to be awkward or something. I am kind of a shy innocent girl and I don't feel comfortable telling him this early in our relationship that I have squirting orgasms I just think that would be an uncomfortable conversation and I would just rather it happen during sex and him find out that way. Thanks for any advice it would be helpful.
How do you explain/prepare your boyfriend before you have sex that your orgasms are very wet, like "squirting"?
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