I don't care that he watches porn but its the kind he watches that bothers me.

My boyfriend watches "bbw" porn. Which I guess means big beautiful woman. I just don't understand that really. I am only 107 pounds and I am very petite so why does big girls turn him on? I looked and the only thing he looked up was this bbw porn or chubby girls. Do guys watch this kind of porn and just not tell anyone or something? I just don't get it
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  • The thing is - whatever kind of porn he is watching; it's probably more out of curiosity than actually wanting to realize it in his own life.

    It doesn't necessarily mean that this is the kind of thing that turns him on - I know a lot of people who watch porn just to widen their sexual awareness and see what other things there are out there to do - besides the normal - even when they don't replicate them in their own sexual experiences.

    That being said - it could do it for him. Who's to say - but I wouldn't really worry about it. I know a lot of people who watch porn which shows something very different from their own sexual experiences; or what they enjoy. A lot of guys are into more than one thing. Like women are sometimes into both muscular guys and skinny guys.

    As long as it isn't effecting your relationship I really wouldn't worry about it. The only way you can know for certain is by asking him outright - which is better than speculating.

  • I wouldn't worry about this. Like others have said, he's probably just looking for variety. Besides, if he wanted to be with a fat girl don't you think he'd be with one?

  • maybe that's just his kink everybody has different ones, don't worry until you get dumped for a bbw, obviously he is with you for a reason

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  • I prefer "Chubby, Chunky, or BBW's" as they have been so politically named. I think if you wanted to you could find a way to address it and see why he likes it. Sit next to him next time he's watching it and start kissing and rubbing on him... Slide in a question as to what turns him on when he watches it or why he watches it. The surprising thing is most men will say in public or around friends BBWS are fat and unacceptable. The truth is I think they are extremely hot and not afraid to admit it. !

  • He has a beautiful, sexy, skinny girl for a girlfriend. He doesn't want to see any more of those. He is looking for variety, something different, but when the lights go out, he is with you.

    His porn is rather a private thing. You should stay out of that.

    • Sorry I disagree. If you are in a relationship, ANYTHING sexual should be discussed and shared among your partner. But that is just my opinion.

    • You were correct about one thing, it is just your opinion. I don't care one way or the other what your opinion is, or I would read your answer below. But hey thanks for correcting me, I had been under the impression that I could take what ever position I wanted.

    • No one has any claim on your fantasy life but you. If you want to share, fine. If not, fine.

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  • To review: porn is fantasy, not reality. It's about what you don't have, not what you do.

    So, he has a petite girl in his real life, and chubby girls in his fantasy life. Straightforward.

    P.S.: "Chubby chasers" are fairly common, but at 107, you have no reason to know this.

  • You never know what turns a guy on... I get turned on by panties, he likes chubby girls. It may be something he is kind of ashamed of admitting to.

  • My only serious gf's are always tiny, fit, and hot. Sometimes, it's nice to look at something different, so yes, I can understand why he's looking at bbw. I'd never date a bbw, but I've f'd a couple of them and I do enjoy looking at bbw porn occasionally, because it's so different from the girls who really, really attract me.

  • ... maybe your boyfriend

    is one of those weird people ..

  • I can't explain your BF's thought process, but I can offer the solace of knowing that if you really are petite and weigh 107, you could always ditch him since there are more than a few guys that like thin/petite women.

  • no that's odd because I know I don't and I know my guy friends don't so real weird