How many guys actually do this?

[Anonymous]

I got into a fight with my boyfriend over something that I though was Suspect. I found texts on his phone from a male co worker saying somebody named Kevin wanted to fuck him (my bf). The person who sent the text was named "Gay Guy Frank" in my bf's phone. Gay Guy Frank and my boyfriend were telling each other to suck a dick in a lot of the texts and another text said. Go get the cheese from (blank) he will give it to you real easy! and my boyfriend wrote back you want some? gay guy frank wrote back, just go he will give it to you easy. to me that sounded like something sexual was going to happen. i feel like my boyfriend is either gay or bi not only because of the texts but because he never initiates sex and he doesn't seem interested he only likes getting bjs from me. he also doesn't do foreplay and if there is foreplay its very short. he asks me questions about my brother a lot and comments about other guys sometimes. one time we were in the car and we saw this guy walking down the street my boyfriend said "he's fat". and another time at the mall a openly gay guy who was wearing girl clothes came into the same store. my boyfriend looked at him and said "he's a f**got" and yet he was still staring at the guy even as he walked out of the store. I found that weird. and the last thing everytime my boyfriend drives over a bump or a pothole he says oww my ass. that's really sus to me anyway tell me what you think about all of this. I asked him many times if he was gay/bi he says he straight but I don't really believe him.

[Anonymous]

It's definitely suspect, but that's almost beside the point. I'd never be satisfied with a man who only enjoyed blowjobs and the rest of our sex life was lacking and disappointing. That alone would be enough for me to move on. That's a man, gay or not, who has no desire to please you.

[Sarahplus2]

you were invading his privacy. I am not sure about this.

[indy7]

Can't say I've ever done that, but I'm straight as an arrow. Get him in bed, start sucking his dick, REAL hard, then stick a finger or two up his butt. See if his eyes light up and a big grin appears on his face.

[stubbsy]

He has to be gay to even text like this, because no straight guy would talk like this, fact,x

[Asker]

he told me everybody at his work and even his brothers JOKE around like that

[stubbsy]

Well I have worked at a few male dominated places and never have I heard any guy who is straight talk gay, so they either all have gay tendencies or they are disturbed in some way, but they are not straight, because if a straight guy spoke to me like this, I would instantly assume he was gay, because it just don't happen with guys. We just don't behave like that,x

[Asker]

my boyfriend is Asian like most of his co workers are asian, some are married or have gfs and some even have kids, but they say suspect things to each other on Facebook and they think its funny. The thing that's really starting to bother me is that they were texts not something said out loud at work so everybody could hear. Why would they text each other these things if everybody at work "jokes" like that.

[stubbsy]

I don't know, you have got me there, I can't explain wh, because as far as I am concerned, straight guys would not behave like this, sorry,x

[Dionysos]

Pretty much just the gay or bisexual ones I imagine.

[1inmillion]

Really...you don't know do you?

[Asker]

know what

[SeekingWater]

hes flaming gay, are you that blind?

[Libertycityguy]

I discovered my ex girlfriend was reading my email. She knew my password so I put a phony message there from phony gay website.

[showt1me]

bi-curious?

[Asker]

I think so he just won't be honest with me

[Anonymous]

wow that's ... yes you are right to suspect

[Anonymous]

Charming. Ain't young love grand? Those stupid religious people are missing out on all the fun.