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The guy I'm dating has a small penis?

So I've been dating this guy and I really really like him. His penis is small though and yesterday it came up in convo. He said "god blessed me with many things...but not that"... I told him he was perfect for me because he is. My concern is not for me but for him. Do men with a smaller penis feel satisfied with the average vagina size? I would consider my vagina to be smaller than average only because all the men I've had sex with have been between 6-8 inches. My ex was 8 and the sex was so painful I couldn't enjoy it. The same deal with the man who was about 7. My guess is my current guy is about 5.5 inches and lets not even talk about girth lol. Anyway- should I be worried that since his penis is small that maybe it feels like the vagina is too big for him? I hope this makes sense.
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Most Helpful Guys

  • Your vagina will go back to its natural size, regardless of what you have done in the past.

    There is the possibility that you are not a good fit for one another. This is no ones fault. It is just that we are all different sizes/shapes down there.

    Maybe you can try kegels to strengthen your pelvic muscles. Apart from that, there are plenty of sites that give good advise on positions that help improve the friction.

    Hope this helped. Good luck

  • If it feels good for you there's a good chance it does for him too.

    Kegel work would let you tighten which might feel good for both of you.

    If you're that worried about providing tightness flip over.

Most Helpful Girls

  • He sounds pretty much normal as do you! At your age you have to know that regardless the size of the snakes that have previously explored your cervix through your vagina, that when they pull out it only takes moments before that little sweet warm and wet pussy, vagina and all goes back to it's original size. He will be just fine with you

  • 5.5 inches is not small, it's average. His size shouldn't affect anything. My boyfriend is that size and I don't think it's "small" at all, it's plenty big for me. It should be fine.

  • that is so bad - er get over it - I'm sure he is really nice and if you don't like him then dump him don't talk about something he could be insecure about.

    • no where in my question did I saw I did not like him or his penis size.. learn to read before answering maybe?

    • i know you didn't and its 'say' - I just said you shouldn't be discussing something personal about him on here that's my opinion tho

    • This is an anonymous thing..This is what the site is for. If I asked on Facebook or something like that then yes I'd see your point and have to agree... also I am fully aware of my typo.

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  • i don't think you need to worry that your vagina is going to feel to big for him. and 5.5 isn't small it's pretty average perhaps even leaning towads above average

  • 5.5 isn't small. It's average.

  • Kegels and all that sure, and if it turns into an issue for him you can always let him put it in your butt. You'll be tighter back there and have more control. Some girls really like it.

  • First, he is probably just grateful to have a girlfriend who loves him despite his penis size. Do make sure he is aware of your preference for a penis that is not above average due to pain. There are exercises that you can do to strengthen your vaginal muscles (yes you have vaginal muscles) and then you can use them to hold onto his manhood while he makes love to you. This will enhance his experience. Also some positions are better than others for this. Doggy style with your thighs together will feel much tighter to him than missionary position with yourself wide open. There may be others I don't know about. Some guys have a more enjoyable orgasm from getting head and one woman I met who hated giving head and was paranoid about having a penis in either her vagina or anus, became an expert at handjobs and her handjobs were better than most women's blow jobs. She could literally make it last ten times as long and make it far more intense than anyone else. If you like sucking dick then try to see if his balls will also fit in your mouth. For some guys this is an amazing and wild experience.

  • Do your kegels. I'm sure he'll be fine.

  • Wow I though he had like a 3 inch penis. 5.5 isn't small lol

    • I think I may know what's going on here. Since like 3% or less of people have a 8 inch penis, you probably just though a guy with a 6 inch had 8. This would explain why a guy with a 5.5 inch penis warns you about it. That's because he's probably more like 3 or maybe 4 inches at the most.

    • you might be right.. maybe I am guessing wrong. He is probably smaller than 5.5. I've 27 years old but I've only had sex with about 5 men since I was in 2 very long relationships. Those men were much larger than him. But I didn't take a ruler and measure lol.

    • An iPhone 5s is 4.87" long, to give you perspective on size

  • That isn't even small believe it or not. That is average.

  • The vagina is a wonderful thing. It forms around a penis no matter what size (as long as it can get in) Being under-endowed... a trick I learned years ago was to put a finger in and leave it for a while, that way I felt bigger to them.

  • Can I show u mine

  • Is his girth really that small? What kind of girth were the 7 and 8 inchers packing and how much smaller is this guy?

    • Yes that's what I should have said in the post.. it's the girth that makes it feel like nothing.. lol My ex's were just huge. I guess I'm just not use to this and felt worried.

    • How big around were your exes? Like could you get your hand all the way around them? Did they fit in your mouth? And how thin is this guys dick? When you say it feels like nothing I take it you've gone from "ouch!" with the exes to "is that it?" with the current guy? Have you ever had a guy where you were like, "oh yeah! that's just right!" :P

    • My ex was so large that I never wanted to have sex. It wasn't the length it was the girth and shape. I would have to angel my body sideways just to feel comfortable. I could barley reach finger to finger around it.. Yes, with my most recent ex It felt perfect. He was probably average size. This guy I'm with now.. I mean, when wrapping my hand around- my fingers overlap. lol

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  • 5.5 is average, not small. I thought you were going to say he had a 3 inch dick or something.

  • Guys will be satisfied with an avg vag. But being smaller in society is looked down upon and many guys think that they might not be able to satisfy their partner. So his ego is hurt due to the size of his manhood and thinking he can't satisfy you like someone much bigger would be able to.

  • 5.5 inches is exactly average...enough length to get a good thrust. Girth is perhaps more important. If he had a 5.5" girth, he'd be formidable. I'm thinking 4.5 is adequate. If you are with him only and you don't have a wider toy, you will shrink to fit him.

  • The smaller the tool the more children he will have. Life does have a balance!

  • This size is not small - it is OK for the purpose. Nature has designed our genitals to produce babies, to keep the human life ever lasting in the world. To keep us doing it - nature has designed urge for sex. If it do not slip out during motions and you can enjoy him - there is no size problem.

  • That's average size

    • I agree :P

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