How to tell when a guy is sexually frustrated?

[Anonymous]

This is probably extremely naive of a question. Is it truewhat they say that it is more extremely difficult for a guy to go without sex than for a woman? What are the mannerisms? This guy and I are good friends and I know he hasn't seen anyone for a long ling long time (as I haven't either). Lately, especially laat night, he was joking about "slow and dirty sex"...I 2as bashful. Trust ms when I say that I want him to the point of it being unbearable sometimes. So I was bashful because he was getting to me. Tonifht however, was a different story. He was very cold, wouldn't talk to me, grumpy...jumped if I accidentally touched him. I was drrssed up nice, new hairdo, new soft perfume. His knee tapped ehen I was near him. Now I know it doesn't necessarily mean that he was "frustrated" but you can't say he wasnt, either. Please list the mannerisms that wouls tell a girl rhat a guy is "frustrated"

[Anonymous]

My understanding:

* He'll be hi-strung, prone to fighting with others, complicated to deal with.

* He'll be talking sex with just about any women, even those he's just met.

* He probably doesn't sleep too well as he's not getting sex (or masturbating).

* He's an overall "tense" type.

* He behaves awkwardly with girls, makes passes, gives sexual hints.

ps: A guy who masturbates regularly need not be sexually frustrated. On the contrary, he might just be excessively placid!

[Asker]

I'm sure he does the self love but it's nor the same. He always brings up the topic. I'm bashful...maybe that's why he does it? I don't know. But suddenly out of the blue he is very very pissy with me. We haven't interacted or said anything since. I've left him alone but I don't know what to do.

[Opinion Owner]

Some guys are naturally over-sexed. There are others who believe it's their god-given right to talk sex with just about any lady they come across. My belief is that if they're having enough sex (or masturbation too), that should take care of their excess testosterone!

[Asker]

He doesn't just talk to any woman about sex. One girp is overlt willing to talk to him aBout it. She always brings it up but he never lets the conversation linger. With me, even if it's jokingly, he always brings the topic up.

[Opinion Owner]

True. He would have his preferences. But a sexually frustrated guy is obvious... One experience: when my partner gave me a lot of good sex, I was on a 15-day trip out of home, overseas. Two women offered me open invitations at that time, which I declined to accept... I didn't need it then!

[Asker]

Well ...with him I don't know if it's obvious. Two days ago he was laughing and joking about sex. His voice changed, it got sultry and deep and he was pondering about certain sexual things. The next day, he wouldn't give me the time of day, jumpy, pissy, introverted. I didn't bring up the topic. He did. And it was blunt "I want to be w you" ...he brought up a scenario. Wondering outloud aboit dirty things, etc. Asking me what a goid naughty girl would do for her man but not flat out asking ME.

[Opinion Owner]

So do you want his attention or don't you? What you describe reminds me of myself (i) when I've not had sex/masturbation for 6-7 days and (ii) when I've had sex a few hours ago, or a day back. It quite changes the way I see the world!

[Asker]

Of course I do. I just can't tell if he is just saying it because he's horby or because he wants to do those things to me/ with me

[Opinion Owner]

Where do you draw the line between one and another?

[Asker]

What do you mean? He isn't forceful or aggressive. I don't draw any line simply because I don't knpw of his intent. He just constantly changes the topic to something sexual and does it consistently with me.

[AwesomeErich]

A hard dick, a guy wanting to get close to you and flirtatious possibly coming outweigh talking dirty low toned voice eyes fixated on your breasts ass or vagina breathing heavier then normal red faced those are a few pointers to sexual frustration, or he might just come out with it and say he is it depends on the guy and how comfortable he is talking to you about how he feels also

[Asker]

Is it possible to do the opposite? To chastise the topic of sex and jump when touched?

[AwesomeErich]

Sure it's possible, any things possible..lol I know I sure wouldn't jump when touched that would feel so good! :D

[katiesmuff]

If you find his conversations always leading in a sexual direction he is probably sexually frustrated.

[Asker]

It always does! And now out of the blue...he's very sensiticr and grumpy with me!

[Tractorbeam]

Here are some in this link. link

There are plenty of bad physical and emotional effects.His health and temperment will definitely suffer.

I think the biggest loss is in reduced work productivity and achievement,and reduced quality of sleep.He is bound to be less forgiving,temperwise.

[Asker]

Im sure he "takes care of himself"...wouldn't that still lead to frustration?

[Anonymous]

is he breathing and not having sex.

if so then yes he is sexually frustrated