Is it bad to give a guy a blowjob on the first date?

[Anonymous]

I have no issues giving a blowjob as I enjoy doing ti, but I wanted to get the opinions of others before I decide whether or not to give this guy head on our first date.

[indian_empress_91]

Don't do that on a first date. Most times when you give guys the benefits of a lover/bf before you even date seriously or enter a relationship, they won't see the point in being serious with you. But hey if you don't want a boyfriend then I guess be safe ...wait you shouldn't blow anyone or do anything with anyone on a first date especially if you don't know if they are std/sti free. Be careful

[pr3ttybr0wn]

lol guys will say that it's not a big deal and you can get as sexual as you want to on the first date, but ask if those same guys will wife your ass or publicly claim you. Not too many people end up in respectable relationships with decent guys after going down on the first date.

[EyeAmNiceGirl]

If you want to, then sure. go for it. If he's pressuring or even politely asking for it, then no, because if he's actually asking for it on the first date, then he's going to be wanting you to go all the way on the next date. You don't want a pushy guy.

[linds34]

First date sounds a little early, but it wouldn't necessarily be bad in all situations. Like I'd do more on a first date if it was a guy I had already known for a while first.

[codingsmokey]

I agree with kingjr. I've had relationships that started with sex and turned into great long term relationships or some that turned into friends with benefits. I think guys who are more open to sex tend to not think negative of this.

Who cares what others think and if the guy thinks it badly then screw him, his lost.

[Anonymous]

It all depends on what your attitudes towards sex is.

If a girl gave me a blow job on a first date, I'd think her to be cheap... because such a level of intimacy, to me, is reserved for deeper relationships. If you think I'm conservative on these matters, you're probably right!

[KingJR]

What the hell is with all these negative comments?! If you want to give him head on the first date, go ahead! I've had sex with girls on the first date and it hasn't made me think they were cheap, or anything of the sort. If they DO think something like that, it's because they have their own insecurities to deal with. A chick who's sexually open is a keeper in my book. More power to ya!

[Candymtf]

I know this post is from a long time ago, but I always give oral in every date I go on.

Good guys will be thankful and bad guys got what they wanted and will leave you alone.

I would much rather give a guy head on the first date than kiss. Kissing is much more intimate than making sure his pressure is taken care of. But the bj is my line in the first several dates, and I rarely don't have a guy calling me back.

and I usually mention it at the beginning of the date so he has something to look forward to.

[darkforcebooty]

mind giving oral sex advice? follow me if its okay! :)

[Candymtf]

I don't have much advice to give other than treat it like you will never get to do it again and your goal is to make him release every pent up stress and anxiety in him when he finishes. And remember it's not really sex, it is more like a massage and giving you some time to forget every trouble you have. And once you start don't quit for any reason until he releases all that back pressure. The icing on the cake is when you get up and tell him to just relax and that you don't want him to do anything and no matter how much you need something to wait until another time. Make sure you lovingly savor his stuff he releases as his body worked hard producing it and it is a gift for your body no matter how much your brain might tell you it tastes bad. Absolutely never refuse that gift his body makes for yours.

[sovetskii13]

I think it's kind of early to jump into sex that fast. But that's just what I think. If you feel comfortable getting it on right after the first date, go ahead. I can't tell you what to do.

[sovetskii13]

Even oral sex.

[Finchie40]

I wouldn't complain

[jdfarmer]

For the guy that's awesome however if I was you I would hold off on it.

[SkittleMayn]

It's entirely up to you. If he's attracted to you, the guy will almost never say no, but personally — If you gave me a blowjob after the first date, I wouldn't take you as seriously.

[Trippie_Bread]

I wouldn’t mind it at all

[SirRexington]

Not usually. Unless the date has been hours long and has gone perfect. Even then though I'd prefer to wait a little bit.

[robotscarecrow]

Sure

[taleswapper]

It's okay with me... ;) In all seriousness, if that's what you want, and your partner is agreeable, go for it. If it bothers him, don't. And if he thinks less of you for it, throw him back; he's an idiot.

[Johvendi]

Yes please ^^

[Jaybournexx]

It depends what your objective is. If it's a one night stand or friends with benefits kind of situation then yes it's perfectly fine. If you want a deep meaningful relationship, make him wait.

[PeterPatter]

Lol. Who won't mind?

[tasteeverydrop]

I think if thats is what YOU want to do, not so much him, then yes.

[jb12358]

I want to say it's OK but any time this happened to me on a first date it was always with someone where it was a purely physical level of attraction and things eventually fizzled out within a few weeks.

[skinnyriblover1]

You should prob wait. But if I was the man...i'd want you to do it!

[BeWithMe]

Yes, but YOU decide

[MatthewOD]

No. This is a sign of insecurity and desperate need for external validation from another human being. It is wiser to get to know the person over a certain length of time before doing anything sexual.

[Dragan]

Yes.

[anon08]

Yeah if you're just trying to have fun. However, if you're looking for something long term; I wouldn't.