Can it ever work with a girl that had a 3some?

[Anonymous]

I started dating a girl and after 3 months she told me she had chlamydia. I found out she got this within the first month of us dating from sleeping with two other guys at the same time. We weren't exactly a couple but I wouldn't have expected her to do this when we started sleeping with each other. She basically said she got drunk, spit roasted from both of them taking it in turns then they fucked her in both holes at the same time. I don't know if I can move forward from this but I really love her. It's killing me. She says she has never felt so much love as she feels for me. The bit which also gets to me is that we were meant to go for a picnic which I had organised and she cancelled to do this. Will this ever work? Am I able to trust anyone ever again? Are all women really this filthy?

[Kinstrome]

It's understandable to feel that antipathy towards women in general when one of them hurts you badly, but not all women are filthy. First, you need to stop seeing her. Unless what she did is something you can morally condone, you need to aim for someone you'll actually respect.

It's important to still hang out with women, even if you need some alone time first, so that you don't develop a prejudice based on what one woman did. My brother's girlfriend of two years cheated on him, and it took him a long time to stop feeling hatred towards women because he was already so isolated and let himself focus on that one bad thing instead of the many good times.

[syrick]

its bothering you ot much it won't work. oh my god. she cheated on you. shit. of coarse it won't work tasts messe dup. what was she thinking. hoenstly thst what she gets. I wonder fi that's true. its not easy ot get clemedia. she might have lied and been sleeping around way more.

[indian_empress_91]

I'd break up with her. I don't think it'll work. Yes you will be able to trust someone again just be more wise in whom you date or get into a relationship with. Nope not all women are like your girl, are all men assholes? You just need to talk to her and if it's bothering you and you have a right to feel this way . I say you deserve better

[BouncyPerkyFun]

Since it is bothering you so much, I doubt this will work out. Will you be able to trust again? That's on you and what type of person you are. If you are the kind of person who will judge an entire gender on the actions of one woman, then no you will not be able to trust again.

[XxNatashaxX]

if I was in your situation I wouldn't think twice to dump her..

[05Jueey]

Filthy? Wth? She was exploring her sexuality as everyone does. You're kind of "filthy" for calling her that for being a natural human being. I'm not incredibly surprised she cancelled on you...

[Tarvold]

You are an absolute idiot if you were to give up this girl over this.

Understand that she has done nothing wrong by you, and it is you who is closed minded and insecure about her past. Whatever she's done, it was something in the past, and she's taken the courage to open up to you honestly and candidly about it all.

If you don't value courage and honesty in a partner, I have no idea what it could be that you're looking for.

[yaddayaddayadda02]

She got double teamed while they were dating, and she didn't let him know that he was at risk of diseases from her irresponsible behavior. I can't imagine putting up with it.

[Tarvold]

Dating is not exclusive! He even said that they weren't a couple. Put it another way - there's no way any man would give up the chance at a threesome with two girls just because he bought another girl dinner once or twice. Chlamydia is curable, and she's telling him so that he can take preventative measures too. This is crazy. Why are we still hating on women like this in the 21st century!?

[05Jueey]

I completely agree with this answer

[Anonymous]

Sure I suppose... but that's a little... LOL